Please help me asap!

by Katherine

Jun 25, 2009

I am not a teacher nor counselor but i really need your help because i do not know who to turn to about this and do no want to make the wrong decision.

I was over at my neighbours' home (wife and husband around 40 years old) while my parents were away..(i'm 14) We were sitting at the table drinking tea and watching tv and i feel somebody's hand grab the inner part of my thigh from under the table.. and it was the man's hand!! i was so shocked! i didn't make a sound because i didn;t want the wife to get in an arguement with her husband so i just took his hand and pushed it away from me. Should i just leave it at that and not tell anyone? i was wearing shorts because it was hot and maybe he thought i wanted to seduce him? He's known as a good doctor here and it just makes me feel like i can't trust people with decent professions *gag*...anyways...i do not think it's smart to tell my dad because he's a professional martial art's guy and can kill him if he finds out.

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I hope this helps! I can see where you would feel weird telling your parents b/c you don't want to start any drama. If it is really bothering you, you do need to talk to someone, b/c it can effect the way you think and deal with realtionships (any form of relationship) down the road. If you don't feel comfortable talking to your parents you do need to talk to someone...See More

Jul 5, 2009

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Anne #1 it was not your fault and you did nothing wrong.

#2 Do not ever be alone with this man!!!

#3 Talk to your mom since you are fearful of what your dad might do. See what she suggests you do.

#4 Be aware that if it is ever pubic, it will be his word against yours and you will probably be made to look like a fourteen ye...See More#1 it was not your fault and you did nothing wrong.

#2 Do not ever be alone with this man!!!

#3 Talk to your mom since you are fearful of what your dad might do. See what she suggests you do.

#4 Be aware that if it is ever pubic, it will be his word against yours and you will probably be made to look like a fourteen year old with an imagination.

On 7/05/09, I hope this helps! wrote: > I can see where you would feel weird telling your parents b/c > you don't want to start any drama. If it is really bothering > you, you do need to talk to someone, b/c it can effect the > way you think and deal with realtionships (any form of > relationship) down the road. If you don't feel comfortable > talking to your parents you do need to talk to someone > (counselor, another adult you are close too). Yet, your > parents will be very understanding, and you need to explain > to them how you feel. If he did this to you, he probabaly has > done this to others as well. > > > On 6/25/09, Katherine wrote: >> I am not a teacher nor counselor but i really need your >> help because i do not know who to turn to about this and do >> no want to make the wrong decision. >> >> I was over at my neighbours' home (wife and husband around >> 40 years old) while my parents were away..(i'm 14) We were >> sitting at the table drinking tea and watching tv and i >> feel somebody's hand grab the inner part of my thigh from >> under the table.. and it was the man's hand!! i was so >> shocked! i didn't make a sound because i didn;t want the >> wife to get in an arguement with her husband so i just took >> his hand and pushed it away from me. Should i just leave it >> at that and not tell anyone? i was wearing shorts because >> it was hot and maybe he thought i wanted to seduce him? >> He's known as a good doctor here and it just makes me feel >> like i can't trust people with decent professions >> *gag*...anyways...i do not think it's smart to tell my dad >> because he's a professional martial art's guy and can kill >> him if he finds out.

Jul 16, 2009

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More advice I also understand why you feel afraid to tell your parents about this, but you really need to do that. The reason I say that is what happens if your parents want to leave you with them again? The next time may be something worse. Understand it is nothing you did wrong, but unfortunately this sick person decided to prey upon someone younger. Chances...See MoreI also understand why you feel afraid to tell your parents about this, but you really need to do that. The reason I say that is what happens if your parents want to leave you with them again? The next time may be something worse. Understand it is nothing you did wrong, but unfortunately this sick person decided to prey upon someone younger. Chances are this is not the first time it has happened with him, nor will it be the last unless someone talks. Even though your dad is a martial arts guy I would think he is professional enough not to do anything stupid to this guy and let the authorities handle it.

On 7/05/09, I hope this helps! wrote: > I can see where you would feel weird telling your parents b/c > you don't want to start any drama. If it is really bothering > you, you do need to talk to someone, b/c it can effect the > way you think and deal with realtionships (any form of > relationship) down the road. If you don't feel comfortable > talking to your parents you do need to talk to someone > (counselor, another adult you are close too). Yet, your > parents will be very understanding, and you need to explain > to them how you feel. If he did this to you, he probabaly has > done this to others as well. > > > On 6/25/09, Katherine wrote: >> I am not a teacher nor counselor but i really need your >> help because i do not know who to turn to about this and do >> no want to make the wrong decision. >> >> I was over at my neighbours' home (wife and husband around >> 40 years old) while my parents were away..(i'm 14) We were >> sitting at the table drinking tea and watching tv and i >> feel somebody's hand grab the inner part of my thigh from >> under the table.. and it was the man's hand!! i was so >> shocked! i didn't make a sound because i didn;t want the >> wife to get in an arguement with her husband so i just took >> his hand and pushed it away from me. Should i just leave it >> at that and not tell anyone? i was wearing shorts because >> it was hot and maybe he thought i wanted to seduce him? >> He's known as a good doctor here and it just makes me feel >> like i can't trust people with decent professions >> *gag*...anyways...i do not think it's smart to tell my dad >> because he's a professional martial art's guy and can kill >> him if he finds out.

Aug 21, 2009

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