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Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools
Posted by Joe on 12/26/03
I grew up in Hawaii and attended both public and private schools there. Sometimes your children will have comments made about being haole, as I did, but they would if they were of other ethnicities, too. The degree to which your children would be uncomfortable depends a lot on where they go to school. The attitude the kids convey would also contribute to how they are treated. Snobs and super sensitives in any locale get lots of teasing. I attended Kalakaua Intermediate in Kalihi, which is in one of the least haole areas. In fact, there were only three haoles that I knew of in the school. One was my brother, another was me, and there was another junior high fellow. My brother and I kept a pretty low profile and I had a lot of Filipino and "chop suey" friends. That third haole boy had a big mouth, though. Not good. There were lots of fights at the school, but I was never in any of them, and no one ever physically victimized me or my brother. Of course, there were a few comments hurled at me about being haole. Still, I would not change my plans about moving based on reports of the treatment of haoles. Most of it is not malevolent, and I believe it made me more open and understanding toward others who feel minoritized in the world. All races get a bit of teasing in Hawaii, but I think it is as open and harmonious a society as you'll ever find and a great place to raise even the whitest haole children. On 12/25/03, Joanne W wrote: > I am currently a special education teacher in NY. I taught > on the small Pacific Island of Saipan for 3 years and I > loved it there. My husband and I have been longing for the > tropical lifestyle and are in the planning stages of moving > to Hawaii in the summer of 2005. I have read the postings > on this site and I am so saddened by them that I am > reconsidering my move. I feel that I could handle the > teaching conditions in Hawaii (in Saipan we no breaks, had > to mop, sweep our own rooms and even took out our own > garbage). What really worries me, though, is the prospect > of sending my two little, innocent "haole" children to > school where they may be hated, teased because of their > color (my daughter is so white she's practically blue!) > Honestly, is it really bad for white children in the > schools? I would apprecaite any feedback. Thanks you- > Joanne
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- sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/25/03, by Joanne W.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/26/03, by Joe.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/20/04, by Benjamin B..
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/22/04, by joe.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/05/04, by joe.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/23/04, by Gina.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/23/04, by Gina.
- Re: Haoles, 3/22/04, by AngelaS.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 3/26/04, by Michelle Correia.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 4/14/04, by Karla .
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 5/19/04, by Amy.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 6/17/04, by Anna.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 6/23/04, by nicole.
- Re: My "haole" daughter teaches in Hawaii...., 6/23/04, by Jan.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 8/15/04, by Rae.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 8/16/04, by a hole girl living here.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 8/16/04, by another person not born of Hawaii, but feels a part.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 8/23/04, by No'eau.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 5/23/05, by Cali.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 7/10/05, by Eric Williamson.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 7/16/05, by Rachel.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 7/20/05, by aaron bowen.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 7/20/05, by aaronbowen.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 10/24/05, by Chris.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 10/27/05, by heather.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 11/07/05, by Dorothy.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 12/24/05, by roald murphy.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 12/24/05, by roald murphy.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/24/05, by Roald Murphy.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/10/06, by Starr.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/14/06, by anonymous.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/16/06, by Anonymous.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/13/06, by Kirt Nieft.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/24/06, by lam-r.
- Re: Haoles, 3/10/06, by daniel.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/10/06, by Anonymous.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 3/17/06, by Jim of Maui.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/31/06, by concerned4u.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/31/06, by concerned4u.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 5/09/06, by Char.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 5/12/06, by Michelle Correia.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/06/07, by Marc.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/10/07, by Haole Crab.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 8/07/07, by Kamaaina.
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- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 2/08/08, by Erica.
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