Is he doing well academically? Usually not... and if he's not, success woos this kid and most others. Contrive some success for him in some way. Athletically, academically - doesn't matter. Find a way to give him some small leadership time in some capacity.
There's no sure cure or quick fix but that you ask to decrease the negative behavior means you understand this kid - their negative behavior can't be commanded away but it can be decreased.
Contrive a bit of success and then capitalize on that to give him a moment of leadership. For example, "I'm delighted to tell you all that Anthony's poem was truly remarkable. Of course all your poetry was wonderful but there's something special about Anthony's and I'm hoping he will allow me to read it to you. If not today, maybe tomorrow. I'll talk with Anthony about it but in the meantime, congratulations to everyone on their poems and a special congratulations to Anthony."
Then ask him quietly later if you might read his poem to the class - that kind of thing. He gets to be asked, if he wouldn't want it of course we wouldn't do it but likely he'll say yes and feel important for having said it.
i'm 23 years old (tell me your age so i know whether or not to take your question seriously, thanks :) )
it's normal to kiss on the cheek we're i'm from (not profs of course) but he was just saying bye because he never knew whether or not he'd see me again
On 5/21/10, jenn wrote: > so i finished university recently and stopped by the uni > again to sign some needed documents in the > administration....after i was finished, i bumped into my > professor and he asked me if i would be going to the > graduation party next weekend..(i was in a bad mood and > totally didn't expect myself to cry but i broke down in > front of him and complained to him about another > professor)...i told him i wasn't sure if i would be going > and he said, "well, if you change your mind.....i have a > special bottle of alchol with your name on it especially > for us" and then i said i had to go so he took my hand to > shake it and pulled me forward and kissed my cheek...and > then as we were leaving our hands detached > slowly...umm...he was probably trying to be nice because he > felt bad, right? you tell me guys...sometimes i don't > understand men :) (he opened all the doors for me too as we > were walking) > > i'm 23 years old (tell me your age so i know whether or not > to take your question seriously, thanks :) ) > > it's normal to kiss on the cheek we're i'm from (not profs > of course) but he was just saying bye because he never knew > whether or not he'd see me again
Don't get me wrong,as we would say here, in American English which is different from the English you speak - you're warmly welcome but it's odd that you choose a US chatboard to pose such a question.
It's NOT normal here to kiss on the cheek unless you're close friends or relatives.
> so i finished university recently and stopped by the uni > again to sign some needed documents in the > administration....after i was finished, i bumped into my > professor and he asked me if i would be going to the > graduation party next weekend> > i'm 23 years old (tell me your age so i know whether or not > to take your question seriously, thanks :) ) > > it's normal to kiss on the cheek we're i'm from (not profs > of course) but he was just saying bye because he never knew > whether or not he'd see me again
On 5/26/10, Lucy wrote: > This is my first year teaching and I teach 5th grade. We > only have about a week left of school and my kids are > getting really wild. I am losing my patience and all I can > think about is how to keep them quiet. There is more > classroom disruption than normal and talking when I am > talking. I have to go over expectations every day and I'm > starting to get really worn down. I no longer have a smile > on my face when I'm teaching. Instead, I have a mean > "teacher look" because I'm so stressed out and tired. I've > worked really hard this year and have been renewed for next > year. I love my job in many ways but I feel that my > students see me as the "nice" teacher who they can take > advantage of. At times, I have good classroom management, > but when I get tired it starts to fall apart. > > Thank for any advice you can give.
Diane McNelleyOn 6/07/10, Steve wrote: > > This is a common problem and happens in nearly every school. > It's not your fault. You can thank the other teachers in your > building and your administration for the problem. All the > "special" activities and parties in other classes removes the > focus from classes like yours that are still trying ...See MoreOn 6/07/10, Steve wrote: > > This is a common problem and happens in nearly every school. > It's not your fault. You can thank the other teachers in your > building and your administration for the problem. All the > "special" activities and parties in other classes removes the > focus from classes like yours that are still trying to teach. > Take a walk around your school building during the last week of > school and look at all the movies and parties that are going > on. Look at your schedule of field trips and reward events > that are happening. Notice all the high fructose snacks that > are being handed out. It's a shame. We face the same thing at > our middle school every year. It's a mad dash to see how many > ways we can disrupt the routine that we work so hard to > establish. It's a celebration of escaping something we should > be sad to leave. > > Steve > > > > On 5/26/10, Lucy wrote: >> This is my first year teaching and I teach 5th grade. We >> only have about a week left of school and my kids are >> getting really wild. I am losing my patience and all I can >> think about is how to keep them quiet. There is more >> classroom disruption than normal and talking when I am >> talking. I have to go over expectations every day and I'm >> starting to get really worn down. I no longer have a smile >> on my face when I'm teaching. Instead, I have a mean >> "teacher look" because I'm so stressed out and tired. I've >> worked really hard this year and have been renewed for next >> year. I love my job in many ways but I feel that my >> students see me as the "nice" teacher who they can take >> advantage of. At times, I have good classroom management, >> but when I get tired it starts to fall apart. >> >> Thank for any advice you can give.
It will be very helpful to have an end of school routine. I used to have my big party or pinic about two days before the last day of school. If the kids are noisy during the movie then turn it off and do something else. There is a book called Secrets of Classroom Management. Author: Mamie Jefferson-Hill You can find it on Amazon.com for only $10.00 If you buy this book you will not have any problems with your students. These strategies really work.
I sincerely believe our education system would be more helpful for students if there were a national media platform that supported positive, informative dialouge between parents, teachers, administrators and community partners!
Help me make it happen!! Vote as often as you can...you don't even have to view the video to vote.. AND pass the link on.
I'm looking for some input/insights to teachers who use a color system for discipline--beyond the red, yellow, green card system. I'd like to hear from people who use at least 5 colors and how it works in their class. Thanks in advance!
I use four colours. My system is probably similar to...See MoreOn 6/04/10, Heather wrote: > I'm looking for some input/insights to teachers who use a > color system for discipline--beyond the red, yellow, green > card system. I'd like to hear from people who use at least > 5 colors and how it works in their class. Thanks in > advance!
I use four colours. My system is probably similar to what others use. Green, everything's a go, yellow, warning you are in danger of losing recess, red, you've lost recess and blue, if this continues after recess I call your parents. It works for me. I let the kids work their way back to green until recess. If they are working well on yellow, they can earn their way back to green. If they continue the behaviour after they've been warned they have to miss recess because they need to catch up on the work they did not get accomplished. I have only had to call a parent twice in the five years I've been using this system.
On 6/07/10, Prof. Seeman wrote: > On 6/07/10, Summer wrote: >> I teach middle school. I have one class that is totally out >> of control. When I am trying to deal with one situation, >> something else happens, and then I end up almost brushing >> off the first incident in an attempt to deal with the >> second and so on. As a result of this, the students think >> that I brush everything off and that I never "do anything" >> about whatever goes wrong. School ends on Friday, but I >> won't possibly make it through the last four days without >> doing something to get this under control. > > I think that this can be helpful to you: > The book and Training Video: PREVENTING Classroom Discipline > Problems > > If you can get this book and video: [they are in many > libraries, so you don't have to buy them] email me and I can > refer you to the sections of the book and video [that > demonstrates the effective vs. the ineffective teacher] that > can help you. > > > If your library does not have them, you can get them at: > > [link removed]
Anyway, I read Prof. Seeman's book about a year ago and don't mind him plugging it, but I would appreciate if he could answer the specific questions the posters ask IN ADDITION to plugging his book or website (like Tom, Steve, and Leah) instead of merely copying and pasting the same response to every newcomer's post.
On 7/02/10, hmmm to "prof seeman" wrote: > If you really are a professor at CUNY, how come a search of the > college's web site does not come with any results for your name? > and as a college teacher myself I know that if you really are a > college teacher, you would have an email address with your name > and then @cuny.edu. If you are just someone selling a book and > video, why not be honest about it and not pretend to be someone > you are not? > > > > On 6/07/10, Prof. Seeman wrote: >> On 6/07/10, Summer wrote: >>> I teach middle school. I have one class that is totally out >>> of control. When I am trying to deal with one situation, >>> something else happens, and then I end up almost brushing >>> off the first incident in an attempt to deal with the >>> second and so on. As a result of this, the students think >>> that I brush everything off and that I never "do anything" >>> about whatever goes wrong. School ends on Friday, but I >>> won't possibly make it through the last four days without >>> doing something to get this under control. >> >> I think that this can be helpful to you: >> The book and Training Video: PREVENTING Classroom Discipline >> Problems >> >> If you can get this book and video: [they are in many >> libraries, so you don't have to buy them] email me and I can >> refer you to the sections of the book and video [that >> demonstrates the effective vs. the ineffective teacher] that >> can help you. >> >> >> If your library does not have them, you can get them at: >> >> [link removed]
Durante Neal’s Georgia public high school coach knocked his eyeball out of its socket to punish Durante for fighting with another student. The coach hit Durante in the eye with a weight lock, which caused his eye to pop out of its socket, lost forever. Cedric Napolean, a 14-year-old autistic special education student, was smothered to death by hi...See MoreDurante Neal’s Georgia public high school coach knocked his eyeball out of its socket to punish Durante for fighting with another student. The coach hit Durante in the eye with a weight lock, which caused his eye to pop out of its socket, lost forever. Cedric Napolean, a 14-year-old autistic special education student, was smothered to death by his special education teacher’s “restraint,” a form of “corporal punishment” for misbehavior. Cedric was placed face down on the floor, and when he struggled, his teacher sat on his shoulders to keep him still. Cedric repeatedly stated that he could not breathe, and when ignored, suffocated to death on the floor of the Texas public school that was responsible to teach him the skills necessary to become a happy and productive member of society. An interim principal at the School of Excellence in Education in San Antonio, Texas, “punished” an 18-year- old senior high school woman for a technical school rule violation by forcing her onto the floor, holding her feet up high above her head and shoulders with the help of two other public employees, and beating her with a four foot wooden board named “Old Thunder.” Jessica Serafin was hospitalized, traumatized, and unable ever to return to high school. Her emotional pain and humiliation continue to haunt her. These stories sound medieval, but occurred in 1998, 2002, and 2004, respectively. All of the public school employees’ actions were defended as “restraint” or “corporal punishment” employed against students in accordance with school policy.
These and many other instances of child abuse at the hands of public school employees motivated Carolyn McCarthy (D- NY) to take action. This week, McCarthy will introduce a bill in the House to deny federal funding to schools that use “corporal punishment.” Twenty (mostly southern) schools continue to beat schoolchildren in schools every day in America, a fact that is largely unknown and shocking to many Americans.
Since the inception of this country, educators have slapped, spanked, kicked, and beaten schoolchildren with wooden paddles, baseball bats, boots, books, weightlifting tools, and numerous other objects. Children have been severely beaten, hospitalized, permanently maimed, and killed under color of state law in the name of “education.” But in 2010, America is lagging behind the industrialized world by failing to recognize children’s right to be free of physical punishment. In 1783, Poland banned school corporal punishment, and virtually the entire industrialized world followed, with scant few clinging to the notion that the government may appropriately beat schoolchildren. Yet, in America, children are the only citizens who may be corporally punished legally – even convicted murderers are protected from corporal punishment in the prison system. Every United Nations country other than the United States and Somalia has ratified the Convention on the Rights of the Child, which prohibits school corporal punishment. The fact that the United States is bedfellows with Somalia on a human rights issue is frightening. Perhaps worse, Department of Education statistics prove that disabled students and black schoolchildren are disproportionately whacked, rendering the government employees’ conduct not just abusive, but discriminatory.
There is no excuse for beating children to train them for civic duty. Forty years of research demonstrates beyond any rational doubt that corporal punishment is not just ineffective, but counterproductive to its intended purpose. The studies prove that corporal punishment causes: increased violent and other antisocial behavior; a decrease in IQ test scores; impaired self-esteem, empathy for others, and respect for authority; an increased likelihood of drug and alcohol abuse; and dysfunctional interpersonal relationships. For these reasons, every national child health and education organization opposes corporal punishment in education, including the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Psychiatric Association, the American Psychological Association, the America Public Health Organization, the National Association for State Boards of Education, and the National Education Association.
Americans everywhere should support McCarthy’s bill to safeguard all American children from beatings at the hands of the government. Physical violence is not an American value and it should not be taught to our children by the public employees entrusted with their care.
Deana Pollard Sacks, B.A. University of Washington (1986); J.D. University of Southern California (1989); LL.M., University of California, Berkeley (1999). Sacks is a Visiting Professor of Law at Florida State University, an Advisory Board Member of EPOCH-USA and PTAVE, and the author of State Actors Beating Children: A Call For Judicial Relief, 42 U.C. Davis Law Review 1165 (2009).
opI have wanted to tell this for 50 years and hope what you hear might save some kids life or future. There were no kids my age on my street to play with but one boy that was 4 years older often showed me his hobbies and projects. At the time, I didn’t know it was unusual for a 12 year old to build radios and telescopes and other things of that lev...See MoreI have wanted to tell this for 50 years and hope what you hear might save some kids life or future. There were no kids my age on my street to play with but one boy that was 4 years older often showed me his hobbies and projects. At the time, I didn’t know it was unusual for a 12 year old to build radios and telescopes and other things of that level. He taught me so much about electrical circuits that I became the youngest bonded electrician in TVA’s list. What I didn’t know was that he was border-line Savant. When he left High School, I didn’t do the math and didn’t realize he was not old enough. Years later, the family Doctor told me the school came to his home and advised them to take him out of school as he was bored in math and science but wouldn’t ever try in social studies or languages. This Doctor took him to Ole Miss where they kept him 3 days and then he went to M.I.T. on a full Air Force scholarship. He spent the rest of his life at an Air Force base designing “black boxes”. The effect on me? When my school gave us I.Q. tests, a few days later, my home room teacher asked me to come to her after school. She told me that the state had messed up my test and wanted me to do it again. I didn’t mind but wondered why some lady I didn’t know witnessed the whole thing. As often happens, we had a “meat head coach” trying to teach some general science class and when he got to the order of the planets, he swapped two of them. I held up my hand and asked if there was a miss- print in the book as the order was... and I told it. He looked at me and said, “This is the last period. Stay after class and we will straighten this out.” I had no idea what he was up to but, when the last kid left the room, he jerked me across his desk and belted me into hysterics. I dropped to the floor and he stormed out leaving me there. I asked to drop his class but they said it was required. I hid in the back of the room and tried not to be noticed. I became terrified of teachers and was frightened of all of them after that. Then my home room teacher in a very kind voice motioned for me to wait while the rest left. I knew she was not going to beat me but what she said was a surprise. She asked me why I had quit trying in classes and I told her. I could see the anger in her face but not at me. She then told me that I could not waist this time as I had the highest I.Q. scored there and that is why the state wanted to witness my retake of it. I finally finished and came to Ole Miss. I was very mechanically minded and enrolled in Civil Engineering. I was doing fine until I asked a question in an ex-Nazi’s room and he said, “If you had a few grey cells to rub together, you would know it.” The class laughed and I hushed. I did take Theory of Determinate Structures from a very nice fellow who was shocked that I “aced” his first test as well as the whole class. I could not, however avoid the fear I had for most and didn’t finish. I have from them on, wasted the talent and wished I could find that coach. As I am 72 he is probably gone. If you see a situation like this, please, please stop it and don’t let another “kid” fail from this.
Discipline was my weakness this year for sure!! Does anyone know of a book that introduces rules? Not a cutesy one that talks about first day nerves, I need a read aloud that will help me as I introduce class rules. Does anyone know of any they could recommend? I teach Kinder. I'm going to post on the K board as well, thanks in advance!
pennyI love the book "Kevin knows the rules" for introducing my class rules each september. It's a whole group read aloud to read to your class, I find it very helpful, hope you do too.
On 6/15/10, Leah wrote: > Click below for an article that you may find helpful
If you are having trouble with discipline in the classroom, I suggest reading this easy to read manual that focuses on real life situations not that text book theory that we studied in college. The name of the book is Secrets of Classroom Behavior Management by Mamie Jefferson-Hill You can find it on Amazon.com for only $10.00
Now that I am returning to the classroom, I'm curious what discipline plans have worked for folks and how they manage their classes. I was going over Lee Canters Assertive disciple, which has some good ideas. He suggests you point out the positive rather than negative. I think most discipline and management systems agree on respecting students, praising good behavior, and setting expectations early. However, when a child acts up Canter would suggest you might say, "Billy I need you to sit in your sit so you can finish your lesson". If Billy doesn't comply the teacher would write his name on the board and say nothing. If the behavior continues you might put a check by his name. Then perhaps if the behavior still continues, you would add a check and say " billy you have a choice, you can either remain in your seat quietly for the rest of class or you can spend 30 minutes with me after school today". If Billy continues to act up he gets a third check and the teacher calls home in class to arrange detention that day.
This sounds great but there are a few problems I see. Canter suggest you call the kid's home and tell a parent Billy has to stay 30mins after school. Canter says if the parent doesn't agree or makes excuses then tell the parent "Billy either can stay with me for 30mins today or an hour on whatever day is arranged. It's much more effective if the punishment is on the same day". Another problem I see with this is that sometimes the numbers for parents do not work or they are not available. Then what? Also, what if the parent just isn't cooperative? Furthermore, what if you have several troublemakers in one class and multiply that by 5 or 6 classes. Then do they all stay after the same day? It could almost turn into a party for them. Sometimes it can be hard to phone parents during class and if they hear a rowdy class they will think you have no control.
I encountered issues like this at my last school, but in truth there was no teacher support and teacher authority was undermined by administrators. It was not unusual to have several major troublemakers in one class. Would Canter's approach be appropriate for for ages k-2?
I think this could possibly be more effective if the teacher sends home a beginning of the year letter or contract stating the discipline process and if children misbehave in class they have to stay after school for some type of detention the same day. That way parents have a heads up and they can't complain that they didn't know.
Is he doing well academically? Usually not... and if he's not, success woos this kid and most others. Contrive some success for him in some way. Athletically, academically - doesn't matter. Find a way to give him some small leadersh...See More