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Post: Question...regarding my 3 yr old
Posted by 3rd Grade teacher on 10/09/08
I have a 3 year old (will be 4 next month) who has been in
childcare for a year. Prior to that I stayed home with
him. I have noticed some odd behavior of him recently
(hitting his leg saying he's spanking himself and he's
a "bad boy") so I called to talk with his teacher about
it. She told me that she did want to talk with me about
some things so we agree to meet next week. I go to pick
him up today and have a sheet in his cubby. It's
a "Behavior Report." On one side it has "I Need Help
Remembering" and the other "Good Things I Did Today."
Both sides have 11 items. Well, this 'report' has 10 of
the 11 things checked on the "I Need Help Remembering" and
TWO on the good side. She's even filled in the Other
section and wrote "I need to keep my clothes on my body."
I'm SO confused! His teacher has only mentioned a couple
of the things and the last ones she has checked are things
my THIRD graders have a hard time doing
(listening/following directions, using appropriate voice,
being nice, etc.). Several of the others I could see him
doing (throwing toys for example) but she's NEVER
mentioned him biting someone or spitting on them - until
this "report." I know my child isn't perfect and when
they do say he has an issue I do talk with him about what
is expected - even remind him every day as I'm dropping
him off.
So, I need suggestions on how to handle this. The
director signed it so I'm assuming she's witnessed this
behavior as well. I need to know how to talk to them
because right now I'm really upset with THEM for never
telling me most of the things we all of a sudden have
issues with.
Posts on this thread, including this one
- Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 10/09/08, by 3rd Grade teacher.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 10/10/08, by Leah .
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 10/10/08, by Schari.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 10/10/08, by Schari.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 10/10/08, by 3rd Grade teacher.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 10/11/08, by Kristi.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 10/12/08, by Schari.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 10/12/08, by Kristi.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update, 10/14/08, by 3rd Grade teacher.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update, 10/15/08, by Leah .
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update, 10/16/08, by Schari.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update, 10/16/08, by Kristi.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update, 10/16/08, by 3rd Grade teacher.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update , 10/17/08, by Leah .
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update, 10/17/08, by Schari.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update, 10/17/08, by Stellaluna.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update, 10/21/08, by trs.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old - Update, 10/24/08, by mimbrewer.
- Re: I'm livid!!!, 10/24/08, by 3rd Grade teacher.
- Re: I'm livid!!!, 10/24/08, by grandma.
- Re: I'm livid!!!, 10/26/08, by Schari.
- Re: I'm livid!!!, 10/27/08, by 3rd Grade teacher.
- Re: I'm livid!!!, 10/28/08, by Leah .
- Re: I'm livid!!!, 10/28/08, by Schari.
- Re: I'm livid!!!, 10/28/08, by 3rd Grade teacher.
- Re: I'm livid!!!, 10/29/08, by Schari.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 11/20/08, by cathy--this is not DAP.
- Re: Question...regarding my 3 yr old, 11/24/08, by Caroline.
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