After two weeks of lots of babysitting and being unable to exercise, last week was much better. I went to the gym three times for walking; that's always fun in a small town where I so often see/walk with people I know. One night we watched a movie ("Flying Dutchman," an indie film available on Vimeo--produced by a former student of DH's, and a wonderful introspective piece with amazing scenic shots; the former student and an older man who was nearly blind took a bike/sidecar trip from Michigan to the Oregon coast), and I walked my 10K mostly in place.
We've had lots of snow, and no opportunity to walk outside, so one must be creative. Today, again, I walked the circle (which isn't a circle at all) in our house.
This week, warmer temps and no snow predicted. We're happy. We wished my FIL "Happy 94th" today, and all local family members were here. What a joyous occasion. Hosted by Pizza Hut. Ha!
men52Elaine: thanks for the response! No, I am not thinking of taking Taekwando anytime soon. I am considering it for the other two grandkids before they enter those difficult junior high years.
I work for a non-profit agency that works with trauma-informed care. While I AM an educator, I do not work in a "typical classroom." My supervisor is not an educator and I don't have a mentor in my grade level that I can talk with.
I am struggling with some difficult parent situations. All of my students have IEPs that list their goals. While the IEPs are very poorly constructed and often times not appropriately complete, I work to address the goals in them the best I can. Since the 2 classrooms in my program house students of varying abilities from 6-12 grade, I try to keep the content of my lessons "grade appropriate," but accommodate and modify my resources to meet their individual needs.
This takes HOURS upon HOURS of extra work both at school and at home (and I do NOT get paid comparable pay for this).
Currently, I have several parents who are unhappy with the specific contents being taught in the classroom. In my opinion, parents have no business dictating the content being taught in the classroom, as long as the teacher is teaching appropriate content and meet the goals set for the individual student. This is not the case and I am under way too much pressure for my measly pay to get this done. I've scrapped MONTHS of curriculum trying to work this out in my classroom.
Is there any advice for me on how to move forward? I am out of ideas.
men52Liz: I am so happy for you that you are getting the support you need right there. Hopefully that means you can get the nonsense under control and finish off the year in fine fashion. Glad I was of some help in some way!
So I was thinking the other day that we all have stories of failures in our roles as educators. Whether you have a single bad moment (a lesson plan that just DID NOT WORK), a bad class, or a whole bad school year, we all have had failures. Of course failing is not bad, but what is bad is not learning from it.
I think that we need to start sharing those and I want to start collecting them to do just that. My goal is to eventually have a collection of failures that shows that teacher's aren't perfect, we are just perfectly able to learn from our mistakes. What better way then to start opening sharing those stories?
If anyone would like to share a story for a future collection (which will eventually be collected and displayed on a website I am working on) please send them along to story@teacherfails.com. I plan on taking out all specific details to everything that is published so that we don't have to worry about it.
There is a privacy about winter that no other season gives you. In spring, summer, and fall, people sort of have an open season on each other; only in the winter, in the country, can you have longer, quiet stretches when you can savor belonging to yourself.
It's been a crazy two weeks with a grandchild in the hospital for two weeks(she's healthy now) but it was a two hour drive one direction and we had to deal with an ice Storm and snow for the drives. I had one day of jury duty, had a funky severe cold for four days and trying to find a new school for the teenager (and refused transfers this time a year by most school districts). Teen started new school two days ago and huge difference when one isn't getting bullied anymore. Now she can start learning again.
The teen also started martial arts classes during this time to help build led back confidence and higher self esteem. I think all of us are very ready to move forward and enjoy our much less stressful lives.
I hope those of you out there trying to stay with goals can report in so we can give our support!