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Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools
Posted by Amy on 5/19/04
On 12/25/03, Joanne W wrote: > I am currently a special education teacher in NY. I taught > on the small Pacific Island of Saipan for 3 years and I > loved it there. My husband and I have been longing for the > tropical lifestyle and are in the planning stages of moving > to Hawaii in the summer of 2005. I have read the postings > on this site and I am so saddened by them that I am > reconsidering my move. I feel that I could handle the > teaching conditions in Hawaii (in Saipan we no breaks, had > to mop, sweep our own rooms and even took out our own > garbage). What really worries me, though, is the prospect > of sending my two little, innocent "haole" children to > school where they may be hated, teased because of their > color (my daughter is so white she's practically blue!) > Honestly, is it really bad for white children in the > schools? I would apprecaite any feedback. Thanks you- > Joanne Hello,
First of all, let me say that I feel a bit of resentment towards the assumption that mainland whites who move to Hawai'i treat Hawaiians as if they are somehow ignorant people. I fell in love with the culture and history quite passionately. In another post, I stated a few of the things I had learned, as well as noting that I had a close native Hawaiian friend. He always tells me that my love for Hawai'i must have been what hurt me most when the racism started to appear, because I loved pidgin and listening to the musical language, hearing the stories, and studying what had happened in the past. This did not seem to matter to anyone; I was saddened as well to see how many Hawaiians knew so little about their own history. Education did not matter, the fact that I was there to learn all these things did not matter. What mattered was the color of my skin, and that is very sad. It is sad anywhere, and I do not approve of it. There is no excuse for that kind of behavior. I have also lived in Key West, a much different place; however, people have their prejudices there as well. People assume if you live there you're 'wastin away in Margaritaville' when anyone who lives there works harder than they would anywhere else, simply due to the cost of apartments (driven up by these same tourists). Not all tourists are like that, however, and neither are all whites. Some of us were there to learn and came with an open mind, and experienced things like not being waited on in places, being shoved out of line at stores, etc., before they said a word, so it really doesn't hinge on having an educated or open attitude. My childhood best friend was moved to Hawaii at a very young age. She became interested in hula. She was tortured by everyone in her class, including her teacher, for years. I don't know how it was that she was allowed to stay in class, but apparently there was a performance done near the volcano at one point. While my friend was performing, a dove flew over the volcano (at least, I think they said it was a dove), and suddenly she was OK. Granted, this is only a story, and may be a contrived one, but her entire family has had a lot of problems with racism there. The family is open-minded and quite loving; her father is a lawyer who has made an effort to help employ low-income Hawaiian people. He also loves the culture and the people, but he told me it took twenty years before anyone would even give him respect as a lawyer simply because he was white. I loved Hawai'i, its culture, language, and people. This was not helpful in the least. I wish it had been otherwise, but that was my experience. -Amy
Posts on this thread, including this one
- sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/25/03, by Joanne W.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/26/03, by Joe.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/20/04, by Benjamin B..
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/22/04, by joe.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/05/04, by joe.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/23/04, by Gina.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/23/04, by Gina.
- Re: Haoles, 3/22/04, by AngelaS.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 3/26/04, by Michelle Correia.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 4/14/04, by Karla .
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 5/19/04, by Amy.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 6/17/04, by Anna.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 6/23/04, by nicole.
- Re: My "haole" daughter teaches in Hawaii...., 6/23/04, by Jan.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 8/15/04, by Rae.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 8/16/04, by a hole girl living here.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 8/16/04, by another person not born of Hawaii, but feels a part.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 8/23/04, by No'eau.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 5/23/05, by Cali.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 7/10/05, by Eric Williamson.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 7/16/05, by Rachel.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 7/20/05, by aaron bowen.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 7/20/05, by aaronbowen.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 8/04/05, by Nancy .
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 10/24/05, by Chris.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 10/27/05, by heather.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 11/07/05, by Dorothy.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 12/24/05, by roald murphy.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 12/24/05, by roald murphy.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/24/05, by Roald Murphy.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/10/06, by Starr.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/14/06, by anonymous.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/16/06, by Anonymous.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/13/06, by Kirt Nieft.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/24/06, by lam-r.
- Re: Haoles, 3/10/06, by daniel.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/10/06, by Anonymous.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 3/17/06, by Jim of Maui.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/31/06, by concerned4u.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/31/06, by concerned4u.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/31/06, by I'm glad you brought this post to the top. It's very ironic.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 5/09/06, by Char.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 5/12/06, by Michelle Correia.
- Re: Michelle Correia, 8/07/06, by Lava.
- Re: Michelle Correia, 11/05/06, by brad.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/06/07, by Marc.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/10/07, by Haole Crab.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 8/07/07, by Kamaaina.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 8/07/07, by HIDOE.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 8/07/07, by Sue.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 1/07/08, by D. ABRUE.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 2/07/08, by Angela.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 2/08/08, by Erica.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 5/31/08, by Tom.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 5/31/08, by Tom.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 10/28/08, by Kama`aina.
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