Joanne,
Why risk your childrens' safety?
It is obvious from reading the posts that there are some
pockets of resentment toward caucasians, particularly those
from the mainland. The prejudice towards whites here is not
ubiquitous, nor does it always lead to violence, but it is
present and tangible. My wife recently attended a
conference for early childhood education at which a fellow
EDUCATOR referred to her as a haole. The owner of the
company I worked for was beaten with a pipe and left for
dead in a racially motivated crime. He spent several weeks
in a coma. My local friends from work show obvious
embarassment when "caught" fishing with me by their local
friends. I have been lied to and stolen from by employees
and people I thought were my friends. There was even one
occasion when the person standing in line behind me was told
by the cashier to cut in line in front of me.
An adult in today's world is equipped to deal with
discrimination. Children learn those lessons only with
great difficulty. Add that to the stress of moving, and
it's just not worth putting your kid through.
--Ben