Warned about a problem student: What’s a Sub to Do?
By Barbara Pressman
Dear Barbara,
I was subbing in a third grade classroom when the principal stopped in and asked if I’d be able to sub next week in the sixth grade. Of course I said yes.
At the end of the day, I went to see the teacher in that class to introduce my self and get pertinent information about the class.
The teacher warned me that Christopher (not his real name) could be a real problem, and I should be aware of his disruptive behavior.
Now I’m concerned. I don’t want to get off on the wrong foot with Christopher. I don’t want to single him out.
What should I do with the information I’ve been given?
Mike in Los Angeles
Dear Mike,
You are very fortunate to have the information about Christopher in advance. If possible, try to learn more about him before you begin class. Are his problems strictly emotional? Does he have learning disabilities that contribute to his frustration? Does he like to show off to cover up his limitations?
Armed with information, you can decide how to approach Christopher. You should be proactive. Make a connection with him early in the day. “Your name is Christopher. My favorite nephew is Christopher too.” Ask him where the teacher keeps the attendance folder. Have him run an errand for you.
These techniques should help. However, be ready for a confrontation. He may want to test you. Something may set him off. You’ll have to deal with his behavior. Make use of the classroom management plan, warnings, referrals, or detentions. Don’t be afraid to get serious if you must. But with a little TLC, you and Christopher will have a good day together.
Barbara


