On 6/04/11, HootOwl wrote: > As a middle school teacher, I've found classroom meetings > to be very productive. The students are in charge of the > meeting, and they have been taught how to express concerns > about another students' behavior in a respectful and a > problem solving manner. Many times the disruptive student > is surprised to hear that his/her behavior was bothering > his/her friends. Building a classroom community where this > can occur effectively takes some work early in the school > year, but it's well worth the time.
This year started out with one class I dreaded most days. These two girls and one boy were buddies in ele. school and now were in MS sixth grade. From the moment they showed up, they were very disruptive. Most of the days, it was the three dominating over the class of well-behaved, quiet students. One girl was very loud, tried to dominate the conve...See MoreThis year started out with one class I dreaded most days. These two girls and one boy were buddies in ele. school and now were in MS sixth grade. From the moment they showed up, they were very disruptive. Most of the days, it was the three dominating over the class of well-behaved, quiet students. One girl was very loud, tried to dominate the conversation. The other girl was very low SpEd, refused to do most work, tapped her pencil all of the time, a thorn in my side. The boy was 6' tall, tried to be funny, most of the students did a good job at ignoring him- until I'd have to address his behavior. When the SpEd girl went to MX for three weeks, the other two settled down a little, but then the boy got in trouble in the hallways (bullying) and he was absent a few days when he was in ISS or absent. The third girl was able to try to control her loudness and behavior if I mentioned getting ahold of her homeroom teacher. Things quieted down for awhile and when the SpEd girl returned from MX, miraculously she had a change of heart. She tried her best, was concerned about her grade, would do do-over work after I'd individually work with her a little. We had a class meeting one day after the boy had actually hurt someone in the hallway and had OSS. We arranged the seating chart to help him when he would be returning and I told them we had to help him out since he was in trouble. Soon after, two days before the end of the year, he was kicked out of school due to slugging another boy in the hallway. The last two days were pretty quiet with him gone. I have requested that the two (boy and loud girl)be separated next year and hopefully the registrar remembers to send one or both to the other ESL teacher's class. The SpEd girl was held back in this level 3 class, but the other two will proceed to level 4 and both of us teachers teach a level 4 class.
On 6/04/11, MaryB wrote: > This year started out with one class I dreaded most days. > These two girls and one boy were buddies in ele. school and > now were in MS sixth grade. From the moment they showed > up, they were very disruptive. Most of the days, it was > the three dominating over the class of well-behaved, quiet > students. One girl was very loud, tried to dominate the > conversation. The other girl was very low SpEd, refused to > do most work, tapped her pencil all of the time, a thorn in > my side. The boy was 6' tall, tried to be funny, most of > the students did a good job at ignoring him- until I'd have > to address his behavior. > When the SpEd girl went to MX for three weeks, the other > two settled down a little, but then the boy got in trouble > in the hallways (bullying) and he was absent a few days > when he was in ISS or absent. The third girl was able to > try to control her loudness and behavior if I mentioned > getting ahold of her homeroom teacher. Things quieted down > for awhile and when the SpEd girl returned from MX, > miraculously she had a change of heart. She tried her > best, was concerned about her grade, would do do-over work > after I'd individually work with her a little. > We had a class meeting one day after the boy had actually > hurt someone in the hallway and had OSS. We arranged the > seating chart to help him when he would be returning and I > told them we had to help him out since he was in trouble. > Soon after, two days before the end of the year, he was > kicked out of school due to slugging another boy in the > hallway. The last two days were pretty quiet with him gone. > I have requested that the two (boy and loud girl)be > separated next year and hopefully the registrar remembers > to send one or both to the other ESL teacher's class. The > SpEd girl was held back in this level 3 class, but the > other two will proceed to level 4 and both of us teachers > teach a level 4 class.
On 6/04/11, Montana K-1-2 wrote: > It is sad but true that we as teachers can tell when a child is > headed down the wrong road. What is the best approach to telling > parents that their child needs to go to reform school or military > school before it is too late? > > > > On 6/04/11, iteach8thgrade2 wrote: >> Sadly, that may be the case. Several years ago, I had an >> exceptionally unruly class of boys. As they left the Middle >> School and went on to the High School, they continued the >> disruptive/self-destructive behavior. Occasionally, in the Crime >> Section of our local paper, those names pop up for local crimes. >> Sometimes, no matter what the intervention, these kids doom >> themselves to their fate. Sad, but true.
On 6/04/11, Teresa wrote: > I teach seventh grade and I had a student this previous > year that spent more time in out of school suspension and > in-school suspension then he did in the classroom. He > constantly blurted out, cursed, refused to do work, would > get in fights on a regular basis, and frankly didn't care. > He has been in and out of the STAR program (boot camp) > which is a program of juvenile court services. He acts out > at home also--stealing and sneaking off. I hate to give up > on a child but finally I had to since even the STAR program > booted him out--he is going to end up a statistic in our > court systems unfortunately.
One of the first things that is consistently suggested as an intervention while collecting data is using visual cues. (or photos of the child doing the indicated model behavior - Clip art takes up less drive space) Rather than make a pest of myself & ask the teachers that have access to Boardmaker, I hunted the internet to find my own. What. An. Undertaking.
Anyway - I've only been able to have marginal success with using them. Has anyone used them and been successful?
The most annoying disruptive students are those who beg for a better grade throughout a class period in which they could be working for the better grade. Yikes--the irony!
When I’m working with a small group of students at the reading table, I don’t like to be interrupted by other students. Nonetheless, there will be three or four of them who feel it’s critical that they share some need, issue, or concern immediately. And although you would think that just asking everyone to not bother the group would do it, experience has taught me that it doesn’t. So, as opposed to trying to suppress their energy for sharing their needs, I figured out how to redirect it instead...
After reading about his technique, I am excited to try it. What a great way for students to have the ability to voice their concerns/issues without interrupting you and still get "what they need" from you
I can usually spot them. They give little clues away on the very first day. Rules and guidelines and consequences mean nothing to them. They thrive on creating chaos. How to stop them before they start? Ideas will be greatly appreciated and I will pass them on to my colleagues.
On 6/04/11, Kelly Z wrote: > I can usually spot them. They give little clues away on the > very first day. Rules and guidelines and consequences mean > nothing to them. They thrive on creating chaos. How to > stop them before they start? Ideas will be greatly > appreciated and I will pass them on to my colleagues. > > Btw, I teach MS (7th and 8th graders)
On 6/12/11, Lynde wrote: > I'm with you. I too teach middle-school. Typically, it's the > boys more often than the girls. One thing I've tried that > seems to help a little bit is to stand near them even on the > first day. A "nail" them right off the bat. I gently put my > finger to my lips to acknowledge that I'm well aware that they > are beginning to talk during Teacher Directions/Instruction, > and that they must wait. My goal is to let them know that > I "have them in my sights" and that they can expect > consequences from me. I had the best year ever this year and > I think this helped contribute to that. I'd be greatly > interested in more and better suggestions as well. > > > On 6/04/11, Kelly Z wrote: >> I can usually spot them. They give little clues away on the >> very first day. Rules and guidelines and consequences mean >> nothing to them. They thrive on creating chaos. How to >> stop them before they start? Ideas will be greatly >> appreciated and I will pass them on to my colleagues. >> >> Btw, I teach MS (7th and 8th graders)
My concern is with how disruptive the rude remarks and arguing can be- both students continue to complain and deny that they can be heard and are disrupting the class. Even after calming down, they will not admit to having disrupted the class. It hasn't worked to get them to be aware of how disruptive they are, they deny it and seem convinced they can't be heard by others when they complain. They are also quick to point out everyone else's mistakes. Both of them have such pride that they hate to be wrong- I *never* shame them although they seem to take it that way- but a simple correction or redirection seems to set them off and the disruption affects the whole class.
The point made about students using the first two strikes as 'freebies' was a good one, too.
Re: Joyce's comment- I see what you mean about good answers to students satisfying whatever need prompted the argumentative circumstance. Here is a specific example of one such running complaint that persisted even when I addressed it: today , I told one of these students to work on the spelling he missed and he complained that he wanted to work on his book report instead, saying he wouldn't have time to get it done by tomorrow. I told him that there was time scheduled for that at the end of the day and he still brought up the topic throughout the day. When the time to do book report work in-class came, he brought it up again, saying something about this is what he wanted to do before and would there be enough time now. Even when getting what he said he wanted and being told there was time set aside for it, he still had the complaining and arguing approach. He had to sit for quite some time before he was able to do his spelling, he was so upset that I didn't let him do the book report instead, and he kept complaining and muttering angrily. He did finally start the spelling after I ignored all the complaints. I get tired of having to ignore the daily complaints, though.
It always helps to know the students' age - it's a different matter when an 6 year old argues and a 16 year old and has to be handled differently.
That said I have encountered some few students - who are usually Asperger's - who cannot correct their behavior. No matter what is done, they return to it. Their behavior is hard- wired within them but as I said, these students are most often coming from some traumatic situation as the recent death of a mother or they have significant cognitive impairment such as Asperger's. Nevertheless, all we can do is try and hope it makes a difference. Not just for our sake but for the student's sake as well because life is much better lived when you don't go through it throwing things and screaming.
Have you pointed out to both these students that they mostly argue with you? Have you asked "Why is it you always choose to argue? This is a small matter yet you're arguing and indeed, John, you've spent the year arguing. Why? Does this work for you? Because I have to tell you, John, I like you but I am worn out from the constant argument. I make reasonable requests, all other students accept the instruction as reasonable but you consistently choose to engage in heated argumentn with me. I really need to know why and you really need to think about why you do this."
Dialogue works best for me, getting to the bottom of it, encouraging, even insisting, that the student be reflective about their behavior and the motivations for it.
Then too be very up front when you are corrected in class - when you are wrong - and we all are - say that to the class and model it for everybody. "I'm wrong - I thought art was next but it's not. Everybody is wrong sometime and this is my time to be wrong. Now, wonderful students, how am I handling that? Am I upset? Or am I grateful that someone pointed out my mistake? Do I argue with Natalie that she's wrong and art must be next? Or do I say, thank you Natalie!"
Model the behavior you expect from them and be overt, open and up front with them that you are indeed modeling the behavior that we all should display.
And I'll ask open questions - "John, after you scream, are you happy that you screamed and threw something? Nothing changed as a result of that except that you made other students and me unhappy. Does it make you happy to make others unhappy? I'd like you to think about that and we'll talk again but in my experience, a good person like you John is never made happy by making others unhappy."
Good luck.
> > > My concern is with how disruptive the rude remarks and > arguing can be- both students continue to complain and deny > that they can be heard and are disrupting the class. Even > after calming down, they will not admit to having disrupted > the class. It hasn't worked to get them to be aware of how > disruptive they are, they deny it and seem convinced they > can't be heard by others when they complain. They are also > quick to point out everyone else's mistakes. Both of them > have such pride that they hate to be wrong- I *never* shame > them although they seem to take it that way- but a simple > correction or redirection seems to set them off and the > disruption affects the whole class. > > Any suggestions?