I am not a guy. But my fiance says that you should not
apologize to a bully because they take it as weakness and he
says stand your ground. He says that he is only bullying you
because he thinks you won't do anything about it and that he
would take his mitts to him. But I think it depends on whether
or not that other kid would have a knife of a gun on him. You
don't ever want to take your fists to a gun fight, right. I
think you should talk to your parents and the school about
what is happening. I also think that you should consider
filing harassment charges against him. I am sorry that this
is happening to you.

It is hard to make decisions isn't it because you can't
predict the future so it is hard to say what course of action
will have the best result for you. I can't really give you my
advice as much as I would like to. Just do what is best for
you. I would definitely get some advice on this from some
adults in your life.

On 10/20/09, TB wrote:
> Im in 11th grade, and i've always been taught (whether
> through teachers, parents, religion, etc) that fighting is
> never the best way...
> This kid in my grade has "picked" on me (continually called
> me a pussy, talked shi* about me to my friends, etc).
> He "challenged" me to a fight (told me to "do somthing
> about it" and shoved me). I told him their was no point,
> and walked away. Alot of people give me crap about it, and
> I dont know what to do. I've tried reasoning with him,
> apologizing for anything ive done (I guess hes mad at me
> cuz I "used to talk shi* about him), and pointing out how
> useless it is, but he continues to turn alot of friends
> (and non-friends) against me. Is it time to fight?
> ps. keep in mind, i'm not gonna say for sure i could "take
> him" in a fight, but he isnt stronger than me by any means.
>
> Please help,
> tb

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