#1 it was not your fault and you did nothing wrong.

#2 Do not ever be alone with this man!!!

#3 Talk to your mom since you are fearful of what your dad might
do. See what she suggests you do.

#4 Be aware that if it is ever pubic, it will be his word
against yours and you will probably be made to look like a
fourteen year old with an imagination.

On 7/05/09, I hope this helps! wrote:
> I can see where you would feel weird telling your parents b/c
> you don't want to start any drama. If it is really bothering
> you, you do need to talk to someone, b/c it can effect the
> way you think and deal with realtionships (any form of
> relationship) down the road. If you don't feel comfortable
> talking to your parents you do need to talk to someone
> (counselor, another adult you are close too). Yet, your
> parents will be very understanding, and you need to explain
> to them how you feel. If he did this to you, he probabaly has
> done this to others as well.
>
>
> On 6/25/09, Katherine wrote:
>> I am not a teacher nor counselor but i really need your
>> help because i do not know who to turn to about this and do
>> no want to make the wrong decision.
>>
>> I was over at my neighbours' home (wife and husband around
>> 40 years old) while my parents were away..(i'm 14) We were
>> sitting at the table drinking tea and watching tv and i
>> feel somebody's hand grab the inner part of my thigh from
>> under the table.. and it was the man's hand!! i was so
>> shocked! i didn't make a sound because i didn;t want the
>> wife to get in an arguement with her husband so i just took
>> his hand and pushed it away from me. Should i just leave it
>> at that and not tell anyone? i was wearing shorts because
>> it was hot and maybe he thought i wanted to seduce him?
>> He's known as a good doctor here and it just makes me feel
>> like i can't trust people with decent professions
>> *gag*...anyways...i do not think it's smart to tell my dad
>> because he's a professional martial art's guy and can kill
>> him if he finds out.

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