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Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools
Posted by Anna on 6/17/04
Aloha Joanne, I have been teaching in Hawaii for the past three years. My schools have been the poorest of the poor. I am a 'haole'. There have been certain remarks and resentments but overall nothing to the point where I am afraid. My concern though is for your children. And I am concerned on two points. One-why put them through the hassle of being ostracized and TWO--most importantly, the level of learning and education here is just atrocious. The students who do well are such a small percentage of the whole school population. You should really consider private schools should you decide to come here. Many of the teachers that I work with send their own children to private schools. If my children were school age, I wouldn't consider anything else. Drugs are seemingly a way of life here. Pakololo (marijuana) is considered the same as a beer for most of my students. When there's waves, there's no students. This environment and attitude is something you really should consider. Good luck. On 5/19/04, Amy wrote: > On 12/25/03, Joanne W wrote: >> I am currently a special education teacher in NY. I taught >> on the small Pacific Island of Saipan for 3 years and I >> loved it there. My husband and I have been longing for the >> tropical lifestyle and are in the planning stages of moving >> to Hawaii in the summer of 2005. I have read the postings >> on this site and I am so saddened by them that I am >> reconsidering my move. I feel that I could handle the >> teaching conditions in Hawaii (in Saipan we no breaks, had >> to mop, sweep our own rooms and even took out our own >> garbage). What really worries me, though, is the prospect >> of sending my two little, innocent "haole" children to >> school where they may be hated, teased because of their >> color (my daughter is so white she's practically blue!) >> Honestly, is it really bad for white children in the >> schools? I would apprecaite any feedback. Thanks you- >> Joanne > > > Hello, > > First of all, let me say that I feel a bit of resentment > towards the assumption that mainland whites who move to > Hawai'i treat Hawaiians as if they are somehow ignorant > people. I fell in love with the culture and history quite > passionately. In another post, I stated a few of the things I > had learned, as well as noting that I had a close native > Hawaiian friend. He always tells me that my love for Hawai'i > must have been what hurt me most when the racism started to > appear, because I loved pidgin and listening to the musical > language, hearing the stories, and studying what had happened > in the past. This did not seem to matter to anyone; I was > saddened as well to see how many Hawaiians knew so little > about their own history. Education did not matter, the fact > that I was there to learn all these things did not matter. > What mattered was the color of my skin, and that is very sad. > It is sad anywhere, and I do not approve of it. There is no > excuse for that kind of behavior. I have also lived in Key > West, a much different place; however, people have their > prejudices there as well. People assume if you live there > you're 'wastin away in Margaritaville' when anyone who lives > there works harder than they would anywhere else, simply due > to the cost of apartments (driven up by these same tourists). > Not all tourists are like that, however, and neither are all > whites. Some of us were there to learn and came with an open > mind, and experienced things like not being waited on in > places, being shoved out of line at stores, etc., before they > said a word, so it really doesn't hinge on having an educated > or open attitude. > My childhood best friend was moved to Hawaii at a very young > age. She became interested in hula. She was tortured by > everyone in her class, including her teacher, for years. I > don't know how it was that she was allowed to stay in class, > but apparently there was a performance done near the volcano > at one point. While my friend was performing, a dove flew > over the volcano (at least, I think they said it was a dove), > and suddenly she was OK. Granted, this is only a story, and > may be a contrived one, but her entire family has had a lot of > problems with racism there. The family is open-minded and > quite loving; her father is a lawyer who has made an effort to > help employ low-income Hawaiian people. He also loves the > culture and the people, but he told me it took twenty years > before anyone would even give him respect as a lawyer simply > because he was white. > > I loved Hawai'i, its culture, language, and people. This was > not helpful in the least. I wish it had been otherwise, but > that was my experience. > > -Amy
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/26/03, by Joe.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/22/04, by joe.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/23/04, by Gina.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/23/04, by Gina.
- Re: Haoles, 3/22/04, by AngelaS.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 3/26/04, by Michelle Correia.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 4/14/04, by Karla .
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 5/19/04, by Amy.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 6/17/04, by Anna.
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- Re: My "haole" daughter teaches in Hawaii...., 6/23/04, by Jan.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 8/15/04, by Rae.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 8/16/04, by a hole girl living here.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 8/16/04, by another person not born of Hawaii, but feels a part.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 8/23/04, by No'eau.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 5/23/05, by Cali.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 7/10/05, by Eric Williamson.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 10/27/05, by heather.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 11/07/05, by Dorothy.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 12/24/05, by roald murphy.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 12/24/05, by Roald Murphy.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 1/14/06, by anonymous.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/13/06, by Kirt Nieft.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 2/24/06, by lam-r.
- Re: Haoles, 3/10/06, by daniel.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/10/06, by Anonymous.
- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 3/17/06, by Jim of Maui.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/31/06, by concerned4u.
- Re: "haole" in Hawaii, 3/31/06, by concerned4u.
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- Re: sending my "haole" children to Hawaii's schools, 5/12/06, by Michelle Correia.
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