Hope everyone is ...See MoreChecking in. It's been awhile. Everything is still going with staying with DM. A few dr appts and er calls, but we're hanging in there.
I am still walking and movin' most days! Eating road trip last week. Working on getting back on track with WW. today I spent extra time at pt place and have 6397 steps, so far.
Men, guess the lengthened route is good news/bad news. Good for the exercise and not so good for time management. Judy, I'm so sorry about the passing of your husband. You are a brave woman--never whining. Hugs to you as you reorient your life. Forty-two years are a long time. I wish you peace.
I've passed 10,000 3 days out of the last 7. Three times I was under 5,000. Babysitting, week-end company. etc. etc.
This is a bit long but bear with me, as I need advice, and want all the info available for review up front.
I am taking my students on a field trip (middle school) and have received horrible emails from parents who missed the deadline because they forgot, and are angry with me because I won't accept their late permission forms.
I posted the field trip permission form on the school website on sept 11. Most forms were complete, but there were still students without their form. No students may attend a field trip without the form for legal reasons. I emailed those parents who hadn't submitted on Sept 20 to let them know about the trip. I sent another email to each parent missing the formon Sep 29 reminding them, always including the link, as well as highlighting the strict deadline. Finally, I emailed the stragglers individually on Oct 6 that the forms had to be submitted by Oct 11. Also, from Sep 26 every single day I had students take a photo of the website link and text it to their parents, vociferously stressing to the students that I hadn't received their form.
I am taking 250 students over 2 separate days, and have to have waivers from each student for the venue completed and confirmed, organize the wrist bands with student info for every student, organize the medication, divide the students into 32 teams to form four balanced groups so the venue can accommodate the numbers, coordinate the chaperones, as well as coordinate with the venue to ensure they have all their requirements. I am doing this all by myself, and absolutely no assistance from the other teacher (another story, he screwed up so badly that he created more work) and have one week to turn around the information, and get everything completed.
I have had a number of parents contact me by email to berate me for not accepting their permission form that was submitted after the deadline date. After I explained the necessity for the deadline, they got nasty. One father brought out the old chestnut "I'm a lawyer" which didn't give him the desired effect, and has now written to the principal to request that the decision be overridden. In he his email, he was quite vicious about me and my "supposed" deadline, and that this was his first time dealing with such an uncompromising and unsupportive teacher. My correspondence with him was absolutely professional and respectful (I've been teaching for 10 years and was in the private sector for 20 years so I know how to conduct myself in these matters)
My principal is supportive and has said he will back me up. He was astounded when he realized the lengths to which I had gone to contact parents so my students could attend this trip.
What else am I supposed to do? How do I get parents to fill out the forms on time, and stress to them how important is the deadline?
I know there is nothing I can do about the parents who are disrespectful of the deadline, and feel an exception must be made for them. I am looking for suggestions on what else I can do to preempt getting the nasty emails, and make sure the parents don't overlook my request.
flackaYou have done waaaay more than what is required or expected. Don't let the parents put their lack of action back on you - they are looking for someone else to blame and you are it. Forward the nasty emails to the principal and don't for a second feel bad about it or blame yourself. I bet they won't forget the next deadline!
flackaI had about 80 days of unused sick leave when I retired. They paid me only 10% of what it was worth but there was no way I could or would use it all up. I did take some days off during my last year. Check with your district about getting some pay out for the unused leave. Most of my friends in other states got paid out at about 35% of the value.
Deb ms/IAI have a the same timeline! I am trying to schedule a time to meet with a retirement person at the state IPERS and I plan on attending a spring retirement planning session with the union. This should help make my planning a bit easier. Can you do the same?
The difficulty is that this is a pretty fast pace for middle schoolers, and my guys are not the most independent learners. They think we're going too fast, and I'm already a few weeks behind my optimistic pacing plan.
Thoughts about how to move a class quickly through US? We're using McDougal Littell's US History, and there's no problem with my bringing in outside sources.
School ...See MoreHi! I was able to go to spinning class (17.4 miles) this morning when they cancelled our IEP meeting scheduled for this AM. We had new music and it was a sweaty ride especially at the beginning with lots of hill "climbing". For some reason the new routine was only 50 minutes long so I rode another 10 minutes to get my hour's worth.
School is still going well. We have our staff meeting Monday and my classroom is in charge of meal. I tried out a new entree on the family last night and they gave its thumbs up: crockpot vegetarian Mexican taco casserole. I subbed veggie crumbles for the meat and it has black beans, corn, diced tomatoes with chilis, taco flavoring, garlic and onion - all over a bed if brown rice and melted cheese over the top. I thought Elaine has had that before.
We had a fabulous time in our football package weekend last weekend. It was really fun. I was ready for something like that.
judycaretHi! I walked hard today, pushing myself a bit. It felt good but it made me pretty lazy this afternoon. I cooked chicken and broccoli for lunch—I like a big lunch and snacky dinner.
men, I don't understand your "meal" assignment. Who are you feeding.
men52Judy: we are a small school and we have our monthly staff meeting right after class is over. The classrooms take turns providing the meal. It's my co teacher and my turn to feed the staff of seven.
Men, guess the lengthened route is good news/bad news. Good for the exercise and not so good for time management. Judy, I'm so sorry about the passing of your husband. ...See More