I intend to write a book on the subject. In the meantime, since most teachers have been successful in school and may not know how devastating failure is to those who suffer its lifelong effects, here are some random thoughts, ideas, and facts to reflect.

A young teacher asked me, “How do you feel about social promotions?” My answer: “Social promotions are unnecessary, why not teach students instead of retaining them? If retaining them works, why not teach them in the first place instead of the second attempt? If retention doesn’t work, why retain them?

Bad behavior does not cause failure; failure causes bad behavior. Does that surprise you?

Just because the cycle often begins at primary level doesn’t mean it’s not real.

Dropout problems don’t begin in high school. Dropping out begins before middle school but is exacerbated when coupled with tween social needs, hormones, and maturation.

Grades are the best predictors of grades, F’s predict F’s. Current behavior is the best predictor of future conduct. Behavior is learned and schools are for learning, aren’t they?

While students fear getting F’s, most students never get them. Those students who do get F’s get them on tests, in class work, on report cards. Failure is known to everyone.

F’s not only predict F’s they predict the byproducts of embarrassment, marginalization, degradation, stigma, defensiveness, hostility, violence, vandalism, and retaliation.

The shame of failure is debilitating. Shame and constant fear of failure require kids’ full effort, time, and attention for defending their egos, psyches, and dignity.

Without significant intervention by an authority figure, a student traumatized by a failure identity naturally finds solace, comfort, and acceptance only from other failing students.

Failure is painful, more painful than punishments administered by teachers. Pain-based behavior of students defies rational and reasonable behavior understood by teachers.

The pain of failure can be reduced by apathy, defeatism, bravado, withdrawal, and deviant behavior including vandalism, retaliatory actions, defiance, and misbehavior.

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