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Re: there is hope for autism
Posted by carr on 6/29/05
My brother is what is now described autistic(although probably closer to Asperger's syndrome), however 45 years ago I'm not sure what the doctors thought he was. They did however, tell my mother that he would never learn to talk, read etc. and the best thing she could do was to institutionalize him. He was deemed retarded and tested with a very low IQ. My mother ignored the doctors and the schools and worked with him with a tireless advocacy. He finally talked at age 4 and eventually learned to read and progressively became smarter and smarter until in his teens some parts of his IQ tested near genius. His social ability has always been stunted, but he was able to go to college and get a master's in engineering and works at a job analyzing government structures after disasters(buildings and architecture were his obsession since a very very young age, so this job is tailor-made for him). He is a loner but seems content to be this way as interpersonal relations baffle him and probably always will. My point is, autistic kids often might seem hopeless, but they often have so many gifts as well and often have big spurts in their development that don't resemble the development of other kids. I would hope any parent of such a child would advocate for them as my mother did for my brother.
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