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Re: Is this attitude normal in middle school students?
Posted by sb on 5/08/08

    yep, this is normal. A couple of times a year a student will
    act differently than normal. Good gone bad, so to speak.
    Sometimes it is just them starting to turn into teens. I've
    talked to a couple parents and they admit they are starting to
    have a hard time controlling their kid.

    I wouldn't take it personally since it wasn't like she meant
    it personally.

    However, she should still be accountable. If you are still
    concerned and wish to address it I would do it privately. I
    like using the, "It is my job to make sure you learn. It is
    your job to remain on task and learn. When you don't do that,
    I do what I'm paid to do and I took away your book. For you to
    disrespect me and roll your eyes at me for me doing my job it
    unwarranted. I did what I was supposed to do and you did not.
    Do not roll your eyes and talk to me the way you spoke to me
    because YOU didn't do what you were supposed to do. I didn't
    give you a detention, I would have given your book back, but
    to go and take it from me is wrong and you see where next time
    something like you reading in class instead of doing your
    work, might result in a detention instead of me just taking
    away the book. So you need to think about your decisions
    especially when you weren't doing what you were supposed to."

    Or an short version of it since she is becoming a teen and
    will probably zone out. ;)

    On 5/08/08, Ima teachertu wrote:
    > That is such a typical young teen reaction with someone who
    > cares about you. Think about it. Students save the best
    > attitude and the best "eye rolls" for their parents-the ones
    > children know will love them regardless of their behavior.
    > This could be a sign that she is secure that she will have
    > you support.
    >
    > She may also be testing to see if you care about her enough
    > to put a limit on her behavior. Only adults who CARE will go
    > to the trouble to direct a child to behave appropriately.
    >
    > Talk to the student alone - you will get no where in front
    > of her peers. Just tell her that behavior shocked you and
    > you expect her to behave more respectfully to you. You might
    > approach her with, "I don't think I did anything to deserve
    > the disrespectful treatment you gave me. If I did, please
    > let me know. I will treat you with respect, but you must
    > also treat me with respect."


 
 
 
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