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Post: Our civility footprints: taking out of the realm of theory
Posted by radan2 on 3/10/08
This is an excellent article about a matter of considerable concern to me. We have all observed schools and classes where it is pleasant to visit and stay, and others where it is not so pleasant. I think that to a large measure, the extent to which people, including staff and students, behave civilly to each other creates the difference in the atmosphere of those places. I am very glad that this program does not stop with just examples and admonitions, but actually goes on to suggest some rules. Simply defining civility, or etiquette, or positive role modeling to students, then saying "do that" will not work. In my opinion, etiquette is at the heart of civility. I don't mean the simple "What spoon do you use?" etiquette of cotillions and debutante balls, but the ordinary manners we used with each other in ordinary situations. These rules are not simply, "make the other person feel comfortable." Since we are not mind readers, it is almost impossible to figure out what will make other persons comfortable, and in some situations, making a person comfortable is the last thing you need to do: bigots and bullies should not be comfortable in their intolerance and intimidation. Jim Wayne
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Our Civility Footprint, I think size does matter., 3/06/08, by Ollie.
Our civility footprints: taking out of the realm of theory, 3/10/08, by radan2.
Re: Our Civility Footprint, I think size does matter., 3/10/08, by radan2.
Re: thanks radan2 now I get it, 3/10/08, by Ollie.
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