well she didn't forget...she said she tried to call me on my cell
phone before putting the child in the water, and made other
excuses why it didn't matter what the mother had said...it really
upset me.

Then she lied about the signed permission slip. a bold faced lie
to my face, and I really didn't like that.

I feel she is 10 years my senior but has the maturity of a
teenager. She has told me about her personal problems, marriage
problems, and sneaks out to smoke cigarettes in back of the
school. She takes personal phone calls on her cell all day long
while in the classroom. I really have not complained about any of
it at all because she has helped me a lot but now she called in
sick today and I guess she is still upset by my confronting
her..the principal will observe us working together on Monday.

In this day and age I am worried she will go psycho, to be honest.
I am sorry. I did not nurture her to the extent she wanted I
guess, but I am there for the kids, not for her.

On 11/06/09, no big deal wrote:
> No doubt she forgot the child did not have permission to
> swim. Talk to her but don't accuse. It could happen happen to
> any of us. She made a mistake. The child is fine. Try ot
> work it out.
>
>
>
> On 11/06/09, stressed wrote:
>> My para is very upset with me and did not come to work
>> today. She put one of our children in the pool during swim
>> time, although the parent explicitly had stated she did not
>> want that. She then lied to me and the swim teacher about
>> the existence of a signed permission slip. when i
>> confronted her she got very upset with me. She has 20 years
>> experience working in this school and lots of friends,
>> while I am new this year.
>>
>> I feel stressed about it. Has anyone else had something
>> like this happen??

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