SUBSCRIBE chat center Chatboards|Lessons|Projects|Classifieds|Mailrings|Gazette|Jobs|Harry Wong|Live!|Advertise SUBMIT POST ALL POSTS TOP POSTS Share | Print | Report Post Middle School Teachers Chatboard Search Teachers.Net Advanced Quick Links: Set Hot Now... • July 2008 Gazette • Teacher Tech Center • The Lesson Bank Most Popular • Set Your Quick Links • Chat Center • All Chatboards • Lesson Bank • Teacher Mailrings • Project Center • Classified Ads • Live Chat & Meetings Select by • State/Region • Grade Level • Curriculum • Interest Group • Teaching Method Special Topics • Technology • Languages • Hot Topics • Career Center • Distance Learning • Fundraising • Tutoring Center • Teacher's Bookshelf • Free Printables • Classroom Photos • Meeting Archive • Teaching Articles • Library • Web Tools • Webring • Search • Advertise   Re: Is this attitude normal in middle school students? Posted by Cristy on 5/09/08 Yes, this is completely normal. Middle school students are famous for their attitudes. Remember that they are going through a lot right now in terms of personal changes. Their hormones are raging, their bodies are awkward, their relationships with their friends are changing, and they are beginning to think about the world more rationally but still don't understand that it doesn't revolve around them. They are feeling older and more mature but are often still treated like kids, so they test their boundaries and their relationships with the adults in their lives. Their daily lives are filled with enough drama to last them a lifetime. Do you remember your own middle school days? Crazy! As the other posters mentioned, be clear with your expectations and don't show them how much the eye-rolling and sarcasm gets to you. You can't take these behaviors personally or they'll just eat you up. Definitely pull the student aside, explain why her behavior was wrong, lay out the consequences for a repeat offense, and leave it at that. Good luck! On 5/08/08, Shila wrote: > I am a second year teacher teaching second language and > math. I felt this resentment from few good students that > really confused me. For example, today when I asked a > student if she took her book back from my room without > telling me (I confiscated it from her yesterday) she > applied: “yes, I need to give it back to my friend”. I > pointed out that she was reading while the class was > watching a video and it wasn’t appropriate, and if I took > away the book she needed to talk to me to get it back. Her > response was: “I already know the staff, why should I > watch it”. She rolled her eyes and talked in a > disrespectful way. > > What bothers me is that this is a normally well-behaved > girl and one of the best students (academically) in the > class. I have never had any issues with her before. I > don’t understand why she showed such a negative attitude > towards me. I know that we shouldn’t take it personally > but I can’t stop wondering what I did wrong to make her > talk to me this way. > > I would like to hear your opinion on what makes good > students to be disrespectful (I think I have better > relationship with average students). > > Thanks. > > Shila Posts on this thread, including this one Is this attitude normal in middle school students?, 5/08/08, by Shila. Re: Is this attitude normal in middle school students?, 5/08/08, by Ima teachertu. Re: Is this attitude normal in middle school students?, 5/08/08, by sb. Re: Is this attitude normal in middle school students?, 5/09/08, by Cristy. Re: Is this attitude normal in middle school students? VERY!, 5/09/08, by ~connie. Re: Is this attitude normal in middle school students?, 5/09/08, by D. Re: Is this attitude normal in middle school students?, 5/12/08, by Shila.       June: The 30 Days of Teachers.Net (Introduction) 1 The Gazette 2 The Mailrings 3 Harry Wong 4 Lesson Bank 5 Tech Center 6 Teacher Classifieds 7 State Teachers.Net 8 Live Chat & Meetings 9 Teacher Printables 10 Project Center 11 Chatboard Network 12 Share Teachers.Net 13 Your Feedback 14 Interest Groups 15 Administrators.Net 16 Chat Center 17 Streaming Teacher Video 18 Tutoring Center 19 Academic Grants 20 Teachers.Net Bookshelf 21 Chatboard Tips 22 Grade Levels 23 Staffroom Flyer 24 Teachers.Net Archives 25 Hot Topics 26 Language Arts 27 Subject Areas 28 Quick Links 29 Meet Teachers.Net 30 Summer Job Fair

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