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My daughter is a very good athlete. She is in 10th grade and it's her second year on the varsity lacrosse team. Last year she split the position with one of the older girls. This year she is playing the full game and the other girl was switched to defense. The other girl isn't very good. She has been very nasty to my daughter, blaming her for everything. She blames my daughter for not getting back on defense quickly enough, even though it's obvious my daughter is running full speed, and when she misses simple passes from my daughter the blame game continues. My daughter truly is the better player. I'm not being biased. My daughter came home from the game today crying because this girl is constantly yelling at her on the field. If my daughter responds, the other girl's best friend jumps in. My question is do we encourage her to go to the coach or is this the type of thing varsity coaches don't want to deal with. My husband witnessed an incident today which was totally the other girls fa...See More
Steven On 4/22/09, Deb wrote: > My daughter is a very good athlete. She is in 10th grade > and it's her second year on the varsity lacrosse team. > Last year she split the position with one of the older > girls. This year she is playing the full game and the > other girl was switched to defense. The other girl isn't > very good. She has ...See More
Apr 25, 2009
Deb I'm not really sure what doesn't make sense. It absolutely is happening on the field. In my opinion there is a very easy way to stop it-pull the girl out as soon as the blame game begins but this coach doesn't have the guts to do the right thing. He is more concerned with being liked by everyone. He is aware of what is going on but I'm sure he does...See More
Apr 25, 2009
africa On 4/25/09, Deb wrote: > I'm not really sure what doesn't make sense. It absolutely is > happening on the field. In my opinion there is a very easy way > to stop it-pull the girl out as soon as the blame game begins > but this coach doesn't have the guts to do the right thing. He > is more concerned with being liked by everyone. He i...See More
May 5, 2009
Erin Your daughter definitely needs to make the coach aware of the situation. The coach is then aware of this behavior and can identify it when it happens. The coach can also ask your daughter's teammates about the incidents. This girl does not have to "like" your daughter, but should still respect her as a teammate. As a varsity coach for 10 years, I w...See More
May 19, 2009
Lauren On 4/25/09, Deb wrote: > I'm not really sure what doesn't make sense. It absolutely is > happening on the field. In my opinion there is a very easy way > to stop it-pull the girl out as soon as the blame game begins > but this coach doesn't have the guts to do the right thing. He > is more concerned with being liked by everyone. He i...See More
May 28, 2009


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