I think it may be more common for women teachers to relate with students where personal matters are shared, but I'm not sure. I have no real interest in these kids' lives outside of school, I just assume their lives are mostly messed up. Why do I need to know the details? That's the parents' problem. I'm interested to hear thoughts on the subject from other teachers.
"When you are done with your assignment, you can make me a birthday card. Here are all the supplies you need."
One teacher I know follows kids around and says "where's my senior picture?" or "where's my invite to your grade party."
He gets a lot more picture and invites than I do.
Nan
On 5/20/14, are they comfortable wrote: > On 5/15/14, MikeBSC2000 wrote: > On the subject of chirpy teachers: > > One of my colleagues has a bunch of posters that students > created for him for his birthday. They're all decorated and > everything. So now I am again confused. What kind of > teacher is this that inspired a bunch of high school kids to > make these heartfelt giant-sized cards? It's like what they'd > make for a family member. I'm not sure how the guy actually > teaches. Personality-wise he's not very interesting. He is > chirpy and a goody-two-shoes. Does this guy never bust > kids for horsing around, talking, not doing their work, etc.? If > I was that nice to inspire cards in high school (strictly an > elementary school thing in my opinion) I would probably > have to allow kids to walk all over me. Anyone have similar > situations at their school? Or a plausible explanation?
are they comfortableOn 5/25/14, Nan wrote: > Sometimes the teacher literally asks for it. > > "When you are done with your assignment, you can make me a > birthday card. Here are all the supplies you need." > > One teacher I know follows kids around and says "where's my > senior picture?" or "where's my invite to your grade party." > > He ge...See MoreOn 5/25/14, Nan wrote: > Sometimes the teacher literally asks for it. > > "When you are done with your assignment, you can make me a > birthday card. Here are all the supplies you need." > > One teacher I know follows kids around and says "where's my > senior picture?" or "where's my invite to your grade party." > > He gets a lot more picture and invites than I do. > > Nan > > On 5/20/14, are they comfortable wrote: >> On 5/15/14, MikeBSC2000 wrote: >> On the subject of chirpy teachers: >> >> One of my colleagues has a bunch of posters that students >> created for him for his birthday. They're all decorated and >> everything. So now I am again confused. What kind of >> teacher is this that inspired a bunch of high school kids to >> make these heartfelt giant-sized cards? It's like what they'd >> make for a family member. I'm not sure how the guy actually >> teaches. Personality-wise he's not very interesting. He is >> chirpy and a goody-two-shoes. Does this guy never bust >> kids for horsing around, talking, not doing their work, etc.? > If >> I was that nice to inspire cards in high school (strictly an >> elementary school thing in my opinion) I would probably >> have to allow kids to walk all over me. Anyone have similar >> situations at their school? Or a plausible explanation?
I hadn't thought of that but it's certainly a good explanation. Thanks!
And don't the others deserve to be educated as best we can? What is society's responsibility? I serve them all as best as I can. I came to see that as my responsibility and - I'm going to blush a bit to say it - as my gift. I found in my subject matter(s) there were very specific things I could do, things I could change that tore down walls and built bridges instead.
So much of school is moving information around... from the board to their notes, from the book to their notes, from their notes to an essay or blanks to be filled in on a page. I saw history and literature as being so much more than that.
Our tough teacher's department has required classes - students don't have to choose his class but they have to take three courses in his department. Nevertheless, it seems that students do elect classes in your department though not required and if you have tenure then you've been there long enough to have it. So this isn't new for you. I'd wonder why these questions are newly troubling you or if they've troubled you for a while.
LD kids and lazy - I'd recommend a book called The Myth of the Lazy Child. I raised one very bright son who had very severe learning disabilities. They way we teach is often not the way they learn. And if you're teaching secondary, they've had years of struggle. On the whole, despite all the IEPs and layered laws, we serve LD kids very poorly because it's very difficult in a traditional model of school to serve them well.
There are significant philosophical issues underlying this discussion. 'Tough Teacher' as you see him believes he is best suited to educate the elite - the brightest ones - and he is well suited to that. He sees them as the new leaders of the next generation.
And I don't see anything wrong with that but he needs me to keep him in a job... we can't keep a healthy enrollment aiming at just the very bright ones. And I can take a seemingly lazy and definitely discouraged and depressed LD kid and show that student that he can learn. Some of my turn around kids take 'Tough Teacher's class later on.
You might need a cheering section... we have one teacher who's half-hated and half-worshiped. It's how his classes fall out and for all his detractors, he has an equal number of supporters. Sometimes you have to be your own PR person.
When I started to institute interesting changes in my curriculum, I told parents - and truthfully - that I was going back to an older model of instruction - nothing so powerful as the past. Had I not said that, there would have been fallout - 'what crazy nonsense is this'!
Quote Socrates ' Wisdom begins in wonder' and "So does this class. What are you wondering about? If nothing, find something to wonder about!"
You have your stance, you're committed to it, borrow some quotes of the ancients to explain it. People need a way to thing about things, they need a way to understand things.
Truthfully though I get why any student these days, LD or not, would be mired in hopelessness. I was raised in a very different time - it was post WWII - the country was on a high, everyone was happy and hopeful. Anything seemed possible. Gas was 15 cents a gallon...
Now cars cost what houses used to cost. One American President was shot down in plain view and another was impeached and yet another should have been. How many wars have we fought these past several decades?
We've gone from Eisenhower - the hero of the western world - to 9/11. We were the saviors of civilization in 1945 and became of the most disliked countries on the planet. And even our lean and hungry kids tend to weigh far too much...
My sons are old enough to have children and I seriously wonder whether they should. There's some quote I can't quite remember - 'they live in a world they never made' and how even the lean, hungry and bright ones would ever remake it is beyond me. My parents' generation was fairly called 'The Greatest Generation' and mine has handed this generation nothing but a deck stacked against them it seems to me.
But those are entirely different philosophical issues though they play a significant role in my teaching. Much good luck with yours.
He sounds like he goes out of his way to be tough. That's not me, but I do challenge all my students and I do have more success overall with the serious students. To be clear, their level of academics isn't the determining factor in my class, but their willingness to learn. It just so happens though, that many of those kids with LD at our school are also lazy and hopeless. They literally will do nothing in my classes. Fortunately this is only a few kids overall, so they are not a factor.
As to why weaker students enroll: Sometimes they're interested in the subject matter and sometimes it's what fits into their schedule. The nice thing is that when you have a reputation for being a little tougher than many other teachers at your school, the lazy kids will tend to stay away. I'd say I've gone from being a teacher that many students would really dislike to being one that there aren't any strong feelings about amongst the majority. So I've definitely improved in the social area as I've applied myself to it. I'll never be Mr. popular, but hopefully I have a positive impact on the kids who have a solid future.
are they comfortableOn 5/03/14, Steve wrote: > The teacher I describe is not me. I have an entirely > different stance than does he. If every teacher in our > school were like him, we'd have very few students. No > community - that I know of - has only 'lean and hungry and > very bright' children. Most communities have a range of > abilities. And my ...See MoreOn 5/03/14, Steve wrote: > The teacher I describe is not me. I have an entirely > different stance than does he. If every teacher in our > school were like him, we'd have very few students. No > community - that I know of - has only 'lean and hungry and > very bright' children. Most communities have a range of > abilities. And my school is a charter though a fairly long > standing one drawing from a wide range of communities - if > we only admitted the 'lean and hungry bright ones' there > wouldn't be jobs for 5/6ths of the faculty. > > And don't the others deserve to be educated as best we can? > What is society's responsibility? I serve them all as best > as I can. I came to see that as my responsibility and - I'm > going to blush a bit to say it - as my gift. I found in my > subject matter(s) there were very specific things I could > do, things I could change that tore down walls and built > bridges instead. > > So much of school is moving information around... from the > board to their notes, from the book to their notes, from > their notes to an essay or blanks to be filled in on a page. > I saw history and literature as being so much more than that. > > Our tough teacher's department has required classes - > students don't have to choose his class but they have to > take three courses in his department. Nevertheless, it seems > that students do elect classes in your department though not > required and if you have tenure then you've been there long > enough to have it. So this isn't new for you. I'd wonder why > these questions are newly troubling you or if they've > troubled you for a while. > > LD kids and lazy - I'd recommend a book called The Myth of > the Lazy Child. I raised one very bright son who had very > severe learning disabilities. They way we teach is often not > the way they learn. And if you're teaching secondary, > they've had years of struggle. On the whole, despite all the > IEPs and layered laws, we serve LD kids very poorly because > it's very difficult in a traditional model of school to > serve them well. > > There are significant philosophical issues underlying this > discussion. 'Tough Teacher' as you see him believes he is > best suited to educate the elite - the brightest ones - and > he is well suited to that. He sees them as the new leaders > of the next generation. > > And I don't see anything wrong with that but he needs me to > keep him in a job... we can't keep a healthy enrollment > aiming at just the very bright ones. And I can take a > seemingly lazy and definitely discouraged and depressed LD > kid and show that student that he can learn. Some of my turn > around kids take 'Tough Teacher's class later on. > > You might need a cheering section... we have one teacher > who's half-hated and half-worshiped. It's how his classes > fall out and for all his detractors, he has an equal number > of supporters. Sometimes you have to be your own PR person. > > When I started to institute interesting changes in my > curriculum, I told parents - and truthfully - that I was > going back to an older model of instruction - nothing so > powerful as the past. Had I not said that, there would have > been fallout - 'what crazy nonsense is this'! > > Quote Socrates ' Wisdom begins in wonder' and "So does this > class. What are you wondering about? If nothing, find > something to wonder about!" > > You have your stance, you're committed to it, borrow some > quotes of the ancients to explain it. People need a way to > thing about things, they need a way to understand things. > > Truthfully though I get why any student these days, LD or > not, would be mired in hopelessness. I was raised in a very > different time - it was post WWII - the country was on a > high, everyone was happy and hopeful. Anything seemed > possible. Gas was 15 cents a gallon... > > Now cars cost what houses used to cost. One American > President was shot down in plain view and another was > impeached and yet another should have been. How many wars > have we fought these past several decades? > > We've gone from Eisenhower - the hero of the western world - > to 9/11. We were the saviors of civilization in 1945 and > became of the most disliked countries on the planet. And > even our lean and hungry kids tend to weigh far too much... > > My sons are old enough to have children and I seriously > wonder whether they should. There's some quote I can't > quite remember - 'they live in a world they never made' and > how even the lean, hungry and bright ones would ever remake > it is beyond me. My parents' generation was fairly called > 'The Greatest Generation' and mine has handed this > generation nothing but a deck stacked against them it seems > to me. > > But those are entirely different philosophical issues though > they play a significant role in my teaching. Much good luck > with yours. > > > > > > > > He sounds like he goes out of his way to be tough. That's not > me, but I do challenge all my students and I do have more > success overall with the serious students. To be clear, their > level of academics isn't the determining factor in my class, > but their willingness to learn. It just so happens though, > that many of those kids with LD at our school are also lazy > and hopeless. They literally will do nothing in my classes. > Fortunately this is only a few kids overall, so they are not a > factor. > > As to why weaker students enroll: Sometimes they're interested > in the subject matter and sometimes it's what fits into their > schedule. The nice thing is that when you have a reputation > for being a little tougher than many other teachers at your > school, the lazy kids will tend to stay away. I'd say I've > gone from being a teacher that many students would really > dislike to being one that there aren't any strong feelings > about amongst the majority. So I've definitely improved in the > social area as I've applied myself to it. I'll never be Mr. > popular, but hopefully I have a positive impact on the kids > who have a solid future.
I have also noticed that there is a group of really committed students who actually want to be challenged. For them, I am the best kind of teacher. But I have also heard that even when some students fail a chirpy teachers class, they still want to have them as teachers the following year. So clearly, emotional comfort wins the day when it comes to motivating students. Subject matter interest for them, as well as even grades for some, are secondary matters.
But there's no question about it: I do better with more advanced, or at least more hard-working students. This is because I don't sugarcoat things. I challenge them and I have high expectations for all of them. At the same time, the notion that "all kids can learn" is a generality that is misleading to the point of being meaningless. What it really is, is that kids learn when ready. "When the student is ready, the teacher appears." Closed minds cannot learn. So thinking that one should spend time on the losers who sit around every day with their heads on the desk refusing to work, because they may suddenly become inspired, or that if you constantly encourage them they may wake up to reality is a silly idea. Yes, that could happen. Yes, a kid could look back years later, and think "That was the only teacher who believed in me". But realistically, we need to think about how we are directing our energy. We have to try with every kid. But we also need to recognize when we are wasting our time, and how better to spend it in the classroom. Fortunately, the real nothing students (and by the way, this isn't a judgment about the whole kid, just the student part of their identity) are a very small minority.
As for the 50% who have D's and Fails, again, tough luck for them. They choose not to do the work. It's a conscious choice, and when it doesn't make me angry, I am left indifferent. The justice in the situation is that these kids will have to pay for their bad judgment later by working harder and earning less. Too bad.
> > I have also noticed that there is a group of really committed > students who actually want to be challenged. For them, I am > the best kind of teacher. But I have also heard that even > when some students fail a chirpy teachers class, they still > want to have them as teachers the following year. So clearly, > emotional comfort wins the day when it comes to motivating > students.
I'm not following the logic there. If they fail a chirpy teacher's class, why would they pass your more rigorous class? They stay with the chirpy teacher because they have nowhere to go. They failed the easier teacher's class - it would be foolish of them to come to yours which has a reputation as being challenging. I can't see that as 'emotional comfort' - I'd see it as the student having nowhere else to go. Unless you have a reputation as a 'turn-around teacher', weaker students rationally should fear to take your class.
> But there's no question about it: I do better with more > advanced, or at least more hard-working students.
Then you've found your niche and it's lined with tenure. No teacher is the right teacher for every student.
This is > because I don't sugarcoat things. I challenge them and I have > high expectations for all of them. At the same time, the > notion that "all kids can learn" is a generality that is > misleading to the point of being meaningless.
I think all people can learn - rocks can't learn, people can - but I see many of our present day practices and policies as not fostering learning. Modern kids are different and we won't be winding the clock backwards on that anytime soon. We're baying at the moon hoping 1955 will return.
What it really > is, is that kids learn when ready.
There we'd begin to have significant philosophical issues. I have the same issues with modern medicine - the I can't do anything about it. Ultra modern medicine is trying to come to grips with the concept - and how to do it - that behavior change is a part of the physician's job. My son is a primary care physician in a teaching hospital where they are working to train young physicians in behavior change. Is it enough to tell a patient that smoking is harmful and then say you've done your job? How do people change? What induces people to change their habits and live a healthier lifestyle?
Not everyone can do that but it's how I teach. Fortunately we have small classes - never more than 25 and sometimes 21 - and I can know the kids as individuals and 'tweak' the class.
I was a teacher before my son was a physician but one day when he had yet another ear infection, I asked - why do you always weigh a child when we're only coming in for an ear infection not a physical? The doctor asked, "How is it you think I titrate the dose of antibiotics?"
Don't you give it on the basis of their age? (I don't teach science...) He looked at me kindly despite my ignorance and said, "No, five year olds come in different sizes. If I gave the same dosage to every five year old, it would be too much for some and not enough for others. I need to know what they weigh - today - not at their last visit."
I took that home and thought about it. That's what we do in school every day. We had out the same assignment to 20+ kids despite the face that they can have very different skill levels and skill sets. And I stopped doing that but to do it differently requires a fair bit more work.
"When the student is ready, > the teacher appears." Closed minds cannot learn.
I encounter that problem in my history classes not as much in Lit/Language Arts. There are adults as well as their children who blindly cling to ideas so as the perfection of the Constitution... it was slammed together in 12 weeks but no matter, the Founding Fathers were godlike etc.
You must teach history as well. But as I read on, I'm sensing bitterness. Your musing tone is gone and your concern with the chirpy teachers as well.
Because with elective classes as you've said yours to be - why are these kids taking your classes? And why would you worry or care if they don't?
There's something else not being said. Is what underlies your concern a state test issue?
So thinking > that one should spend time on the losers who sit around > every day with their heads on the desk refusing to work, > because they may suddenly become inspired, or that if you > constantly encourage them they may wake up to reality is a > silly idea. Yes, that could happen. Yes, a kid could look back > years later, and think "That was the only teacher who > believed in me". But realistically, we need to think about how > we are directing our energy. We have to try with every kid. > But we also need to recognize when we are wasting our time, > and how better to spend it in the classroom. Fortunately, the > real nothing students (and by the way, this isn't a judgment > about the whole kid, just the student part of their identity) > are a very small minority. > > As for the 50% who have D's and Fails, again, tough luck for > them. They choose not to do the work. It's a conscious > choice, and when it doesn't make me angry, I am left > indifferent. The justice in the situation is that these kids will > have to pay for their bad judgment later by working harder > and earning less. Too bad.
On 6/07/12, Trina wrote: > Bonjour, I am a middle school French teacher who loves her > job. however my enrollment is going down and so is my > allocation. I would love to stay in teaching ( in spite of > it all). I am willing to go back to school to add a degree > or certification in order to stay in the education field, > as long as I can keep working. Time and money is pretty > tight as I have a set of preschool twins. Any ideas on > certification to peruse to keep me in teaching? And > no....unfortunately I don't speak Spanish. Mercy,
i am due to teach at a STEM school and in researching books I came across a site offering books for $1.45 a piece or around that price with a minimum order of $100. Now I can't find the website....anyone know of a similar site... I want to order a class set
Living in a dorm can be fun-filled, but issues will arise. Resident Advisors (RAs) play an important role in improving the resident life experience. They educate the students on co- existing in a dorm to ensure a peaceful atmosphere. Whether you are an RA managing a floor-full of bright-eyed freshmen or a high school counselor preparing his/her students for the transition to college living, here are few tips you can suggest.
Set ground rules for living together. Roommates come from different backgrounds. Setting rules from the inception can help avert and avoid conflicts. Once rules are discussed and laid out, there should be little excuse for disrespectful behavior between roommates.
RA Is a Friend Indeed A Resident Advisor plays different roles. She/he can be a conflict mediator and sort out issues between roommates. She/he can be an event coordinator planning fun activities for residents. As authoritative figures they must ensure order is maintained at all times by enforcing codes of conduct levied by the university. As a caretaker, they ensure students feel warm; helping with the transition from home to dormitory living. Resident assistants are student leaders who can change students’ lives. Although there may be perks to being an RA, more often than not, RAs decide on this position to help. Those intending to be a role model for others with a heart of compassion acquire this role. For this reason, students must respect RAs.
Character Qualities Needed Even if a student manages to find the perfect roommate challenges are inevitable. Maintaining a warm, friendly relationship is important to ensure a cordial living situation. Here are key quality characteristics that will help foster this type of atmosphere:
Communication: In order to maintain a good relationship, students must communicate openly with their roommates and sort out issues without delay. When students have a “room-sharing” concern and keep it to themselves, misunderstanding will increase due to mounting frustration. Guidelines such as shared common space, visitor time and space, hours of silence, housekeeping duties and shared items should be discussed and agreed upon. Lack of communication is an incubator for resentment and fights.
Consideration: Consideration is another quality lacking in the current generation. When students treat peers the way they want to be treated, there will be no room for misunderstanding. For example, if a student is sick and could not perform their room chores, what treatment would they expect to receive from their roommate? That should be the treatment to give the roommate as well.
Flexibility: Sometimes, there may be a need to change the guidelines or adjust the rules. It is important to do what make sense and works for all involved. This way, students can help each other and the relationship will grow stronger.
Respect: Giving respect goes hand in hand with consideration. When a person can’t respect their peers, refuses to understand them or treat them properly it will be problematic. Degrading roommates for being different is a definite no no. Every student will have different personal issues as well. This should be respected. Students can use differences as way to grow in loving others different from themselves.
Summary Yes, there will be disagreements in the roommate relationship, but they do not have to turn into full blown clashes. With effort, and the help of the RA, the relationship can be cherished. When striking the right cord, roommates can become good friends even lifelong friends who lend a hand or shoulder when needed.
TOOLS FOR THE INTERACTIVE ACTIVITY 1. Road To College Success Game About 40 minutes of play needed
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PREP 1. From the Life Choices card deck pull only the Dorm related questions (all questions labeled 1.x).
2. From the Chances card deck remove all cards labeled 2.x, 3.x, 4.x and
5.x. Cards remaining will be the Dorm cards and the cards that deal with
money transactions.
3. Follow the simulation as outlined in the rules.
POST ACTIVITY
1. Have students INDEPENDENTLY jot down their thoughts on following question.
You are in a small dorm room that has 2 beds, 2 desks, 1 big closet and a small walk area. The bathroom is shared by an adjoining room that also has two students. What ground rules would you personally want to set for the following?
Sharing room space -
Sharing food -
Cleaning duties –
Having unexpected guests –
Study time / Quiet time –
2. Afterwards, team students up in groups of 3 or 4 to compare their lists. Their job is to come with 1 set of ground rules that would help the team in this living situation.
Anyone have any experience with pre-IB (International Baccalaureate) program? I'm going to be teaching Inquiry Skills for the first time this year. From what I gather, it's basically note-taking/study skills and writing an Action Research Paper. Curious about other people's experiences.
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barbie dollOn 7/10/12, Matt wrote: > As summer break comes to an end, I found myself looking for > good lesson plans. I have searched free lesson plan sites, > however I always felt that they ended up lacking in content > and were super hard to search. I stumbled across > [link removed]
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"When you are done with your assignment, you can make me a birthday card. Here are all the supplies you need."
One teacher I know follows kids around and says "where's my senior picture?" or "where's my invite to your grade party."
He gets a lot more picture and invites than I ...See More