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Re: stressed about my para
Posted by: stressed and sorry on 11/06/09
Okay I think maybe I am being over dramatic here. I just feel awful
about it so I will call her later this weekend, probably tomorrow night.
On 11/06/09, stressed and sorry wrote:
> well she didn't forget...she said she tried to call me on my cell
> phone before putting the child in the water, and made other
> excuses why it didn't matter what the mother had said...it really
> upset me.
>
> Then she lied about the signed permission slip. a bold faced lie
> to my face, and I really didn't like that.
>
> I feel she is 10 years my senior but has the maturity of a
> teenager. She has told me about her personal problems, marriage
> problems, and sneaks out to smoke cigarettes in back of the
> school. She takes personal phone calls on her cell all day long
> while in the classroom. I really have not complained about any of
> it at all because she has helped me a lot but now she called in
> sick today and I guess she is still upset by my confronting
> her..the principal will observe us working together on Monday.
>
> In this day and age I am worried she will go psycho, to be honest.
> I am sorry. I did not nurture her to the extent she wanted I
> guess, but I am there for the kids, not for her.
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> On 11/06/09, no big deal wrote:
>> No doubt she forgot the child did not have permission to
>> swim. Talk to her but don't accuse. It could happen happen to
>> any of us. She made a mistake. The child is fine. Try ot
>> work it out.
>>
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>> On 11/06/09, stressed wrote:
>>> My para is very upset with me and did not come to work
>>> today. She put one of our children in the pool during swim
>>> time, although the parent explicitly had stated she did not
>>> want that. She then lied to me and the swim teacher about
>>> the existence of a signed permission slip. when i
>>> confronted her she got very upset with me. She has 20 years
>>> experience working in this school and lots of friends,
>>> while I am new this year.
>>>
>>> I feel stressed about it. Has anyone else had something
>>> like this happen??
Posts on this thread, including this one
- stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by stressed.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by WRubin.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by no big deal.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by stressed and sorry.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by stressed and sorry.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by to no big deal??.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by SID.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by Bob/VA.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by LP.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/06/09, by wasub.
- Re: stressed about my para, 11/09/09, by Mom to Three.
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