SUBSCRIBE chat center Chatboards|Lessons|Projects|Classifieds|Mailrings|Gazette|Jobs|Harry Wong|Live!|Advertise SUBMIT POST ALL POSTS TOP POSTS Share | Print | Report Post Classroom Management Chatboard Search Teachers.Net Advanced Quick Links: Set Hot Now... • July 2008 Gazette • Teacher Tech Center • The Lesson Bank Most Popular • Set Your Quick Links • Chat Center • All Chatboards • Lesson Bank • Teacher Mailrings • Project Center • Classified Ads • Live Chat & Meetings Select by • State/Region • Grade Level • Curriculum • Interest Group • Teaching Method Special Topics • Technology • Languages • Hot Topics • Career Center • Distance Learning • Fundraising • Tutoring Center • Teacher's Bookshelf • Free Printables • Classroom Photos • Meeting Archive • Teaching Articles • Library • Web Tools • Webring • Search • Advertise   Post: the way kids treat each other Posted by MathMommy on 4/17/08 This morning near the end of class, a freshman female student verbally attacked a freshman male student. She is one of the "cool" girls, and he is one of the "slacker" boys - read between the lines, potential school shooter type of kid. He had borrowed a pink skirt - yes, a skirt - from one of his female friends in the class and had slipped it on over his jeans. No one had undressed, shown any skin, etc. - it was all in good clean fun and the timing was not a problem for me as a teacher. The kids around the slacker boy were laughing about him wearing the skirt, and all of a sudden the cool girl verbally attacked him from across the room telling him how retarded (or stupid) he looked - he had some sort of comeback about the fact that no one was talking to her and no one had asked her opinion - she then started in about him having pimples all over his face - in his frustration with her and the situation, he used the F-word. After class was done, I wrote a referral to the office for both of them, and now it is in the principal's hands. This type of behavior is what makes me want to give up teaching. As a kid who was verbally abused by my peers during junior high, I can understand the pain, humiliation, and frustration that the slacker boy felt, but because he used profanity, I had to write the referral. Can someone out there help me to understand why students treat each other this way? I know it is not a reflection on me as a teacher to have this happen in my classroom - it happens all day, every day, all over our school - the kids are just plain MEAN. Please share any insights you may have to help me understand and know how to better deal with this. Posts on this thread, including this one the way kids treat each other, 4/17/08, by MathMommy. Re: the way kids treat each other, 4/17/08, by Tom. Re: the way kids treat each other, 4/17/08, by vet teacher . Re: the way kids treat each other, 4/21/08, by Darren Barkett. Re: the way kids treat each other, 4/22/08, by MathMommy. Re: the way kids treat each other, 4/23/08, by Lisa P. Re: the way kids treat each other, 5/10/08, by Lyons. Re: the way kids treat each other, 5/12/08, by Jenna.       June: The 30 Days of Teachers.Net (Introduction) 1 The Gazette 2 The Mailrings 3 Harry Wong 4 Lesson Bank 5 Tech Center 6 Teacher Classifieds 7 State Teachers.Net 8 Live Chat & Meetings 9 Teacher Printables 10 Project Center 11 Chatboard Network 12 Share Teachers.Net 13 Your Feedback 14 Interest Groups 15 Administrators.Net 16 Chat Center 17 Streaming Teacher Video 18 Tutoring Center 19 Academic Grants 20 Teachers.Net Bookshelf 21 Chatboard Tips 22 Grade Levels 23 Staffroom Flyer 24 Teachers.Net Archives 25 Hot Topics 26 Language Arts 27 Subject Areas 28 Quick Links 29 Meet Teachers.Net 30 Summer Job Fair

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