What kind of strategies do teachers need for classroom discipline? I need your opinion. I'm trying to learn new strategies. If your a parent or teacher please respond.
LauraI am a recently retired teacher with 35 years of teaching behind me. During those 35 years I never had any problems in the area of classroom management....I just didn't. Teaching a classroom full of kids just came naturally to me. Since my husband passed away I decided to substitute at the local elementary school. I can't believe the horrible behav...See MoreI am a recently retired teacher with 35 years of teaching behind me. During those 35 years I never had any problems in the area of classroom management....I just didn't. Teaching a classroom full of kids just came naturally to me. Since my husband passed away I decided to substitute at the local elementary school. I can't believe the horrible behavior of the students!! They are disrespectful, rude, lack basic manners, do not listen (in fact, they blatantly ignore me when I speak), get out of their seats on a whim, cannot keep their hands off each other, yell rather than speak in a normal voice, etc, etc, etc. I could go on but you get the picture. I only retired last June, so it's not like I've been living under a rock. As I said, I never had any problems managing a classroom of 25 students. Now I'm at my wit's end. I have tried just about everything possible including punishments, loss of privileges, visits to the principal, etc as well as reward systems like giving points for good behavior. The bottom line is.....they just don't care!!! They are simply apathetic. They don't care about punishments and they don't care about rewards. I thought I would like the work to help keep busy as well as the extra money but I don't know what to do. I really hate to let these little brats get me down after so many years in the field! Can anyone help?
On 5/19/12, Chris wrote: > What kind of strategies do teachers need for classroom > discipline? I need your opinion. I'm trying to learn new > strategies. If your a parent or teacher please respond.
I've never been an actual teacher, but I'm sort of in your boat. I've been subbing ever since I finished my program and got a teaching license. It seems like the kids are trained to disrespect the sub. It's really discouraging. I work pretty hard to get respect where I sub, but I still don't do as well as the regular teachers. I think they feel like whatever they do with a sub doesn't count. The work won't be graded; the behavior won't really be punished, and the teacher won't take the sub's complaints seriously. Perhaps it's all a game to the kids. This should not be, though. I didn't go to college for all of those years to be walked on.
On 5/28/12, Laura wrote: > I am a recently retired teacher with 35 years of teaching > behind me. During those 35 years I never had any problems in > the area of classroom management....I just didn't. Teaching a > classroom full of kids just came naturally to me. Since my > husband passed away I decided to substitute at the local > elementary school. I can't believe the horrible behavior of > the students!! They are disrespectful, rude, lack basic > manners, do not listen (in fact, they blatantly ignore me when > I speak), get out of their seats on a whim, cannot keep their > hands off each other, yell rather than speak in a normal > voice, etc, etc, etc. I could go on but you get the picture. > I only retired last June, so it's not like I've been living > under a rock. As I said, I never had any problems managing a > classroom of 25 students. Now I'm at my wit's end. I have > tried just about everything possible including punishments, > loss of privileges, visits to the principal, etc as well as > reward systems like giving points for good behavior. The > bottom line is.....they just don't care!!! They are simply > apathetic. They don't care about punishments and they don't > care about rewards. I thought I would like the work to help > keep busy as well as the extra money but I don't know what to > do. I really hate to let these little brats get me down after > so many years in the field! Can anyone help? > > > > On 5/19/12, Chris wrote: >> What kind of strategies do teachers need for classroom >> discipline? I need your opinion. I'm trying to learn new >> strategies. If your a parent or teacher please respond.
DancefeverOn 5/20/12, Chris wrote: > Do you feel that disciplining kids today is easier or > harder than back in the day? Why? Who's fault is it to > blame?
Retired TeacherMuch harder today! "Back in the day" teachers used to have parents' support. If the student was punished in school he would receive additional punishment at home. Now, there is no support for the teacher. Any punishments or forms of discipline are usually overturned by the principal in response to parents' complaints! Also, kids today are so street...See MoreMuch harder today! "Back in the day" teachers used to have parents' support. If the student was punished in school he would receive additional punishment at home. Now, there is no support for the teacher. Any punishments or forms of discipline are usually overturned by the principal in response to parents' complaints! Also, kids today are so street-wise that they know that they have "rights". "You can't make me do that...I don't have to do this"..."You can't make me do this"..."Ny Dad will get you fired"...etc, etc, etc. Teachers also constantly have to weigh their words; in other words, they have to be careful how they word things because the kids may mis-interpret them and go home and tell Mommy and Daddy that Mrs. Jones said.......! Teachers also have to be careful of any kind of physiacal touching, even if it's just an innocent, simple tap on the top of a kid's head. The kid may go home and say "Mrs. Jones hit me on the head" or "Mrs. Jones was rubbing my head" (sexual nature). It's a rotten situation. Teachers always have to be one step ahead of the game in order to keep their rear ends covered and avoid being fired! I retired and have never been happier!
On 6/13/12, Dancefever wrote: > On 5/20/12, Chris wrote: >> Do you feel that disciplining kids today is easier or >> harder than back in the day? Why? Who's fault is it to >> blame? > > Harder. Too much freedo
From what I’ve read, I know I am approaching this the wrong way, but what would you suggest? I have a teaching credential and was hoping to enter as a first time teacher, but I’ve had to take jobs substitute teaching. I’m signed up with an automated system my city uses, and the majority of the assignments it offers me are at the middle school level. My teacher preparation program mainly prepared me to teach high school.
I’ve found that during subbing, although the high school students do try to take advantage of me occasionally, I usually have a better time with them. I can interact with older teens comfortably, tell jokes that they understand, trust them to talk without insulting each other and tearing each other to shreds emotionally, and allow them out of the room without worrying that they are up to mischief.
Contrast this with the middle school students! It’s mostly inner-city, and they are an honest headache. If I try to ignore them and let them concentrate on their work, they will make silly comments about the way I look and the way I’m dressed. If I try to speak to defend myself, my low voice will be mocked by some attention-seeking student who wants to make the class laugh. If I allow them to talk, they will constantly insult each other; it must be painful for the students receiving that kind of treatment. I know I don’t even like it, and I’m an adult, and forget allowing them out of the room in most cases. They are so immature that they will go to other teachers’ rooms and try to start conversations with their buddies! I’ve even been in some middle schools where the students would find out that they had a sub and try to tear the classroom up by standing on desks and throwing books at each other. It is an honest headache!
What I usually do when I sub middle school is make a seating chart when I call roll so that I know how to identify the students. Then, I explain my rules, “no talking”, “don’t get out of your seat without permission”, and “respect yourselves and others.” I give them two warnings, and if they continue to violate my rules, they are put out of the classroom and sent to the office. I sometimes have horrible things happen in my classroom, though, such as students mocking me mercilessly, silly pranks being played in the classroom, accusations of racism, and profanity being scrawled on the board when I’m not looking. Also, sometimes whole groups of students violate my rules. Since I can’t punish the whole class, I usually find one or two to send to the office as examples. I guess this is a bad system, but they won’t let me approach them in a laid-back manner. They treat me like an intruder, really.
I’ve read Harry Wong’s “The First Days of School”, but I do not see how it applies to substitute teaching. I’ve brainstormed ideas for my classroom based on the experiences I’ve had as a sub, and, although I think I can do a better job that I've done in the past, I haven’t really found an answer. Right now, I can sometimes keep order by being mean, but they obviously resent me for it. What’s going on here? Would someone give me an idea of the students’ perspective?
More about me: I’m a white female in my mid-twenties. According to the kids, though, I look like a teenager.
Thsnk you for a reasonable estimate of the students' perspective. Are you a middle school teacher? What would you recommend I try next time I'm at one of these schools?
On 5/29/12, Jeb wrote: > On 5/28/12, lostsubteacher wrote: > > You're a stranger and you don't look scary or imposing and > they've been taught to distrust strangers and they resent a > total stranger coming in and messing up their fun. And they > don't care about anyone's teaching credential. They do see you > as an intruder. > > Subbing isn't easy and there are no quick fixes or magic > solutions. Everybody has their own karma and nobody can teach > every classroom in every school. > >> >> I’ve even been in some >> middle schools where the students would find out that they >> had a sub and try to tear the classroom up by standing on >> desks and throwing books at each other. It is an honest >> headache! > > that's not a 'honest headache'. It's downright odd that you > would describe students throwing books at each other while > standing on desks as an "honest headache". >> >> > > >> >> I’ve read Harry Wong’s “The First Days of School”, but I do >> not see how it applies to substitute teaching. I’ve >> brainstormed ideas for my classroom based on the >> experiences I’ve had as a sub, and, although I think I can >> do a better job that I've done in the past, I haven’t >> really found an answer. Right now, I can sometimes keep >> order by being mean, but they obviously resent me for it. >> What’s going on here? Would someone give me an idea of the >> students’ perspective? >> >> More about me: >> I’m a white female in my mid-twenties. According to the >> kids, though, I look like a teenager.
I know that I have complained a lot about middle school students and their immaturity in the past, but before you write me off as a "troll" just trying to start a commotion, please listen to what I have to say, because I really do want to do well wherever I am employed, whether it is a high school or middle school, assuming I get a job teaching at all in this city.
Last year, I graduated from a teacher education program in my city and got my teaching license. I was understandably very excited and went and applied to almost every school I could think of. I got plenty of interviews but no call- backs. I signed up as a substitute teacher in interim to hopefully get more experience with the students. At first, I took mostly high school assignments and, although I was pretty naive and the students took advantage of me, kind of enjoyed it.
Later, I started taking middle school assignments. Needless to say, things did not go very smoothly. Most of the middle schools were inner-city schools, and the students literally seemed to think they could do whatever they desired when there was a sub; I had no control over them. My first few days doing middle school, I kind of dismissed their childish and rude behavior, but, as time went on, and I started accepting more middle school assignments, things got worse.
My seating charts didn't work, because they would get up and move around while I was calling roll. They also got angry with me when I identified them by name or called them out for bad behavior. Instead of the students accepting that they did wrong, the students would frequently argue with me, or worse, ignore me like they did nothing wrong at all. They seemed to enjoy causing chaos and making me anxious and would sometimes find pranks to play in protest of me being in the classroom. I had no idea how to respond to all of this, and sometimes ignoring it would only cause them to make more noise and try to get me into trouble. As
I tried everything that I could, but nothing really ever worked well. I brought candy to give to the good kids, but sometimes the kids would fight over it or misbehave anyway and then beg for candy. I found nothing but chaos and disruption at almost every middle school in the area. There was loud talking, rude things said to me and their classmates, and an unbelievable level of immaturity; the elementary school students were better behaved!
Now, it's the end of the school year and I'm still without a teaching job. Why did those students react to me the way they did? I have a teaching credential, and I'm in grad school. I know my subject very well and can teach pretty well provided attention is paid to what I'm saying. I feel very insulted, and I kind of feel like I earned a college degree in Education for nothing.
I haven't hsd a lot of trouble with the high school students while subbing, but I wonder if that means anything. I feel like I need to be competent with middle school and high school students to be ready. What do I do if they completely ignore me, though?
A troll in the case of a chatboard is a person whose posts aren't real - they post just to post and often their questions don't quite make sense because they're not really who they pretend to be. They post repeatedly and there's a kind of badgering to their posts.
Sometimes on this board trolls are just lonely people with time on their hands. Sometimes it's people who seem to harbor a certain resentment toward teachers.
Ultimately a troll's posts often have the message of "Yes but you didn't answer my question" and they post again and again and they keep changing the story because that's the way they can keep the thread going.
Other times a troll might be a person who's not just lonely but also not quite mentally balanced.
On 6/06/12, not a troll wrote: > On 6/03/12, Laura wrote: >> Lostsubteacher - First of all, what is a troll? > > A troll in the case of a chatboard is a person whose posts aren't > real - they post just to post and often their questions don't > quite make sense because they're not really who they pretend to > be. They post repeatedly and there's a kind of badgering to their > posts. > > Sometimes on this board trolls are just lonely people with time > on their hands. Sometimes it's people who seem to harbor a > certain resentment toward teachers. > > Ultimately a troll's posts often have the message of "Yes but > you didn't answer my question" and they post again and again and > they keep changing the story because that's the way they can keep > the thread going. > > Other times a troll might be a person who's not just lonely but > also not quite mentally balanced.
What do you do if a student is making noise - whistling, tapping ... and it is distracting, but you don't know who it is? Do you stop the class to find out who it is? But they won't tell on each other (I teach high school). Do you punish the whole class? Any good suggestions? Thank you!
On 7/10/12, subbed with whistling student wrote: > Nothing that I suggested takes up more than a few seconds. I stand by my > suggestions regardless of whether you have been teaching 1033 years. > Blanket punishments give the culprit too much power over the rest of the > class. > > > > On 7/09/12, Michelle wrote: >> I realize it's different in middle school than high school but >> trying to figure out who's making the noise, engaging them in >> conversation and changing seats is wasting your teaching time, which >> is exactly what they want. I have had success with simply nipping >> it in the bud by telling them they have interrupted my lesson so >> they will pay the price. I realize that a "blanket punishment" is >> not fair but is sometimes necessary.....you might never figure out >> who the culprit is! This is my 33rd year of teaching and this >> method of dealing with the issue has never failed; if it does, then >> I just call an administrator to come in....it has never escalated >> the situation; and besides, that's what the administrators are paid >> for! I agree....never raise your voice or get visibly upset. >> Remain calm and continue with the lesson. Don't get down to kids' >> maturity level and argue with them...you're the mature one...you're >> the teacher! >> >> On 7/08/12, subbed with whistling student wrote: >> >>> My suggestions, learned through experience: >>> Do not show irritation, that is what they want. remain totally >> calm. >>> Do not punish the whole class. NOT FAIR. >>> Do not call the admin. This escalates the situation. >>> Usually you can tell the general area of where the noise is coming >>> from. Look for the student who has a fake overly innocent look >>> whenever you glance in his direction but does not look at you, >>> pretends to be totally intent on his work, etc. >>> Look away from him a couple of times, and if the noise starts >>> whenever you look away and stops whenever you glance back at him, >>> then you have found the culprit. If he asks, self-righteously, >>> "what are you looking at me for?" >>> Say, very calmly and casually, "Oh, I don't know. whenever I look >>> at you that strange whistling stops." He will act indignant. Tell >>> him to get back to work. At his point, someone else may make the >>> noise from across the room. Say, in a bemused manner, "Oh, it >>> looks like you have a friend!" Because you have remained calm, >>> most likely they will stop because you are not making it fun for >>> them by getting upset. >>> I agree with the previous poster about walking around a a lot, but >>> when I had the noise situation, they would start it whenever I >>> walked away from them. If need be,tell as the offenders to move to >>> different seats. If they ask why, just say, "Oh, I think maybe >>> you'll be able to work better over here." If they refuse to move, >>> calmly write them up for insubordination. Above all, remain >>> totally calm and non-confrontational.Do not raise your voice or >>> even use a mean tone. If you become visibly upset, you have lost. >>> >>> >>> On 7/07/12, Teacher1 wrote: >>>> Usually noises without a source happen when I am lecturing (I >>>> can walk around during group work and quickly figure out where >>>> the noise is coming from). So I will briefly pause, tell the >>>> class to stop with the weird noise, and then move on. It helps >>>> to constantly keep the kids on their toes by cold calling, >>>> walking around, asking students to come to the board, asking >>>> students if they understand, asking students to restate an >>>> explanation, etc. If they are paying attention and engaged, >>>> there is no room for off task noises. >>>> >>>> But if I have a student who is feeling particularly annoying >>>> that day, I will play this sound: >>>> [link removed]!
On 8/31/12, to miss passive agressive wrote: > You state that everything the sub said was wrong then > you say no reason to to > get hostile when she responds and end you post with a > passive aggressive insult. You're quite the piece of > work. Did you have to move around so because you > couldn't get along with others? > > > On 7/10/12, Michelle wrote: >> Whoa...no reason to get hostile!.... > That's my story >> and I, too, am sticking to it. When you land a >> teaching job and have some years' experience under >> your belt you'll be more equipped to argue your >> position.
I'm into my 3rd week of school and finally had some time to check the chatboards. Why no posts on this one since July? Isn't there anything to discuss?
.eople are tired of reading sick tails of beating kids......
On 8/26/12, Debbie wrote: > I'm into my 3rd week of school and finally had some time to > check the chatboards. Why no posts on this one since July? > Isn't there anything to discuss?
Also, I have a couple of "good" students who have told me that they can't concentrate in class and that they will be reading the book. I feel really bad when they say this, because is like saying, you can't handle this class.
I am not sure what to do. If anybody has dealt with this before and have suggestions. Thank you.
And guess what, do they WANT to graduate this year? Don't you dare give rude, disruptive students any breaks on their grades.
LOVE the extra credit for the kids who politely tolerate all the bullcrap they shouldn't have to put up with at school. Keep that up, and then massage your grading scale accordingly. There should be NO such thing in your class as a jerky, disruptive, selfish, inconsiderate senior ever getting an A or a B.
On 9/16/12, Steacher wrote: > Hi, > I am really getting stress with a group of senior class. > I have been teaching 9 and 10th grade (which I enjoy). But > this year I have been given a senior class. > This class is very chatty and get distracted very easily > (some of them have IEP). I know last year this seniors > gave a lot of trouble to some teachers. > This year, I talked to another teacher who teach them and > she told me that they are very chatty in her class too. > I already have given detention to some of the seniors and > they seem to not care. What I am doing now is recording > who talk the most everyday, because I could not pin point > who starts talking. Some of them have noticed and asked > what I am doing and I tell them that I am giving extra > credit to those who are working quietly. But I still have > around 7 or 8 that keep talking, even if I call their name, > give them detention or change seats. Is like they don't > care. My other option now is to start calling parents. > > Also, I have a couple of "good" students who have told me > that they can't concentrate in class and that they will be > reading the book. I feel really bad when they say this, > because is like saying, you can't handle this class. > > > I am not sure what to do. If anybody has dealt with this > before and have suggestions. Thank you.
A students grade is supposed to reflect to what degree they have mastered the material...period. Just because a student is quiet or does their classwork does not mean they have mastered the subject and deserve an A. Just because they are loud doesn't mean they haven't.
The reason grades are such a joke these days is because teachers are using them to reflect so many other things besides mastery...bringing in supplies, effort, participation, behavior, etc.
If you have a chatty class, work to make smooth transitions between activities, call parents, change seats, require students to come in outside of class time...but do NOT use their grade as a reward or punishment for behavior.
It is my first year in a new school. I had been teaching but decided to make a change in the population I work with. I currently work with low-cognitive high school students on the autism spectrum. It is a completely new experience for me, who up until this point, taught students at the other end of the spectrum. I have faced many new challenges, b...See MoreIt is my first year in a new school. I had been teaching but decided to make a change in the population I work with. I currently work with low-cognitive high school students on the autism spectrum. It is a completely new experience for me, who up until this point, taught students at the other end of the spectrum. I have faced many new challenges, but the one that fills me with the most anxiety is how to handle a paraprofessional that won't work. I am new to the school and don't want to stir the pot in an already somewhat volatile environment (lots of resentment and general meanness to the new kids on the block). Let me describe the para's behaviors: He either reads a newspaper all day or does something on a small notepad that involves stocks, and will occassionally talk about the need to own business because the econmoy is going to hell, my favorite, that administration is after him. So when I say, Hey Can you please work with so so. He acts shocked every time, completes the task for the student and goes right back to the paper. It is well known that this is a habit of his. I am not assertive and don't feel comfortable approaching him and saying, read you paper somewhere else. Advice please?
We are not a listening society - we're a talking society. People go about talking on their cell phones everywhere. People talk in church during the sermon and the last several college graduations I've been to the speaker could barely be heard over the talking and shouting.
Young children don't know how to listen to anything. They've never had silence in their lives. They've done nothing but watch television and play video games.
You have 1st graders - teach them how to listen but it has to be done in small steps - Rome wasn't built in a day. Go online - find a website that plays the sounds of animals and ask them to listen to the sound and check the animal's picture on a handout you've given them.
Even that short second of listening is a start on building listening skills - listening with intention.
And practice silence too - deliberately. Start with ten seconds - tell them they may tap out ten with their fingers or watch the second hand on the clock. Praise them and practice being silent for a few seconds more next time.
Tell them there are times in life when we need to be silent - like when we get married(they'll giggle) or when the doctor tells us what to do to keep from being sick - don't we want to hear that? Explain that's why you're teaching them silence and listening.
Are you an urban school? Doesn't matter - take them outside and let them listen to the sounds. They should put up a finger every time they hear a sound. If you're in a suburban area, kids often go - "wow, I never realized the birds were singing here at school before." Good luck.
I have high school seniors and juniors who won't stop swearing in front of me, usually during homework time. Any stimple suggestions for a quick and effective consequence?
DebbieOn 10/24/12, Sara wrote: > On 10/19/12, Sandy wrote: >> I have high school seniors and juniors who won't stop >> swearing in front of me, usually during homework time. Any >> stimple suggestions for a quick and effective consequence? > > Swearing has become a very casual thing in our society- though > you and I may wel...See MoreOn 10/24/12, Sara wrote: > On 10/19/12, Sandy wrote: >> I have high school seniors and juniors who won't stop >> swearing in front of me, usually during homework time. Any >> stimple suggestions for a quick and effective consequence? > > Swearing has become a very casual thing in our society- though > you and I may well not have jumped on that bandwagon. The 'f > word' was considered a violent obscenity years ago - it was > only said by very, very crude people or very, very angry > people. Now it's a joke word - you can hear it everywhere as > people walk down the street talking on their cell phones. The > language on television has relaxed and Howard Stern broke all > kinds of barriers on his radio show. > > To the kids, these swear words aren't swear words but to you > and me they are and to their future employers they might well > be. I'm still surprised when a colleague (!) comes into the > faculty room and casually mentions at the f-ing traffic on the > way in to school... > > How are the kids to know? > > Tell them. Our kids here think it's perfectly polite to > say 'what is all this crap?' - when did crap become a word for > polite discourse?? In our district we have little children > saying 'darn you' to teachers. > > Tell your students but nicely. I have a 'talk' with them that > goes like this. "I've been sitting here since September and > you know that I don't mind if you talk during homework time. > At all. But talking is one thing and dropping the f-bomb is > another (they get that phrase - f bomb) How you speak between > yourselves is one thing but I'm sitting here trying to do my > work while you're dropping the f-bomb left and right. > > It's not cool. We all have our ways of speaking privately but > this is a public, not a private, place. I'm not sure where all > you want to end up working but very few work places are places > where you can go around dropping the f-bomb and all the other > very colorful phrases and words that you use. > > If you think that I'm deaf, I'm happy to say that I'm not > though I am older than you are but not old enough to be going > deaf. So let's save our strong words for either stronger > occasions - nothing happening in here is so surprising that it > deserves to be sworn about - or save it for your private > conversations which you can't have in a public space like > this. " > > > You don't have to be angry about it - that's why we're here - > to teach them what's proper and not proper because they're not > learning it at home or anywhere else. > > After the 'talk', if they slip, I give them a look and they > always apologize - swear words are so embedded in their speech > and in their thinking that they don't think, they just say > them. Rome wasn't built in a day and we can't erase these > words from their speech in a day but I nicely but seriously > remind them every time they slip and with each week, they > remember more and slip less until we do achieve a four-letter > word free environment. This is an old post but well worth referring to. I tell my middle schoolers that we all talk different ways in different situations. I use myself as the example: "I talk differently to my friends that I would our principal. I say some things a certain way to my friends that I would never say to my principal. I'm sure that there are words that you would never use with your mother/father/grandmother/grandfather, etc. that is why there are certain words or ways to talk in the classroom. It's OK to say "yo, whz up" to your friends but not your teacher."
Many students are not taught this at home so they have to be taught this by us!