Thanks for the info about the Secret, I will check it out. If Oprah
endorses it, it must be pretty cool. Thank you for the information. I
like a nice, healthy debate, but you made a reference to a book that I
have no idea about. My philosophy is based on experience and
observation, not one particular book. If you don't think your comment
contained negativity or sarcasm, I guess we are not fit for a debate.
Can you provide evidence for your hypothesis? Have you conduted an
experiment that disproves what I am saying? My philosophy is based on
my experimentation in classrooms across the U.S. with children of all
learning abilities and ethnicities. Even a child with autism, or
mental retardation has a brain which can be challenged and expanded.
It may take longer, or several attempts in finding the best learning
mechanism, but anything is possible. I also read quote books, and
trust what people have done before me. If they say anything is
possible, I believe it. I have seen myself lifted out of poverty,
violence, and abuse to a new dimension of enlightenment. Because of
the influence if teachers who told me that I was brilliant and
believed in me, I was able to believe in myself. I remember performing
a poem at an assembly in 5th grade. It was in front of everybody, the
entire student body. I was scared to death, as I was constantly teased
by other kids. My teacher encouraged me to jump, move, and dance while
expressing my poetry. I thought I looked stupid doing these things,
but after the assembly, teachers, students, and principals
complimented me on my performance. This was a pivital point for me in
my life. I realized that what others thought was not important, it was
all about me. I have been labeled dumb, slow, retared, stupid,
unintelligent, charcoal, homely, and ruined by Ebonics. But because I
believed I was brilliant, I continued to overcome obstacles to life.
Life is a learning experience. I thank God that I am 25 years old, and
have made it out the projects of Chicago. Although others around me--
my brother, sister, father, and mother were plagued by drug abuse,
illness, and prison life, I was able to accomplish many things before
the age of 15, including starting my own motivational speaking
company. I am evidence that all children are brilliant. I was dumb
when I thought I was dumb. When I realized that my thoughts were
powerful and that my environment was only external, I demanded change
and got it.
On 8/03/07, hmmmm wrote:
> sorry, can't tell you about "the secret" because i haven't read it.
just saw the oprah
> episode about it. sounds like what you are talking about.
>
> thanks for the sarcasm. i'm done with you. talk about negativity.
>
> On 8/03/07, SuccessFriend wrote:
>> I have been trained by Teach for America and by the great Marva
>> Collins of Chicago who has proven the fact that all kids are
>> brilliant. Based on your remedial response, I understand why you
>> believe what you believe. You don't even believe in yourself, let
>> alone in a beautiful child full of potential. Your belief system
>> is damaged with negative thinking. I read a variety of materials,
>> including John C. Maxwell, Napoleon Hill, the Bible, Wayne Dyer,
>> Malcolm X, Harry Wong, and the list goes on and on. I have heard
>> of the "Secret" but haven't had the opportunity to read it. Can
>> you tell me more about it, since you know so much about it?
>>
>> On 8/02/07, hmmm wrote:
>>> what i'm hearing you type is that all people have the same
>>> capability to learn, and that's simply not true.
>>>
>>> sounds like you've been reading "the secret".
>>>
>>> On 8/02/07, SuccessFriend wrote:
>>>> Brilliant is the correct terminology. Children are brilliant
>>>> because they have the potential to learn as much and as
>>>> quickly as any adult. Children are sponges. With the right
>>>> adult influence in their lives and the will to do it, they can
>>>> explore many possibilities. Intelligence is not a measurable
>>>> thing, although many try to measure it. Because the mind is
>>>> always expanding, your so-called intelliegence level changes
>>>> daily, as with every cell in your body. No one stays the same
>>>> unless they are not allowed to explore their brilliance.
>>>> Intelligence is more that memorizing facts and doing basic
>>>> mathematical operations. It involves intuition and creativity,
>>>> which every human being possesses. We do not allow our
>>>> children in America to feel capable because we are too busy
>>>> pointing out their weaknesses. When in fact we should be
>>>> focusing on their stregths. One may "appear" to be more
>>>> intelligent than the next, when in reality we all are unique
>>>> individuals. We all learn in different ways. We cannot
>>>> categorize ourselves as disabled because we are not presented
>>>> information in our appropriate mode of learning. Who are we to
>>>> judge? We are all uniquely brilliant, even if we don't believe
>>>> it. The reason I KNOW that I am brilliant is because I believe
>>>> it. The reason I KNOW every child is brilliant is because I
>>>> believe it. The children I encounter are brilliant because I
>>>> help them to see why they are uniquely brilliant. They were
>>>> created from the same material as Einstein, Bill Gates, Oprah
>>>> or any other successful person. We all come to the Earth on a
>>>> clean slate. Our beliefs about ourselves determine how
>>>> intelligent we actually become. Intelligence is not only in
>>>> the mind, it begins in the heart. If you believe you are
>>>> smart, then you are. You will begin to behave in such a way to
>>>> harmonize with being a smart person. If you believe you are
>>>> dumb, then you will begin to behave in a "dumb" manner. Its
>>>> all about perception. I want to open all of our eyes as
>>>> educators to understand that ALL KIDS ARE BRILLIANT. The
>>>> future is full of possibilities. Look at Dr. Ben Carson who
>>>> was labeled special ed. Look what he has become just through
>>>> the sheer determination of his mother, who always told him how
>>>> smart he was. If you tell kids they are smart, they will have
>>>> no choice but to eventually believe it. But if you continue to
>>>> tell children that the person sitting next to them
>>>> is "smarter" because he passed the test with a 90&37; average,
>>>> then you are sending a strong negative message. You are saying
>>>> that some are born smart, and others dumb. That couldn't be
>>>> farther from the truth. Again, until you believe that you are
>>>> brilliant, how can you see the brilliance in any other human
>>>> being. We cannot sit around and judge others based on our own
>>>> DISability to see life as what it really is. People are all
>>>> the same in the core, and every person is full of
>>>> possibilities. It is when you believe that something isn't
>>>> possible that you give up on life. Let's not give up on our
>>>> children by labeling them and hinting around about Bell curves
>>>> and other antiquated psychology. We are in the information
>>>> age, not the industrial age. The education system is 40 years
>>>> behind, and it shows by the opions expressed by educators who
>>>> have little vision. Lets clear our goggles and see children
>>>> for what they really are---BRILLIANT!
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> On 8/02/07, hmmmm wrote:
>>>>> saying that all children are "brilliant" sounds to me like
>>>> saying that all children
>>>>> are "special." if everyone's special, then special loses
>>>> its actual meaning and
>>>>> negates itself, making no one actually special.
>>>>>
>>>>> imho, defining brilliant as "all children have talents" is
>>>> more accurate. but in
>>>>> terms of pure intelligence, i disagree. i see evidence of
>>>> the 'ol bell curve every
>>>>> year. not every student is intellectually brilliant, but
>>>> they all have a talent.
>>>>>
>>>>> On 3/28/07, Success Friend wrote:
>>>>>> Our children in America are being cheated in many ways. I
>>>>>> want you to first remember who is teaching our children---
>>>>>> children who have increased in age and who probably
>>>>>> received the same public education growing up. These
>>>>>> former public education students are now given the
>>>>>> label "teacher," because of a 4-year degree and a state
>>>>>> teaching licensure. No matter how "educated" a teacher
>>>>>> appears to be, it does not guarantee that he or she is an
>>>>>> effective teacher. An effective teacher is able to teach
>>>>>> well because he or she is constantly learning right along
>>>>>> with the students. Teachers have seemed to lose their
>>>>>> ability to learn. Why do I say this? Well, because
>>>>>> students are rapidly changing, so should our methodology
>>>>>> for teaching students must change as well. The students
>>>>>> you have this year are very different from the students
>>>>>> you taught 5 years ago. The truth is that EVERY student is
>>>>>> very different from the next. Therefore, an individualized
>>>>>> instructional plan is neccessary to help students learn.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I believe that we are too quick to label our
>>>>>> students "special education" because of low performance on
>>>>>> standardized tests. I know for a fact that EVERY child,
>>>>>> regardless of his or her perceived disability is
>>>>>> BRILLIANT! Until we collectively as a community start to
>>>>>> believe in the brilliance of our children, then they will
>>>>>> continue to perform at a low capacity. We are too busy
>>>>>> looking for our children's disabilities rather than their
>>>>>> abilities. With that said, teachers should especially
>>>>>> believe in the brilliance of their students and treat them
>>>>>> as such. Just because little Johnny doesn't analyze
>>>>>> mathematical equations with the same accuracy as Jackie
>>>>>> doesn't mean that Jackie is more intelligent than Johnny.
>>>>>> It only means that Johnny has some other talent--like the
>>>>>> drawings he makes in his notebook that his teacher
>>>>>> repeatedly asks him to "put away." When you ask kids to
>>>>>> surpress their God-given talents and focus on some other
>>>>>> skill they have no enjoyment or interest in, then you are
>>>>>> creating an unhappy and unproductive child.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Only until we start to learn how to adapt state standards
>>>>>> to a child's given talent, we will continue to subject our
>>>>>> children to hell in the classroom. It must feel like hell
>>>>>> to sit in a school for 6 hours a day and learn absolutely
>>>>>> nothing! The left-brain focused curricula of most public
>>>>>> schools neglects the right -brain potential of every
>>>>>> student. Every student can learn how to think. They first
>>>>>> have to believe in their brilliance, then learn to use
>>>>>> their talents to increase their knowledge and potential
>>>>>> for success.