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Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools
Posted by Michelle Correia on 3/26/04
I don't know where you live, but to say that all locals hate "haoles" makes you as guilty of ethocentrism as those locals you accuse of the same. I am a proud Part-Hawaiian who has lived with my husband in the mainland while he served in the US Navy (he is a local Portuguese man). I have made many "Haole" friends whom I go anywhere with and wouldn't care who saw me with them. Yes I have said "dumb Haole" or worse, but only in response to a white person in Hawaii looking down at me as ignorant and uneducated (I am a chemist). So in short, drop any arrogance, relax and move to another part of Hawaii. On 1/22/04, joe wrote: > I think that some tend to regard "haole" as a pretty derisive racial label > like the n-word or something, but it is much more mild than that. > Though I am haole, I only perceived it as negative in the rare cases > when insulting adjectives were placed in front of the term. Phrases like > "stink haole, dumb haole, d&37;&n haole, or (certainly the worst one) > f#$&37;ing haole" are what I mean, or even "haole" said with a bit of > "stink eye" would, of course" be derisive and racist. I even remember > the phrase "haole crab" from middle school, though I have no idea > what that means. I always took the term haole as a label like white, > black, asian, or Arab. I don't think that we haoles should be offended > by it, really. > > Prejudice towards mainlanders is certainly present in Hawaii. Anglo- > centric Mainlanders have been known to be arrogant and > condescending toward local language and the way of life in the > islands. Many seem to convey discontentment about living on an > island away from home: they complain about the prices, the casual > style, the traffic, and they even disrespect the land by calling it a "rock." > Anyone who knows about the "aina" would understand why Hawaiians > would find that offensive. It isn't fair to disparage all mainlanders > because of the ones who are guilty of the above, but it does happen. > Mainlanders who move to Hawaii should be a lot more sensitive to > locals. Pidgen is not ignorant, the island and the culture are beautiful, > being late is not a mortal sin, and haoles who have the opportunity to > experience living in Hawaii should take every opportunity to let their > local students, friends, and neighbors know that they respect and love > these islands. They should enjoy the music, compliment the food, > respect the land, and not think that a person who rides home on the > bus to a tiny $300k crackerbox house is beneath them. Then, they will > experience far less bashing as haoles. > > > On 1/20/04, Benjamin B. wrote: >> Joanne, >> >> Why risk your childrens' safety? >> >> It is obvious from reading the posts that there are some >> pockets of resentment toward caucasians, particularly those >> from the mainland. The prejudice towards whites here is not >> ubiquitous, nor does it always lead to violence, but it is >> present and tangible. My wife recently attended a >> conference for early childhood education at which a fellow >> EDUCATOR referred to her as a haole. The owner of the >> company I worked for was beaten with a pipe and left for >> dead in a racially motivated crime. He spent several weeks >> in a coma. My local friends from work show obvious >> embarassment when "caught" fishing with me by their local >> friends. I have been lied to and stolen from by employees >> and people I thought were my friends. There was even one >> occasion when the person standing in line behind me was told >> by the cashier to cut in line in front of me. >> >> An adult in today's world is equipped to deal with >> discrimination. Children learn those lessons only with >> great difficulty. Add that to the stress of moving, and >> it's just not worth putting your kid through. >> >> --Ben >>
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- sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/25/03, by Joanne W.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/26/03, by Joe.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/20/04, by Benjamin B..
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/22/04, by joe.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/05/04, by joe.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/23/04, by Gina.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/23/04, by Gina.
- Re: Haoles, 3/22/04, by AngelaS.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 3/26/04, by Michelle Correia.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 4/14/04, by Karla .
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