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I had 12 girls on Saturday and it wasn’t 15 minutes after the bathroom break that one of the girls came up to me and asked to go again. Of course, I asked her why she hadn’t gone before when she was supposed to. She didn’t really have an answer for me, but she was insistent that she really did have to go now. She didn’t say it, but somehow I got the impression that she had to go #2 and she didn’t want to do it with 11 other girls in the bathroom at the time. She is a really shy and quiet freshman so I can kind of understand how she was feeling about that. She apparently had waited in the hopes of being able to go later when she’d have the opportunity to be alone in the girls’ room.
So I let her go even though I wasn’t supposed to. Somebody apparently saw her coming out of the girls’ room at the inappropriate time. Tuesday, I got a letter from my principal reminding me of the rules of Saturday Detention and reiterating specifically that no one was to be out of the room except during the designated bathroom break. OK – I understand all that but what was I supposed to do in this situation? Was I really supposed to tell this girl she couldn’t go to the bathroom when she obviously needed to? Obviously, she should have gone during the bathroom break when she was supposed to. But the fact was that she didn’t. Was I really then supposed to deny her for close to 2 hours and make the poor girl risk soiling herself just to adhere to the rules? I hated teachers that didn’t use common sense in these kinds of situations and I vowed that I’d never become one of those.
My thoughtsOn 5/06/14, Cat wrote: > I’m a first year teacher and I’m teaching English at a > Catholic girls’ high school. Saturday was my first time > supervising Saturday detention. It’s from 8 AM to 12 Noon > and they get a bathroom/stretch break from 9:55 to 10:05. > That’s the only time they are supposed to be out their > seats...See MoreOn 5/06/14, Cat wrote: > I’m a first year teacher and I’m teaching English at a > Catholic girls’ high school. Saturday was my first time > supervising Saturday detention. It’s from 8 AM to 12 Noon > and they get a bathroom/stretch break from 9:55 to 10:05. > That’s the only time they are supposed to be out their > seats for the whole 4 hours. I understand all that, but I > had a situation on Saturday that I had to deal with. > > I had 12 girls on Saturday and it wasn’t 15 minutes > after the bathroom break that one of the girls came up to > me and asked to go again. Of course, I asked her why she > hadn’t gone before when she was supposed to. She didn’t > really have an answer for me, but she was insistent that > she really did have to go now. She didn’t say it, but > somehow I got the impression that she had to go #2 and she > didn’t want to do it with 11 other girls in the bathroom at > the time. She is a really shy and quiet freshman so I can > kind of understand how she was feeling about that. She > apparently had waited in the hopes of being able to go > later when she’d have the opportunity to be alone in the > girls’ room. > > So I let her go even though I wasn’t supposed to. > Somebody apparently saw her coming out of the girls’ room > at the inappropriate time. Tuesday, I got a letter from my > principal reminding me of the rules of Saturday Detention > and reiterating specifically that no one was to be out of > the room except during the designated bathroom break. OK – > I understand all that but what was I supposed to do in this > situation? Was I really supposed to tell this girl she > couldn’t go to the bathroom when she obviously needed to? > Obviously, she should have gone during the bathroom break > when she was supposed to. But the fact was that she didn’t. > Was I really then supposed to deny her for close to 2 hours > and make the poor girl risk soiling herself just to adhere > to the rules? I hated teachers that didn’t use common sense > in these kinds of situations and I vowed that I’d never > become one of those. >
Can you tell your principal just what you said right here in your post? I think the girl had an extenuating reason for going and I think you did the right thing. Think about how that girl would have felt if she did soil herself. She would have been subject to all kinds if harassment for that. Is your principal open minded enough to hear why you let the student go to the bathroom past the bathroom/stretching time?
On 5/07/14, My thoughts wrote: > On 5/06/14, Cat wrote: >> I’m a first year teacher and I’m teaching English at a >> Catholic girls’ high school. Saturday was my first time >> supervising Saturday detention. It’s from 8 AM to 12 > Noon >> and they get a bathroom/stretch break from 9:55 to > 10:05. >> That’s the only time they are supposed to be out their >> seats for the whole 4 hours. I understand all that, but I >> had a situation on Saturday that I had to deal with. >> >> I had 12 girls on Saturday and it wasn’t 15 minutes >> after the bathroom break that one of the girls came up to >> me and asked to go again. Of course, I asked her why > she >> hadn’t gone before when she was supposed to. She > didn’t >> really have an answer for me, but she was insistent that >> she really did have to go now. She didn’t say it, but >> somehow I got the impression that she had to go #2 and > she >> didn’t want to do it with 11 other girls in the bathroom at >> the time. She is a really shy and quiet freshman so I can >> kind of understand how she was feeling about that. She >> apparently had waited in the hopes of being able to go >> later when she’d have the opportunity to be alone in the >> girls’ room. >> >> So I let her go even though I wasn’t supposed to. >> Somebody apparently saw her coming out of the girls’ > room >> at the inappropriate time. Tuesday, I got a letter from my >> principal reminding me of the rules of Saturday Detention >> and reiterating specifically that no one was to be out of >> the room except during the designated bathroom break. > OK – >> I understand all that but what was I supposed to do in > this >> situation? Was I really supposed to tell this girl she >> couldn’t go to the bathroom when she obviously needed > to? >> Obviously, she should have gone during the bathroom > break >> when she was supposed to. But the fact was that she > didn’t. >> Was I really then supposed to deny her for close to 2 > hours >> and make the poor girl risk soiling herself just to adhere >> to the rules? I hated teachers that didn’t use common > sense >> in these kinds of situations and I vowed that I’d never >> become one of those. >> > > Can you tell your principal just what you said right here in > your post? I think the girl had an extenuating reason for > going and I think you did the right thing. Think about how > that girl would have felt if she did soil herself. She would > have been subject to all kinds if harassment for that. Is > your principal open minded enough to hear why you let the > student go to the bathroom past the bathroom/stretching > time?
Consider a break, then perhaps a different school system.
If you really are DONE TO A CRISP, know that it is better to leave now instead of later, when you have more to lose by leaving and might feel trapped to stay.
On 7/29/11, Leah wrote: > You must be very bright to have an Masters degree in education and > one year teaching experience at age 22. However, I agree with the > previous posters that more experience would be helpful. Also it > depends on what your goals are and WHO YOU KNOW. > > Are you interested in continuing to teach or in being a principal, > superintendent, college professor, etc? > > > > >>> On 7/27/11, simonsmith wrote: >>>> I'm 22 years old in a Masters in Education program. I'm >>>> interested in going directly into the PhD in Education >>>> here in California. I would have at least up to two years >>>> of teaching experience before entering the PHD next year. >>>> Do you think this is too soon for someone my age? Is there >>>> anyone who went directly into a PHD in Ed program before >>>> the age of 25?
On 7/29/11, SIMONSMITH wrote: > Thank-you Leah and all who responded concerning my question below. I am > seriously interested in becoming a college professor as an ultimate > goal. I appreciate your caps about "who you know" as sage advice. Would > love to read your feedback as to the possibility of entering right into > a PhD after my Masters or give myself a few years in teaching. > > > > On 7/29/11, Leah wrote: >> You must be very bright to have an Masters degree in education and >> one year teaching experience at age 22. However, I agree with the >> previous posters that more experience would be helpful. Also it >> depends on what your goals are and WHO YOU KNOW. >> >> Are you interested in continuing to teach or in being a principal, >> superintendent, college professor, etc? >> >> >> >> >>>> On 7/27/11, simonsmith wrote: >>>>> I'm 22 years old in a Masters in Education program. I'm >>>>> interested in going directly into the PhD in Education >>>>> here in California. I would have at least up to two years >>>>> of teaching experience before entering the PHD next year. >>>>> Do you think this is too soon for someone my age? Is there >>>>> anyone who went directly into a PHD in Ed program before >>>>> the age of 25?
Hi Krystal! Congratulations! I'm sure you are pumped for your first teaching position. I have only been teaching 3 years and each day I come away with a new idea or plan.
Here is a quick suggestion I have for you: I keep little notes in my lesson plan book or in a "school journal" of various ideas or comments. For example, if I do an art project with my kiddos and it didn't go well, I quickly jot a note to myself saying it didn't work out and why. This is also great for field trip notes. Often you plan a trip and do the same trip from year to year. I write down the time we left, return time, whether we ate lunch there, etc. so I can easily look back and see what I did from the year before.
Another thing is...don't live at school. This is extremely difficult. I find myself still staying there until 7 at night...but I am going to try my best to not work too much this year. It's important to take time for yourself, so you can stay for a long time as a teacher. If you live at school too much, teaching starts becoming more like a chore than a passion.
On 7/29/11, Ama...See MoreCongrats on being a volunteer teacher! What ages did you work with and what type of program? You're human - you're going to make mistakes. I try not to make the same mistake twice - otherwise I'll never get around to making all the other mistakes! Please don't be so hard on yourself - you want to be a teacher, not a saint!
On 7/29/11, Amanda wrote: > Good Afternoon, I am a student getting my BA in Education. > This summer I have had the opportunity to serve as a > volunteer teacher for several organizations. However, I am > finding myself underqualified and not professional enough > for these positions. As a result, I am making mistakes that > are not helping my students in the least. I don't see these > coming until they have passed and I wind up speaking with > the director. I don't remember my teachers making these > mistakes and it is really disheartening for me. How many > mistakes will I be able to make when I am employed full > time before I am fired? I understand I need to learn these > lessons in order to do what I need to but I feel like the > process isn't good. My students shouldn't have to deal with > me in my transition. Help please.
West Texas TeacherYou are a volunteer teacher. You are going to make mistakes. Teachers make mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. When I make a mistake with my high school students, I admit it and go on. I also add each time, "this is the first mistake I have ever made." The kids laugh each time. On 7/29/11, Judy2/CA wrote: > Congrats on being a volunteer teac...See MoreYou are a volunteer teacher. You are going to make mistakes. Teachers make mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. When I make a mistake with my high school students, I admit it and go on. I also add each time, "this is the first mistake I have ever made." The kids laugh each time. On 7/29/11, Judy2/CA wrote: > Congrats on being a volunteer teacher! What ages did you work > with and what type of program? You're human - you're going to > make mistakes. I try not to make the same mistake twice - > otherwise I'll never get around to making all the other > mistakes! Please don't be so hard on yourself - you want to be > a teacher, not a saint! > > > > > On 7/29/11, Amanda wrote: >> Good Afternoon, I am a student getting my BA in Education. >> This summer I have had the opportunity to serve as a >> volunteer teacher for several organizations. However, I am >> finding myself underqualified and not professional enough >> for these positions. As a result, I am making mistakes that >> are not helping my students in the least. I don't see these >> coming until they have passed and I wind up speaking with >> the director. I don't remember my teachers making these >> mistakes and it is really disheartening for me. How many >> mistakes will I be able to make when I am employed full >> time before I am fired? I understand I need to learn these >> lessons in order to do what I need to but I feel like the >> process isn't good. My students shouldn't have to deal with >> me in my transition. Help please.
Please check out my Facebook page. You are also welcome to ask me questions regarding your teaching journey. I am a 7th grade Language Arts/Literature teacher. I am currently pursuing a graduate degree in Educational Leadership (will graduate this year). I will then return to school next summer to work on another graduate degree in Curriculum and Instruction. :)
On 7/31/11, Delilah72 wrote: > Hello, > Here is a great idea that teaches students organizational > tools and satisfies the requirements to differentiate in > your classroom---Interactive Notebooks! > > Please check out my Facebook page. You are also welcome to > ask me questions regarding your teaching journey. I am a > 7th grade Language Arts/Literature teacher. I am currently > pursuing a graduate degree in Educational Leadership (will > graduate this year). I will then return to school next > summer to work on another graduate degree in Curriculum and > Instruction. :)