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Re: Feeling very guilty... but should I be?
Posted by First year sped teacher on 7/05/08
This was my first year teaching this year. In college, I roomed
with a girl who actually said she hated children and was and el. ed
major. She is trying to get a job as a teacher and sees it as a
back up career. Some people should not be teachers. Don't give
this guy a good recommendation if he is up against people who would
work hard and enjoy it.
On 6/30/08, Leah wrote:
>> It would honestly be a different story if the guy had been
>> awful but worked very hard to be better. This is just NOT the
>> case. The guy was awful, complained about everything
>> (bulletin boards, grading homework, making tests, duty posts,
>> etc.), refused to take my advice, and then complained even
>> more when he got his grades from me and his college
>> supervisor. Almost like he felt we were being unfair to him
>> and expecting more from him than anyone else. He once said of
>> his college supervisors, "I don't understand how they can
>> expect me to work so hard - I'm just a student teacher. It's
>> not like it's MY classroom."
>>
>> So if he can't find a job, maybe he shouldn't BE a teacher...
>> Maybe it's a sign that he should go into another field...
>>
>> I guess I just feel awful saying that - like I've failed him
>> in some way.
>
> You can only do so much. It sounds like you tried with him. Be
> truthful, factual and say "No, I would not hire him" if you are
> pressed. HE WILL BE A PROBLEM TO ANY PRINCIPAL NOT TO MENTION
> THE HIS POOR STUDENTS.
>
> Best wishes
>
Posts on this thread, including this one
- Feeling very guilty... but should I be?, 6/26/08, by Joshua/TN.
- Re: Feeling very guilty... but should I be?, 6/27/08, by DGR.
- Re: Feeling very guilty... but should I be?, 6/27/08, by C. Wilson .
- Re: Feeling very guilty... but should I be?, 6/27/08, by no.
- Re: Feeling very guilty... but should I be?, 6/27/08, by lynne/ca.
- Re: Feeling very guilty... but should I be?, 6/27/08, by Joshua/TN.
- Re: Feeling very guilty... but should I be?, 6/27/08, by Melissa.
- Re: Feeling very guilty... but should I be?, 6/30/08, by Leah .
- Re: Feeling very guilty... but should I be?, 7/05/08, by First year sped teacher.
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