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Re: Should I quit --Yes
Posted by anon on 10/15/09
The trouble with that advice is you wil NEVER prevail over the district--NEVER. You are on the way out as it is. The best you could hope for is some kind of settlement. I would get out of there and perhaps seek legal counsel. You are literally risking your life trying to deal with a toxic workplace situation. On 10/14/09, Confused wrote: > On 10/14/09, anon wrote: >> On 10/14/09, anon wrote: >>> Can you tell me more about MACE? Things are desperate out here in Nevada. I have had NO job offers >>> and only about six in the last year-and-a-half, and this includes jobs of all kinds. >> >> I meant six interviews. It's bad out here. > > That's so sad! Well,MACE is a teachers organization that protects and fights for teaches. They do not > have administrators as members like the other organizations, GAE or PAGE. I just called to get there > take of the situation. They advised me not to quit and to try to fight. To be honest, I am not sure > that I have any fight left in me. I am going to continue to weigh my options. What if it just makes > the situation worst and cause me more stress? I can't deal with that at this point in my life. We will > see I guess. >>> >>> >>> On 10/14/09, Confused wrote: >>>> On 10/14/09, anon wrote: >>>>> As I've said, you really need to resign that job. No job is worth ruining your health over, >>>>> despite this horrendous economy. >>>>> >>>>> As I mentioned before, you will be eventually fired if you stay in your job. That's a >>>> guarantee. >>>>> >>>>> I myself would never go back into this cesspool called public education ever again. It isn't >>>>> the kids, the parents, or even fellow teachers who are the problem. It's the unscrupulous and >>>>> criminal types who run these individual schools and school districts who are the problem and >>>> why >>>>> are schools are deteriorating right before our eyes. >>>>> >>>>> You are so right. I know I DO NOT want to work there it is just the fear of how I am going to >>>> pay my bills that is getting to me! I am the only person working in my house and I am a single >>>> parent. I know that once I let this school go, my survival skills will kick in. I guess it is >>>> just fear of the unknown. I am praying about it. I even called MACE today, a teachers >>>> association that I read about on GA board. I know that they can not guarantee anything. They >>>> even mentioned that the admins are probably setting me up for nonrenewal. The thought that >>>> people can be so viscious is terrible!!!! I am now wishing I had not even gone into this >>>> profession! >>>>> >>>>> On 10/13/09, Confused wrote: >>>>>> On 10/13/09, Catsister wrote: >>>>>>> Do you think you can get permanent disability? If your heart is that bad that just >>>>>> thinking of grading something can >>>>>>> give you a chest pain, maybe teaching is not for you. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> In general, teaching is getting worse for teachers. Since I started looking for a job in >>>>>> the 90's, the standard class load >>>>>>> has risen from 5 to 6 classes in high school, the small plan book squares are out and full >>>>>> lesson plans (typed, of >>>>>>> course) are in, there are millions of rules regulating how you decorate your bulletin >>>>>> board. You are supposed to make >>>>>>> special lessons for every child, including those with all of the multiple intelligences, >>>>>> ESL kids, those with classifications, >>>>>>> those who are gifted and those who are not the sharpest knives in the drawer but are not >>>>>> special ed. Meanwhile, the >>>>>>> kids are almost unengageable thanks to teeny cell phones they can hide on their lap and >>>>>> text with, and teeny >>>>>>> headphones attached to teeny ipods they can listen to music with. I've heard of >>>>>> administrators that will back teachers >>>>>>> up if they get into an argument while confiscating these things, but I've also heard of >>>>>> unicorns and leprechauns. I've >>>>>>> never actually seen either one. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> My point: even in a better situation, it's still stressful enough to cause a heart attack. >>>>>> Don't be like that little old lady in >>>>>>> the commercial who falls on the floor and has chest pains and can't get up. >>>>>> >>>>>> Thanks for your advice. I think you misunderstood me though. Grading papers does not give me >>>>>> chest pains and anxiety. It is the messiness that goes on at my school. If I am out on sick >>>>>> leave, how do I even have any idea about the students grades and why would someone ask me to >>>>>> contact them about it? It is just another form of harrassment. I have been harrassed for 2 >>>>>> years straight. I am just tired of it all and my body has taken enough and now is shutting >>>>>> down. Stress is a killer! The last time I had chest pains or heart palpitations is when I >>>>>> was working 2 jobs and still behind on bills. I had to learn to let it go. I quit one of the >>>>>> jobs and said the heck with the bills, they got paid when they got paid. Now, I am having >>>>>> them again and it has been close to 10 years later! This is my 6th year teaching and last >>>>>> year was definitely the worst. That is why I am not able to deal with this year, last year >>>>>> really tore me down.
Posts on this thread, including this one
- Should I quit , 9/29/09, by Confused!.
- Re: Should I quit , 9/30/09, by What was so bad about the dept chair?.
- Re: Should I quit , 9/30/09, by Don't you have a union? NFM.
- Re: Should I quit , 9/30/09, by unhappy mother.
- Re: Should I quit , 9/30/09, by sped.
- Re: Should I quit , 9/30/09, by emjem24.
- Re: Should I quit , 9/30/09, by Confused .
- Re: Should I quit , 9/30/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit , 9/30/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit , 10/01/09, by Kevin.
- Re: Should I quit , 10/01/09, by Kevin.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/01/09, by anon.
- Re: Should I quit , 10/01/09, by anon.
- Re: Should I quit , 10/01/09, by anon.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/01/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/02/09, by NY MathSPED.
- Re: Should I quit , 10/02/09, by ummm.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/02/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit , 10/02/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/03/09, by NY MathSped.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/03/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/03/09, by Music.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/03/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/03/09, by anon.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/03/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/04/09, by Music.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/04/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/04/09, by anon.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/07/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/07/09, by why is that toxic? nfm.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/07/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/13/09, by Catsister .
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/13/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/14/09, by anon.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/14/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/14/09, by anon.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/14/09, by anon.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/14/09, by Confused .
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/15/09, by anon.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/16/09, by Confused.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/17/09, by NYMathSPED.
- Re: Should I quit --Yes, 10/17/09, by anon.
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