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with authors Dave Opalewski and Joel Robertson |
Our Two guests are Dave Opalewski and Joel Robertson, authors of "Crises Response Planning", published by Balance Group
Joel and Dave, Bob R/CA will be here also, he is the co-creator of the site.
Bob R/CA - I am here, welcome Dave and Joel, thanks for being here. just ask if you have any questions
Dave - Statistics show that a crisis such as the one’s we address occur at least once in five years in every school. Our manual and videotape training kit provides effective and appropriate training and materials to schools prior to a tragedy.
Our materials address the pre-crisis planning, the crisis time, and post-crisis follow-up necessary to plan and respond appropriately to a crisis. We address specific types of crises including homicide, suicide, and death by accident or illness, of both students and staff members.
I have been in education for 26 years and have experienced the death of 25 students or staff members. I have been a replacement teacher in the fifth grade classroom when my best friend in education died in a tragic accident. I have used these experiences to create these materials for others to use, and not to experience the difficulties we experienced when not having a clear crisis plan.
I teach Death & Dying and Suicide Prevention for Central Michigan University. I have been an Aftercare consultant for a funeral home. My Master Thesis is titled Death Education: Concerns for the Classroom Teacher.
Dr. Joel - I have
worked extensively in the area of brain chemistry and behavior.
My background in neuropharmacology brought me into
the field of compulsivity, violence, suicide, etc with kids. A neuropharmacologist,
is a med. school degree that specializes in brain chemistry. I
am the president of Robertson Institute in the US and Australia. We do
reseach on brain chemistry, behavior and methods to enhance chemical imbalances.
I have written more than 10 books in the field. We can be contacted for
more information at peakperformance@worldnet.att.net
Dave - We appreciate
the opportunity to share our experiences with you tonight.
Dave - We are ready
for any questions.
Kathleen. - Dave,
is your progrm training for trainers?
Dave - Yes, our kit
includes videos and facilitator guides so that entire districts can train
within themselves.
Dr. Joel - There
are some fascinating connection between brain chemistry, violence and suicide
that we address in our training and books. This information is helpful
in prevention and treatment of adolescents in trouble.
Sea/2 - do you mean
"train themselves" as counselors?
Kathleen. - So, Joel,
part of the program involves watching for warning signs?
Sea/2 - what did
you learn about brain chemistry in connection to violence?
Dave - Sea / we believe
that the students respond best to familiar faces, so yes we do train you
as counselors
Mountaineer 4/WV
- Can you give us some of the warning signs?
Dr. Joel - No questions
that warning signs can be helpful not only in identifing the crises but
in helping staff to understand the hows and whys of violence
Dave - Mountaineer
- Do you mean violence or suicide?
Dr. Joel - Brain
chemistry, specifically low serotonin, predispose adolescents to suicide
and violent behavior. It also correlates with compulsivity, such as drug
and alcohol abuse
Sea/2 - Dr. Joel,
the hows and whys of violence? is it a chemical inbalance?
Doodah - Aren't we
talking about the kinds of warning signs that any teacher could recognize?
sue - dave, I recently
had an experience with my church day school. One of the children's parents
killed his wife in a crowded mall and then disappeared. His child was in
school and the police sent in an entire swat team to protect him and the
other 105 students complete with guns, scopes and bulletproof vests. How
can you plan to help children deal with something like that?
Mountaineer 4/WV
- I would like some warning signs that I could note as a classroom teacher
as to violence AND suicide, altho' right now I am more interested in violence
Jen/NJ2MD - What
things can be done to best prevent violent behavior in students?
Dr. Joel - Sea that
is a connection as I mentioned between brain chemistry and violence. ALthough
it isn't the only factor it appears to be one of the major factors in teen
suicide (self directed violence) or in violence
Dave - Doodah - yes
definitely
Sea/2 - Dr. Joel,
are you saying they needed to be on meds to prevent it? Like anti-depressants?
Dr. Joel - Jen most
adolescents don't have a great deal of skill in dealing with conflict resolution.
Part of our program is to teach such issues as part of suicide prevention.
JJ - Dr. Joel, does
this brain chemistry have anything to do with ADD, ADHD, FAS, or FAE?
Sea/2 - Dr. Joel,
your team comes into schools when they are in crisis situations?
Dr. Doolittle - Sue...what
happened to the child? Was he placed in protective custody? Did they ever
find the dad?
Jen/NJ2MD - RE: Kathleen's
question, did you do longitudinal studies, Dr. J?
Dr. Joel - Sea, medication
isn't usually the answer as much as using specific behavior and learning
techniques to enhance serotonin levels, except in depression that is genetically
based on.
Dave - Sue - we cannot
control the factor of fear, we help the school be prepared for the most
common types of crises by establishing plans for dealing with media, families,
community.
Kathleen. - Dave,
does preparation decrease fear?
Dr. Joel - Sea, we
equip the school to handle the crises. Our manuals are very detailed to
offer guidelines on handling crises. In our studies when the teachers and
other familiar people handle the crises the students grow through the experience
sue - dr doo, the
child was placed in protective custody, the father committed suicide the
next morning.
Sea/2 - to enhance
serotonin levels you... (help them to laugh maybe?)
Doodah - Learning
techniques to increase setotonin levels?...What do you mean?
Dr. Doolittle - That
is so tragic Sue! I guess that's why we're here.
Dr. Joel - JJ, Yes
in fact I have a new book that addresses ADD specifically and the issues
of brain chemistry. Harper Collins is my publisher. Balance group, the
publishers our teachers manuals will probably be offering some additional
help soon
Dr. Joel - Sea, exactly
things such as meditation,specific types of exercise, quiet time, can all
contribute to increasing serotonin
Dave - Sue - the
Crises Response Planning would have allowed the school to have the crises
team well defined with roles well understood for such situations. However
yours is very tragic and we hope that your community helped support you
through this time.
sue - dave, the parents
of the other children were very upset becuase they were not called or allowed
to pick up their children by order of the police who feared a hostage/
shoot out situation. There was no follow up for the children although the
parents were asked to be aware of signs of stress.
Dr. Joel - Doodah,
serotonin is affected by diet, exercise, certain nutritional issues, thoughts
and conflict as well as medication
Dr. Doolittle - Is
behavior modification helpful when students start to exhibit violent behavior?
In other words, is it OK to punish the student for the behavior and reinforce
positive behaviors?
Anna/Aust - Sue:
The protective custody the child went was familiar to him ?
judith - I live in
Springfield Oregon
Sea/2 - Dr. Joel...could
you share some of these techniques that help (exercises?)
Dave - Sue - Just
as important is the debriefing process so that students have the proper
opportunity to express their fears and discuss them with caring adults.
Dr. Joel - In our
research with more than 12,000 patients we find all but the most severe
cases can respond without medicaiton. That doesn't overshadow the importance
of medication, just less of a need than we orignally thought
Sea/2 - sounds like
if you could bottle serontonin...it would be a happy potent!
Kathleen. - judith,
Springfield Oregon, the site of the most recent school tragedies??
judith - Are you
talking about ridolin (sp?)
judith - Kathleen,
yes it is
Dr. Joel - Sea, quiet
activities in a person that is basically sedentary, ie walk in the park
or in nature increase serotonin levels. I published an article in New Woman
magazine this month that gives more info
judith - His father
was my Spanish teacher
sue - no anna-- it
was just a policeman, they didn't want anyone familar around him for fear
of the the father. Good news though the little guy is doing better now
and has been adopted by his aunt
Jen/NJ2MD - RE: Sea/2
isn't Prozac s/t to inc serotonin?
Dave - Dr. Doolittle
- discipline for correction of the violent is appropriate from a corrections
standpoint not a punishment standpoint
Sea/2 - no judith...ritalin
is a stimulant that helps some ADD kids...but i think this is different...
Mountaineer 4/WV
- Does increased seratonin help with depression and a tendency toward violence?
Dr. Joel - Serotonin
is certainly the number one genetic biochemical malady that we have. Our
lifestyles also tend to create a problem with maintaining adequate levels
of serotonin. We need to get balanced in our society to improve our serotonin
levels
Kathleen. - judith,
you have a very real perspective on this topic
judith - so is the
doctor recommending serotonin for teens
Sea/2 - dr. j...that
sounds very interesting...i know how much my little afternoon walks (about
15 min.) relax me
Dr. Joel - Mountaineer,
in incarcerated individuals with low sertonin, increasing levels decrease
violence, compulsivity and depression
Dr. Doolittle - But
how do you increase serotonin in a school environment? Take the kid outside
and walk him around if he starts exhibiting violent behavior?
Dave - Everyone -
we have found that the method that a school handles the crises has a major
impact on the lives of those students long after they have graduated.
Jen/NJ2MD - Why does
it seem that most of the violent stories you hear in the news is committed
by young males?
judith - Yes, I wear
my blue ribbon and black and red ribbon regularly. It's something we can't
just let go. It's too present.
Doodah - Obviously,
having fences, security cameras, and security guards is not enough, right
Judith?
JJ - Dave, or Dr.Joel,
I just heard on the news about a program called "Leash on Life" which is
a program to connect violent teens with abuse animals where the teens care
for the animals. Have you heard of this?? Would this help the Serotonin
levels?
Dr. Joel - Judith,
teens with low serotonin (generally kids with out a nuturing system) are
predisposed to low serotoin
~§Jude§~
- That is what I do Dr. Doolittle, a walk helps my kids a lot...plus then
you loose the audience effect.
judith - nurturing
increases serotonin then?
Dr. Joel - Jen, low
serotonin combined with high dopamine, which is more prevalent in males,
creates outward violence
meeha/ece/tx - So,
Dr. Joel, after what period of time is it difficult to "remedy decreased
serotonin
Dave - JJ - see the
response from Dr. Joel to Jen.
Dr. Doolittle - Do
you take your whole class Jude?
~§Jude§~
- JJ a lot of local training schools here have "pet therapy" it is great,
the kids help the APS adopt them out too
Sea/2 - so serotonin
is the serenity, feel-good part of the brain!!! nature and loving environments
enhance it...(?)
Dr. Joel - meeha,
if low serotonin is present it takes between 2-4 months for the person
to see positive signs
Kathleen. - Is it
as it seems, that there is more violence, more violent males??
Dr. Joel - Sea, yes,
plus it is the anti-depression and anti compulsive part of our brain chemistry
~§Jude§~
- I work with the ones who go out of control a lot...usually I just walk
with the one who is loosing control
judith - This is
confusing. Serotonin is released through nurturning - yet we have to be
careful how much we touch or get close to these kids. it's a controdiction
Sea/2 - how do you
"test" for serontonin? blood test?
Dave - Everyone -
large amounts of research have shown that students would rather grieve
with people they see every day at school, not outside professionals brought
in for the day.
Dr. Joel - Kathleen,
yes outward directed violence is more prevalent with males because of the
social conditions that favor increased dopamine
Sea/2 - so true,
judith
Jen/NJ2MD - Dr. Joel,
could you clarify your response to meeha. Do you mean 2-4 of medication
and therapy is needed to inc seratonin?
judith - Sea2 what
can we do
Sea/2 - social conditions
like "be macho" (?)
Dr. Doolittle - Jude...I
average 33 students in a class, I have removed one to a hallway to talk
with privately but to leave my whole class...?
~§Jude§~
- that appears to be a liability issue Judith, not a "best interest" issue...I
hate it too
Jen/NJ2MD - Judith
you're right on target with that dilemma!
meeha/ece/tx - anti
compulsive part of the brain -- is there a decreased level of serotonin
in ADD children??
Dr. Joel - Sea, we
developed a series of phsyiological questions that relate to brain chemistry
that is similar to measuring signs and symptoms. This works like blood
pressure. No blood tests tell high or low serotonn only the signs and symptoms
Dave - Everyone -
How many of us make good decisions when under large amounts of stress (related
to a tragedy), we help to make decisions ahead of time, so that they are
not affected by the stress of the situation.
Doodah - Let me see
if I understand...if we notice the signs, we can suspect low serotonin,
and we then start nurturing, and should see results in 2-4 months?
judith - You can't
leave your whole class. You're responsible if something happens. It's double
jearpody. The kid needs you but you can't be two places at once.
Dr. Joel - Jen, no
in 93% of our cases of non-psychotic patients their symptoms improved in
2-4 months without medicaiton
Sea/2 - judith, with
some of my "bizarre" kids a quiet touch on the shoulder and "being near"
is calming...(wouldn't want to hug them when I'm upset with them anyway!!!)
judith - so there
is a way to predict violent behavior in a child
~§Jude§~
- no I would not take the whole class, I should have clarified that I am
not a regular ed teacher
Dr. Joel - meeha,
I believe there are 6 different types of ADD. The lack of concentration
with out hyperactivity and with compulsivity is predominately related to
low serotonin
judith - Seal/2 I
understand. I sometimes just touch their shoulder. Some kids actually pull
away even if touched on the shoulder.
Dr. Joel - Judith,
violence, compulsivity, and lack of nuturing under the age of 12 years
of age are good indicators for a violent teen
Sea/2 - sad but true,
judith
Mountaineer 4/WV
- My ADHD kid didn't want to be touched
~§Jude§~
- that sounds like "attachment disorder" as well Dr. Joel
judith - Curious
- Kip was nurtured, but always had a temper and violent side to him. What
could be done for him
hegumbe - Dave and
Dr. Joel, How could your crisis program be used to help crises like those
that happened in springfield, Paducah, etc.?
Jen/NJ2MD - Judith
and Sea, I used to give my kids HI-5s when they enter or leave my class.
Creates good vibes with a touch that cannot be misinterpreted:-}
Dr. Joel - Mountainner,
ADHD kids usually have low serotoninn and high dopamine, which creates
a mistrust and certain fear of being touched. I agree with you
Mary K&1 - Does
this also relate to early bonding or lack there of?
Sea/2 - dave, how
can questions identify the low serotoninn?
Dave - Everyone -
Just a quiz. Does your crises plan cover...Catastrophic death, such as
those resulting from a school bus accident? An HIV-positive student breaks
his/her code of silence? A memorial service on school grounds? Separate
policies and procedures for accidental death versus suicidal death? Letters
to parents and remembrance activities? More to follow (first 4 of 14)
Sea/2 - sounds good,
jen
judith - Thanks for
the H-5 idea
Dr. Joel - Judith,
does Kip have a parenteral history of depression, addiction, or other compulsivity?
Sea/2 - betcha it
does, mary K&1
Kathleen. - Dave,
I don't think my school covers 10% of those events
Sea/2 - gee, dave...no
way!
Dave - hegumbe -
we would know exact procedures before it happened, including protective
procedures for students, handling of media (no free-roaming)
Janice/2/IL - Dave,
we have a crises team at our school, but none of the teachers have been
trained.
JJ - Does your program
deal with day-to-day problems as well as crisis planning?
Dr. Doolittle - I
have never seen a crisis plan at my school!
Dr. Joel - Sea, physiological
signs and symptoms, such as focusing eyes, etc. relate to peripheral signs
that relate to central signs. It is rather complex, but accurate, in non
psychotic patents
Mountaineer 4/WV
- We have no crisis plan for anything!!!
judith - he had a
great fasination with guns and bombs. The entire house had bombs in it.
They had to tear part of the house down to get to the bombs. His parents
couldn't stop it. they were not into guns at all.
Sea/2 - do "professionals"
have to give the quiz, Dr. Joel?
Dr. Joel - JJ, our
program is set up for pre-crises, crises and post crises. In the pre and
post we deal with the everyday issues
meeha/ece/tx - My
school's plan didn't cover a child havin a seizure in the classroom! We
worked through it, though.
Dr. Joel - Sea, we
certify counselors, physicians, psychologists to administer the test
judith - Dr. Joel,
It was the crisis plan that Thurston High had implimented and taught to
the kids and staff that saved so many lives.
Dave - Everyone -
additional crises plan quiz items - Dealing with the media? Returning personal
property of deceased students or staff? Death occurring on school grounds
while school is in session? Attempted suicide on school grounds, and a
plan for the individual's return to school? Lesson plans for grieving students?
Kathleen. - Dr. Joel,
is the physiological information you've been sharing here included in the
Crises Response Planning Program you authored and which is available via
Balance Group Publsihing?
Sea/2 - that's true,
judith! it's important
shannon - question-
to anyone- do you involve police in all drug incidents-
Kathleen. - Dave,
no, no, no, no, and no :-(
Doodah - My school's
plan covers a multitude of crises, but I haven't learned the manual...wouldn't
have time to read it all in an emergency.
Sea/2 - good grief...these
are sure sad times
~§Jude§~
- yes shannon, it is law here
rufrider - i think
we get the picture dave
Jen/NJ2MD - Lesson
plans for grieving students? Tell me more!
Dave - Final quiz
items - Policies for replacing a teacher who dies? Establishing and staffing
a crisis room? Counseling procedures for the crisis room? An annual review
of policies and procedures? Just some food for thought!
Dr. Doolittle - I
had never even thought of so many crisis that could happen in a school!
Janice/2/IL - I wish
we would of had lesson plans for our grieving students. We had a little
girl die during school hours from an allergic reaction.
meeha/ece/tx - So,
is your 'program' affordable for individual teachers? Is ther a way to
purchase the manual without the videos, etc...
Dr. Joel - Kathleen,
the information is partly included through Balance Group. Further information
can be obtained from them or through peakperformance@worldnet.att.net.
Additionally, I have a book "Natrual Prozac" available in major bookstroes
that addresses depression and brain chemistry
rufrider - shouldn't
a child be counseled privately by a guidance counselor or school phych?
Sea/2 - oh janice!
so sorry
judith - I was amazed
and impressed at how well Thurston High handled the situation. I was also
impressed with the city of Springfield and it's response.
Dave - Jen - We want
to make sure that students acknowledge the death, allow them to express
their feelings, and allow them an outlet for their desire to help. Specific
plans for each are in the manuals
Dr. Joel - Janice,
we have a curriclum on grief that is helpful in these type of situations
Sea/2 - i think the
brain chemistry stuff is fascinating...thanks for sharing it, Dr.
Joel
shannon - what about
young- elementary age? Dr. Joel- do you have any info?
Dr. Joel - rufrider
each child is different, during the crises the students need support, those
that are predisposed to additional problems can be referred for further
counsleing. we address how to make a referral and make sure you have a
ready referral in the manual
Kathleen. - Joel
and Dave, meet Tony Bott the co-creator (with Bob) of Teachers.Net, Tony,
Joel and Dave :-)
Sea/2 - shannon,
i think in younger elementary it surely supports giving kids a little "free"
recess time...makes me feel better to see them unwind, too!
judith - Dr. Joel,
I'd like to get back to this being predisposed to violence. It seems to
me that children are much more violent today then in my day. Is this true
and if so why?
Dr. Joel - Sea, thanks,
i've been doing it for 20 years and get excited every day with the new
technology
Dave - Jen - we lost
our message to you, here it is again. We let them acknowledge the death,
express their feelings, and offer an outlet for their desire to help. Specific
plans are included in the manual.
Anna/Aust - Also
really enjoying this from Downunder!
Dr. Joel - Shannon,
what info are you looking for
Doodah - Dr. Joel
and Dave, how long have your materials been available to schools?
Sea/2 - Dr. Joel,
i've been teaching for 24...and just now learning about it! (I'll look
for your book.)
sue - dr. joel, I
teach 4 year olds in a depressed area, I am seeing more and more seriously
violent children who have witnessed deaths, fights and gang warfare in
their short lives. Does you program offer suggestions on how to help overcome
these obstacles and decrease violence?
Dave - Jen - It works
so well when you are planned for it ahead of time. It works with students
grieving from losing parents, siblings, friends.
Dr. Joel - Judith,
it appears that low serotonin is a dominate genetic trait and that our
society is getting increasing more adolescents with low serotonin
Kathleen. - Folks,
following this discussion, you might click on that nice graphic in the
left frame and explore the information available about the Crises Response
Planning Program that is available for purchase for your school systems
Dave - Doodah - materials
2 years, i have taught this for 10 years.
rufrider - not necessarily
sea, our district does not condone free recess time
Janice - The problem
with this little girl dying was that the mother complained before that
of sick building syndrome. The principal treated her like she was a hypochondriac!
Then her girl dies!
shannon - Dr J- info
concerning what to do about elem. SBH students stuck in DH setting
Dr. Joel - sue, contact
Balance Group and my office, RObertson Institute has materials for elementary
kids. The survey we use with them requires a teachers, parents and one
other adult that knows the child to complete the survey to get an accurate
view
Mountaineer - So,
Dr Joel, how can we as teachers increase seratonin in our students?
Sea/2 - rufrider,
not even 10 min. after lunch for K-3?
Tony B/CA - yes,
judith, I was thinking of the same issue. Predisposition to violence -
how can elementary school teachers, say grade 5/6, most effectively address
the issue in class?
meeha/ece/tx - So
... how much of this behavior is neurochemical and how much is 'environmentally
taught"?
Sea/2 - oh janice!
judith - Dr. Joel
why is this happening. why would seratonian levels be going down?
sue - will do dr
joel, thanks.
Sea/2 - mountaineer...and
in teachers too!!! (increase our levels!!)
judith - tony, good
question.
Dr. Joel - Tony,
each child is different. we are looking at activities such as "getting
ready to learn" for these kids. When we know a child's specific issues
we use diet, activity, learning techniques and occassionally medication
to enhance serotonin
Kathleen. - and,
to follow up Tony's question, should we teach lessons or is it more designing
an environment??
rufrider - sea as
teachers we just take it, but it's not really condoned
sue - judith, if
serotonin requires nurturing and there is a lack of nurturing there will
be a lower level of sertonin-- am I correct dr joel?
Sea/2 - meeha, good
question...more tv violence today?
Dave - Quiztime Again
- How many of you would replace a teacher who dies with a substitute the
very next morning?
hegumbe - Dave, do
schools usually have a crisis plan/program? I don't think I have ever seen
one for any of our schools.
Sea/2 - Dr. Joel...which
meds...prozac?
judith - you are
so right dr. Joel so what's the rememdy. Sneak seratonin into their bribe
candy
Kathleen. - Dave,
what is the alternative to the sub?
Dr. Doolittle - What
is the alternative Dave?
Jen/NJ2MD - Dave,
ohmigosh, that's a toughie!
Dr. Joel - Judith,
I believe that constant brain stimulation such as what we get with violent
movies, constant activities and video games cause an increase in dopamine
which creates a rebound decrease in serotoin. Since we don't have the slower
pace any longer we will probably continue to see this happen
Dave - Quiz answer
- the proper method is to put a familiar face (everyone loves the gym teacher)
for a couple weekes and phase in the new teacher.
sue - I would not
Dave.
Sea/2 - too bad,
rufrider! show them this chat print out!
Dave - hegumbe -
most don't, they normally fly by the seat of their pants and make mistakes
JJ - Dave, tough
question! We had a teacher who passed away over the summer. Didn't have
a plan for anything. It really affected kids and staff!
Mary K&1 - Are
there any early intervention steps that can be taken? ages 5 and 6
Dr. Joel - Sue, yes
that is certainly part of it. A child's brain is developing the first 12
years. when it isn't nutured the child developos thoughts that decrease
serotoin levels. Apparently, what we detemine as normal levels at that
age stick with us as adults
Dave - hegumbe -
the other easy out for most schools is outside counselors that we have
found the students will not open up to.
sue - ok dave here's
another question-- it was a rough year for me. A beloved teacher assistant
for the 4's was diagnosed with terminal cancer and given 3 months to live.
What would you have told the students?
Sea/2 - that would
be better, dave! (but who teaches p.e.?)
Jimmie/TX - Get a
sub for the PE teacher.
judith - sue personally
I'd tell them the truth. death is part of life i guess i would talk to
the students to find ways to celebrate the teachers life
Dr. Joel - SUe, prozac
is only one way to increase serotoin, many activities, diets and other
learning techniques can be helpful to all but the most severe cases. Prozac,
Zoloft, etc. may be a jump start in some cases, but not most.
rufrider - i think
as teachers, we just know sometimes who is predisposed to violence, but
i would like to know what to do when the day actually comes that i am confronted
by a child with a gun, or has one on another kid
Dave - sue - be honest
and truthful and give them an opportunity to express how they feel, even
to the ill teacher. Encourage dialogue between the students and the ill
teacher.
Dave - Jimmie - thank
you, 100% correct
Dr. Doolittle - Here's
a personal one after Sue's. Last summer my son's assistant preschool teacher
died of a brain anurysm. He was not in school during the summer so I did
not take him to the funeral - should I have?
Sea/2 - i wonder...but
imagine it might be true...that certain kinds (types) of music can increase
the good chemical stimulation...and that certain kinds of music can increase
the depo..(sp).. chemicals...hmmmm
judith - dr. Joel,
are drs. starting to test for seratonin levels in children.
Sea/2 - diet...like
chocolate? just read somewhere it has some enhancers...
rufrider - sue, we
had a teacher diagnosed as terminal, the kids all wrote to her weekly,
after her death they create a butterfly garden in her memory
Dave - Sue - saw
a recent 20/20 with an identical situation, they walked with the teacher
right through her final days. Extremely powerful story.
Dr. Joel - Rufrider,
unfortunately there is no formula. However, using methods of calming down,
by giving them various options we can often defuse the issues
sue - Good Dave we
were on track. She told them she wasn't feeling well and had to stay home
and told each of them goodbye. She's in the last stages of hospice care
now and the kids have sent her cards.
hegumbe - Dave, you
said that it is best to have the crisi handled by people the students know.
Who should be on the team?
Sea/2 - that's beautiful,
rufrider
judith - dr. doolittle,
I think yes. This society only makes death something in video games and
tv and movies. It is real and it needs to be made real. Maybe kids wouldn't
kill as easily.
JJ - Dr. Joel, what
are some types of learning techniques we should be doing?
Sea/2 - oh sue...it
makes me want to cry
sue - sea-- I workedin
psyche for several years, music did play a critical role in the behavior
mood of the patientson the closed wing.
Dr. Joel - Judith,
yes we have about 500 clinicians affiliated with us that do that. Technically
the earlier we get involved the more likely we will have adults with healthy
lives
Dave - Dr. Doolittle
- simply stated - if your son wanted to go, then yes. DO NOT force him
to go.
Sea/2 - i know music
affects me, sue
Dr. Joel - hegumbe,
the superindentent, favorite teacher, counselor, even janitoral staff if
the students know them can be valuable additions
Mountaineer - I heard
Mozart is good for the kids to listen to
judith - dr. joel,
what changes have they seen in chidlren that are into guns, bombs, etc
that have been perscribed seratonin
Dave - rufrider and
all - be careful about planting trees, flowers, they tend to die or be
destroyed which leaves a bitter taste.
Dr. Joel - sue music
does effect brain chemistry. Smashing pumpkins increases dopamine while
It's Your Love would increase serotonin
Kathleen. - Dave,
is peer counseling part of your program?
Dr. Doolittle - I
didn't even make it available as an option, I told him about the death
and we talked about it. The school planted a beautiful tree on the grounds
with a plaque but we did not go to the funeral.
Dr. Joel - JJ learning
techniques need to be tailored for the specific child.
Kathleen. - Dave,
that's an interesting point, because often, something living is used as
a memorial
Dave - Kathleen -
not at this level, it takes too many hours of training for the younger
age groups.
rufrider - yes, but
with proper care and nurturing, they only die as the natural circle of
life
Dr. Joel - judith
children that truly have low serotoin show less violence when prescribed
antidepressants that increase serotonin
JJ - Dr. Joel, individualized
teaching?
hegumbe - Dr. Joel,
should we include outside counselors as part of the team? How can the janitor
be included?
judith - why antidepressants?
Kip was on those and it didn't do any good. Granted he had been off when
he committed the murders but he was still into guns and bombs.
Kathleen. - Dr. Joel,
what would a teacher watch for as the first warning sign (potentially violent
behavior)?
Dave - hegumbe -
yes, they are valuable as advisors to the team, and we definitely use them
for referrals after the crisis has past.
Dr. Doolittle - Rufrider...what
about tragedies like anurysms and cancer and shootings and traffic accidents...
judith - dathleen
- one of the early signs and Kip did this too, is violent treatment of
animals and children who are younger than them
Dr. Joel - judith,
kip probably didn't have the chemical imbalance that would work with antidepressants
rufrider - i was
referring to plants Dr.
meeha/ece/tx - Letting
children talk, reading age appropriate literature, validating feelings
and such are the behaviors of all adults supporting children in times of
crisis?
Kathleen. - But,
a teacher might not have the opportunity to know of those behaviors, how
might it be manifested in the classroom?
rufrider - tragedies
do happen, and we have to get us as well as the kids through it
Dr. Joel - Kathleen,
teachers can watch for compulsivity, poor problem resolution skills and
anger as a predispostion to violence
Mary K&1 - Is
there such a thing as Crisis Prevention?
Dave - meeha - Amen,
what you said is great.
judith - i DONT'
KNOW. All this violence with kids. I mean as a sub I even see it with kinders.
It's frighting to be a teacher right now.
JJ - Dr. Joel, which
one of your books would you suggest for reading up on chemical imbalance?
sue - kathleen- one
of the signs I am seeing more and more of is uncontrolled anger out of
proportion to the preceding incident. It's sad to say one of my former
students who is now 5 showed the warning signs last year but didn't "test"
violent. She attacked the K teacher this year with a chair.
Dave - Mary - tragedies
will occur, we help in suicide prevention, but tragedies like the recent
ones in Oregon are unpredictable.
judith - sue this
is what I'm saying. They are kinders and violent and unsocialble.
Kathleen. - sue,
what "test" was used in an effort to determine "violent"?
rufrider - are they
really unpredictable or do we just not take the "signs" seriously enough
Dave - Mary - we
also need to do more work in the area of conflict resolution.
Jen/NJ2MD - Don't
we predestin children with all this labeling?!?
Dr. Joel - JJ, "Natural
PRozac" talks about depression and brain chemistry and "Peak Performance
Living" talks about improving an reasonably health brain chemical. BOth
are available in bookstores or give me a call if you can't find it.
Jimmie/TX - sue,
I see a lot of that uncontrolled anger that is greatly out of proportion
to the preceding incident. Not only with children, either.
rufrider - or not
add them together
Mountaineer - I had
a child this past year that didn't know how to make friends and blew up
at the slightest problem - is he at risk?
sue - I think it's
due to lack of nurturing which leads to the chemical problems judith. that
coupled with a violent environment is hard to counteract
Dave - rufrider -
we help you identify the signs - however we understand teachers deal with
so many students it is easy to not notice the signs.
Kathleen. - So, Dave,
the goal of your program lies more in dealing with the aftermath of crises?
meeha/ece/tx - In
my classroom one of our 'regular' activities includes how to tell someone
else if their behavior or activity is bothering them -- helping children
learn to express their feelings acceptably and accurately has got to help,
too!
Dr. Doolittle - Dave
and Joel...is there such a thing as teaching nuturing? I have a classroom
full of animals to try to precipitate nurturing but I always have a few
students who think it's fun to be cruel to the animals!
Dr. Joel - kathleen,
there are numerous studies, each using different definitions of violence
which leads to some problems in interpretation. Good point.
Tony B/CA - sorry
I am in and out here, I am in a lecture right now - but another question:
Is medication over used? Thinking specifically about Ritalin... (doctors?)
sue - kathleen, she
was seen by a social worker in a one on one situation and given a series
of activities designed to frustrate her.
Dr. Joel - Jen, actually
i don't believe in labeling children only fixing the issue
Dave - Kathleen -
no 1/3 of the program deals with pre-crisis, 1/3 with the crisis, and 1/3
with the aftermath.
Kathleen. - Dave
or Joel, would you describe what the program consists of in terms of materials?
hegumbe - Dave or
Dr. Joel, seems to be a lot of crises happening with middle school children.
Is your plan specific to a school level (elem, middle, sr. high)?
rufrider - our school
is going to go through special training next year as part of dealing with
those really volatile kids, as well as other behaviors that are more serious
then they used to be
Dr. Joel - Dr. Doolittle,
Yes definately. In a recent study we completed with 9 kids who were to
be prescribed medication, we approached them with a learning, etc. approach
and 8 just graduated with average grades from 8th grad
Mary K&1 - I've
been teaching for 29 years - first grade and Kindergarten, - it's not that
hard to see the kids that are headed for big trouble - there's got to be
a way to turn things around - violent behavior shows it's buds early
Tony B/CA - good
point, Dr. Joel - I agree.
Dave - Crises Response
Planning Kit includes: In-Service Training video series, Training Facilitator's
Guide, Procedure Manual, In-Service Training Workbook.
Dr. Joel - hegumbe
we do work with all age groups with specific plans for specific ages
rufrider - well said
mary K
Dave - Kathleen -
I also forgot about the Implementation Guide
Kathleen. - Dave,
how much time does it take a staff to use the materals in the program (hours)?
Jen/NJ2MD - Wouldn't
smaller class sizes help teachers become better able to reach students
individually?
hegumbe - Dave, what
is actually covered in your program?
Mountaineer - We
do Quest in our schools - what do you thinik about that program?
Tony B/CA - right
Mary K&1 - perhaps multi-year team teaching assignments in elementary
schools could help some of these kids. I had that experience -
Dr. Joel - Tony,
part of the research that has been done has shown that medication as a
first resort not only sets the child up for failure, but is less effective
than parenteral involvement. Parenteral involvement often is lacking, partly
because of lack of knowledge
Dave - Kathleen -
6 hours initial training, ongoing review of crises plan.
rufrider - i think
most teachers try to nurture and diffuse, but often there's no reiforcement
at home, then what?
Dr. Doolittle - Good
point Jen! When I am dealing with a class of 35 there is no way I can sit
down and teach a kid how to interact with one of our pets!
AngelJJ/TX - Jen
that is a possibilty but in reality? We have to look for other effective
methods.
Kathleen. - Dave,
that sounds do-able, 6 hours well invested..
Jen/NJ2MD - Tony-Good
call on teaming; definitely helps to learn about stud'ts in diff settings.
Dr. Joel - rufrider,
help is less effective, we need parenteral involvement for the greatest
success
Tony B/CA - Jen,
I had 43 students in an urban school (low-income, "at-risk") - size wasn't
the issue, nurturance and consistency were...
Kathleen. - Dave,
is it group training, could individuals use the program then apply it within
their school?
hegumbe - Sounds
like a good program. Thanks guys and good luck.
Tony B/CA - Yes,
Dr. Joel, glad to hear my intuition is validated by research ;)
rufrider - We use
problem solving and social skills training like teaching steps to making
good choices on specific behaviors
Dave - Hegumbe -
Development of the crises team, policies for media, family, returning property;
roles of the crisis team members and staff; suicide prevention and assessment;
specific procedures for the crises time; proper grief; and more
AngelJJ/TX - Our
school is doing a school wide 2 day workshop on Cooperative Discipline
in August. Have you heard of this approach Dr. Joel?
rufrider - we call
it "Stop and Think"
Mountaineer - I think
lack of parent involvement is a lot of the problem
Kathleen. - hugumbe,
please check out the info available by clicking on the graphic in the left
frame..share it at school
sue - dr joel, in
my area it's the parents who are the problem most of the time. the bigpush
is for "crazy money", SSI checks and they are encouraging children with
problems to act out in class. I hate to sound negative but we have a real
problem with this. Sometimes the medication is the only thing keeping the
kids under control Dr. Joel
- Dr. Doolittle, we are looking at some pilot programs that can help us
accomplish individual support, within a larger group. I know that sounds
strange, but there are some great ideas that I feel can work. I am not
an educator and need people like you to add your expertise to our data
Anna/Aust - Mary:
Often they are the buds from the tree of the parent .
Dr. Doolittle - Thanks
Dave and Joel...good night!
Dave - Mountaineer
- well said
Dr. Joel - angel,
yes, it can be great with the right instructors. We don't yet know the
overall response, but in theory it looks good
Kathleen. - sue,
they may apper to be in control until the big outburst
AngelJJ/TX - Thankyou
Dr. Joel. I am interested in seeing how effective it will be for us.
Dr. Doolittle - Thanks
Dave and Joel...good night!
Jen/NJ2MD - Blaming
the parents is a dead end street, what can we do as educators to advocate
for students' needs?
Dr. Joel - sue, i
hear you and i know that is a major issue. often we can do the best we
can, then turn to medication. my concern is we prescribe out of ignorace
of the problem
sue - kathleen "in
control" is a relative term, they still act out under medication
Dave - Everyone -
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AngelJJ/TX - Jen
I agree because we can encourage parents to become active, but we cant
make them.
Tony B/CA - sue,
is that form of control helping those students learn? Are there some other
techniques, doctors?
Dave - Everyone -
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sue - I agree Jenn
but sometimes the parents need to be addresses as an advocate FOR the children.
Dr. Joel - jen, educators
can help, they have major effects on kids. by understanding more of the
causes it will be easier to make a difference
Ginn/Oregon - It's
the PHYSICIANS who are doing the prescribing....and some with more training
and sentivity to these issues
AngelJJ/TX - As educators
we need to find solutions that will work with or without parental help.
sue - tony--medication
is only part of the prgram used byt the ed/bd teachers and staff
Ginn/Oregon - What
would help make the difference in many Oregon schools I know is having
enough money to hire counselors and adequate staff
Dr. Joel - Ginn,
physicians and parents both often take the easy way out. i'm in total agreement.
one of my main purposes in publishing and research is to educate peers
rufrider - yes, ginn,
the family physician because the mother requests it, often times because
a teacher has told them to, no testing, no diagnostic whatsoever
Mountaineer - Aren't
kids on meds supposed to be going for therapy with their families?
Kathleen. - bgpub,
is that Bob of bal group? :-)
Tony B/CA - Angel,
perhaps we need to seek more innovative ways to include parents - educate
them better about their responsibilities to their children's education
bgpub - Been watching
this forum with interest. Great dialogue. Just wanted to say that we are
publishing the Crises Response Program because it is the best program we
have ever seen in this area. The authors are leading edge. Enough said--bye
Dave - Kathleen -
yes that is
Dr. Joel - mountaineer,
that's not a requirement, but it is certaily essential if you want change
AngelJJ/TX - Tony
yes there are programs in place, and some parents DO come but not the majority..
sue - ginn, we have
2 full time counselors for our school of 650 students, a social skills
group and peer counseling
Dave - Crises Response
Planning Kit includes: In-Service Training video series, Training Facilitator's
Guide, Procedure Manual, In-Service Training Workbook.
Mountaineer - You
just cannot MAKE parents come
AngelJJ/TX - I feel
that including parents whenever possible is important? But I also feel
we as educators need to find ways to teach our students about self discipline
and control, because so many wont get it from home. It has to come from
within.
Dave - Thank you
everyone for your interest, please direct all questions to the publisher
who will forward on to us. bgpub@bgpub.com
rufrider - with all
the busing going on, parents often can't come, it's too far away Kathleen.
- Dave and Joel, you promised us an hour of your time and we deeply appreciate
that.
Mountaineer - Angel
- you are on target with my feelings tonight
meeha/ece/tx - We
cannot MAKE them come, but we CAN quietly educate and gently encourage
their participation!
AngelJJ/TX - As a
parent who has a child on meds for ADHD I am always looking and trying
other methods to help him control is hyperactivity.
Dr. Joel - angel,
parenteral involvement is the most effective way to make a difference in
a kids life. i believe most parents don't know what to do and some just
are too unstable to help
Tony B/CA - let's
find more opportunities to go to the parents, rufrider..
Ginn/Oregon - At
my school we have shared a counselor with three other buildings.........not
you tell me DO YOU THINK THAT WORKS FOR HIGH NEED STUDENTS ? Of course
not, it becomes a STATE issue also because ITS the ALMIGHTY dollar needed
to fund programs
sue - I agree Angel
and we do work with the students and are aware of the family situations.
We do educate them thru parent workshops and individual sessions
Tony B/CA - true,
Ginn, staffing limitations in counseling are dramatic in San Diego and
Los Angeles too
Jimmie/TX - Dave
and Dr. Joel, although I was very quiet, I got every word. Thank you so
much for giving your time to us here this evening. I'll be sure to share
this information at my school.
AngelJJ/TX - I recently
became certified in a course for Non-violent Crisis Intervention Techniques.
Very insightful.
Dave - Sue - Final
thought - our prayers are with you and the children.
Dave - Jimmie - thanks
for your attention
Tony B/CA - Dr. Joel,
you've been a super help. Thank you for your involvement and support
Dr. Joel - Tony and
Ginn, staffing and money are always major issues and prevent many effective
programs for being initiated. It is sad but ture
AngelJJ/TX - Dr.
Joel, do you feel that some of the more homeopathic remedies might be possible
for certain cases? Would they be worth trying?
Ginn/Oregon - The
reality is I know kids today who are TROUBLED, some walking around seemingly
ready to burst with anger, and am I doing all I can ? As educators we need
resources .
Tony B/CA - Dave,
y tu.
Dr. Joel - Tony and
others, Write me with questions and give me time and I'll answer any questions
in time
Anna/Aust - Yes Tony
: Sometimes even a phone can help open the door . Sadly once a child enters
the teenage years of education parents tend to lose the opportunities to
communicate with the teachers ,
sue - ginn, all we
can do is deal with them where they are,love them and try to get them the
help they need
Dr. Joel - angel,
certain homeopathic remedies have possibilities. The biggest issue is finding
out what is broke before we try to fix it
Tony B/CA - Thank
you Dr. Joel
Dr. Joel - Folks,
thanks so much for your interest, I gotta run
Kathleen. - Joel,
Dave, thank you for a very inforamtive session!
Dave - Kathleen -
thanks for hosting, you too BGPUB
Kathleen. - I'll
be in touch, Joel and Dave, thanks VERY much!
Kathleen. - Yes,
thank you to bgpub :-)...I feel your presence!
Tony B/CA - Thank
you Kathleen - you're wonderful. You make these wonderful activities available
to help so many teachers ;) Dr. Joel and Dave - thank you!!
Ginn/Oregon - Every
step we take to help is a good thing ~
Bob R/CA - Thanks
guys for your time and counsel into this very significant area.
Tony B/CA - Thank you
all