Re: 4 year old not in school yet

    catch a lot of little things that adults just miss or have
    grown thick skin to ignore."

    That is so true! They also don't tell us everything, for a
    variety of reasons, so all we have really is their intuition, and
    perhaps a change in their behaviour or attitude about school. My
    son faced a lot of bullying from a Teacher's assistant in
    kindergarten, I didn't understand what was happening until I
    witnessed her yelling at him and belittling him in the hallway.
    He had started to cry anytime we read stories at home, before
    kindergarten story time was fun and he would ask questions and
    make comments about the story- not so much in kindergarten.