n 10/19/11, Marie wrote: > None of our teachers walk kids outside. We wait with them > near the front doors and side door and when the bell rings > they either walk out to a car or walk to a spot where most > parents are waiting for them. > > > On 10/19/11, Sarah wrote: >> Can you describe how you dismiss your walkers at the end of >> the day? We started a new thing this year where if parents >> want to pick up their children, the teacher will walk the >> kids to the back of the school and meet the parents. Well, >> today it was rainy and freezing, and I had a hood, but my 5 >> kids didn't. I would much rather have the parents come to >> me at the door. We have a large school, but this could >> probably be done. I really don't look forward to walking >> through the snow! What do you do?
On 10/19/11, Same Here wrote: > We only walk them out if we're assigned bus duty. > > > n 10/19/11, Marie wrote: >> None of our teachers walk kids outside. We wait with them >> near the front doors and side door and when the bell rings >> they either walk out to a car or walk to a spot where most >> parents are waiting for them. >> >> >> On 10/19/11, Sarah wrote: >>> Can you describe how you dismiss your walkers at the end of >>> the day? We started a new thing this year where if parents >>> want to pick up their children, the teacher will walk the >>> kids to the back of the school and meet the parents. Well, >>> today it was rainy and freezing, and I had a hood, but my 5 >>> kids didn't. I would much rather have the parents come to >>> me at the door. We have a large school, but this could >>> probably be done. I really don't look forward to walking >>> through the snow! What do you do?
Or, have him lay out 17 counters and then count out 9 and place a pencil to the right of it. The number of the counters on the right of the stick represent the mystery number. > > >>
On 10/19/11, ron/nj wrote: > > He has math homework with 2 given numbers and find the > third. For example: _____ + 9 = 17. I want to make a > simple visual aid to help with the counting. I can use > pennies or poker chips, but need an idea on something to > implement it. The problems on his hw sheet use a scale with > weights. Maybe I could make a simple seesaw? I'm a retired > shop teacher but am lost in this second grade black hole. > Throw me a rope, LOL. I was glad to see tnet has a second > grade board. You may see me here again later in the school year. > > thanks, Ron
Anyway, I had contacted Mom and at first she was very supportive. After a couple more emails her tuned changed and she accused me of picking on her child. She feels these behaviors are normal and says she has never had a problem with her son and his past teachers. This is the kicker - she wrote that she knows her son is not listening to me but wonders what the underlying issue is (with me, I'm assuming).
The tone of her email was quite nasty and I'm going to meet with her soon. Please give any advice to me if you have any suggestions for what kind of comments to make. I really want to defend myself and explain more of his behaviors (had 5 complaints from other kids the last two days), but I have a feeling I can't win in this situation. I feel she's going to turn everything back on me.
I am a student going for my A.S Degree going into my second year, and right now I am working on an assignment that is requiring me to ask "How teachers have dealt with conflicts they have had with parents." Your subject is a prime example of conflict between a parent and the teacher. I think that parent's should ask "What can I do?" Instead of putting the blame on the teacher. Comming together as the child's parent and the child's teacher is a better way of comming up with a solution to the problem. Do you agree? And what are some things that you have tried in the past with this kind of subject?
SaraOn 12/05/11, Alysia wrote: > On 11/13/11, Have a plaque made for your wall: wrote: >> Attention Parents: If you are unhappy with your child's grades, >> behavior reports, or anything else his teacher does or says, you >> are not the first to believe IT IS ALWAYS THE TEACHER'S FAULT. >> >> GOOD PARENTS ask, "What can...See MoreOn 12/05/11, Alysia wrote: > On 11/13/11, Have a plaque made for your wall: wrote: >> Attention Parents: If you are unhappy with your child's grades, >> behavior reports, or anything else his teacher does or says, you >> are not the first to believe IT IS ALWAYS THE TEACHER'S FAULT. >> >> GOOD PARENTS ask, "What can I do?" THE OTHERS say, "It's your >> fault! > > I am a student going for my A.S Degree going into my second year, > and right now I am working on an assignment that is requiring me to > ask "How teachers have dealt with conflicts they have had with > parents." Your subject is a prime example of conflict between a > parent and the teacher. I think that parent's should ask "What can I > do?" Instead of putting the blame on the teacher. Comming together > as the child's parent and the child's teacher is a better way of > comming up with a solution to the problem. Do you agree? > And what are some things that you have tried in the past with this > kind of subject?
What you think parents should do is a way of creating conflicts. What are you really asking? How conflicts should be handled? Not be entering into them with a set of expectations as you're doing.
As professionals, do we have any responsibility for problem solving??? Why are we paid if it's only to wait for parents to ask "What can I do?" Would you go to a doctor who said nothing but waited for you to ask, "What can I do, doctor?"
Parents are not in the classroom - we are. That said, handle a conflict with a parent by being a good listener. Treat parents like taxpayers - they are. As a teacher, become a problem-solver. Tell the parents that you want to solve the problem, not just share it with them. Be open to what they have to say. Be cordial.
If you establish good relationships with your students and their families, you will go a long way toward not having conflicts with parents.
Proactively is the way to handle any conflict - not just with parents - but in life in general. Anticipate the problems and build good relationships that will work for you, not against you, when problems arise.
On 11/11/11, KathyB wrote: > It is not free, but you can print a wealth of fluency passages from > Reading A to Z. They aren't too long and they are all leveled, so > you are insuring success. > > > > On 11/08/11, Chena wrote: >> >> Gina, I do exactly the same thing, over the protests of 2 of the >> other 3 second grade teachers. These teachers thought this > was >> too demanding, but the kiddos have really taken to it and love to >> see their progress. These below grade level kiddos need to do >> MORE, not less than their peers. >> >> On 11/06/11, Gina wrote: Children do repeated readings >>> of one passage for a week and each night they chart their >>> words read. On the botton of the page is a space where they >>> record the number of words read each day M-F. At home they set >>> a timer for 1 minute, read and chart their progress. They love >>> to see how much faster they read the passage on Friday >>> compared to Monday. Each week they begin a new passage. >> >>
Freka Wolters teacher groep 6 ( children 9/10 years old) > > On 11/08/11, Chena wrote: >> >> Gina, I do exactly the same thing, over the protests of 2 of the >> other 3 second grade teachers. These teachers thought this > was >> too demanding, but the kiddos have really taken to it and love to >> see their progress. These below grade level kiddos need to do >> MORE, not less than their peers. >> >> On 11/06/11, Gina wrote: Children do repeated readings >>> of one passage for a week and each night they chart their >>> words read. On the botton of the page is a space where they >>> record the number of words read each day M-F. At home they set >>> a timer for 1 minute, read and chart their progress. They love >>> to see how much faster they read the passage on Friday >>> compared to Monday. Each week they begin a new passage. >> >>
Am looking for a printable learning styles inventory for my kids. Does anyone know of any? A while back someone said there had been one with pictures for younger kids. Can anyone help? Thanks!
Some of you have sent wonderful emails as I fight the good fight with breast cancer and I really appreciate your kind thoughts. My journey through radiation is almost over and there won't be any looking back! Thanks again!