<h3><font color=green>The winter season is a time of joy and celebration; of friends and family. It’s a time of reflection and a time for renewal; a time to share the dream of peace upon the earth and harmony among all beings.</font>
Well, here's my latest: 1. Which, if any, of the winter holidays do you and your family observe and/or celebrate? 2. If you could afford it, would you retire at the end of this school year? 3. Describe a favorite winter holiday meal.
We'll be celebrating Christmas (and a little bit New Year's). This year our family celebration won't be until Dec. 29 (son's family will be away). We will observe Christmas Day by going to church and having dinner with my elderly mother and, possibly, a friend--low key.
2. If you could afford it, would you retire at the end of this school year?
i can afford it. I'm over the usual retirement age. And I'm seriously considering making this my final year.
3. Describe a favorite winter holiday meal.
I think my favorite would be a really good beef roast, mashed potatoes and gravy, green vegetable (beans? asparagus? broccoli?), maybe a good salad. Dessert is either peppermint ice cream and Christmas cookies or pecan pie.
Christmas (dinner and other family traditions on the evening of the 24th, gifts and pancakes on the morning of the 25th). Also New Year's Eve (sparkling cider and donuts and Times Square on TV).
> 2. If you could afford it, would you retire at the end of > this school year?
No, because I'm in my late 30's and I love teaching. But I've been teaching for 17 years and if money and health insurance weren't an issue, I might go half-day. I teach high school and teaching 6 courses this year (in a school where most teachers teach only 1 or 2 repeatedly throughout the day) is starting to wear me down. It is because of the subject areas I teach though so that's unlikely to change.
> 3. Describe a favorite winter holiday meal. Ham or turkey with dressing, mashed potatoes, fried okra, green beans, rolls, pumpkin pie.
No exercise for me today. And, I blame "life," not the cold--ha! We took the grands to Piz*** Hut for dinner tonight. "Sure, you can order spaghetti instead of pizza." What was I thinking? 4-year-old and 6-year-old. They should only eat pizza in the privacy of their own home. LOL.
We have been homeowners for nearly 40 years and are undertaking our first inside renovation project - our master bath. The top of the vanity will be "cultured granite" and we have many options, including a glossy or matte finish. It will be a dark gray or blackish color - any pros or cons to one finish or the other?
1. Is this child going through something in his/her own life to make them ask an adult this question? What was the tone of this question? Was the child happy to ask this question? Contemplative? or Sinister? If it was sinister there is something deeper going on. I say this from the experience of a foster mom and a teacher. If there was something evil in the way the student answered this it might be an indication of some deeper trouble or trauma that might need professional guidance. I have had foster kids that have asked something like this in my home that I always noted for social/case workers. I have had a kindergarten student ask me something like this that sent shivers down my spine I again noted it to the guidance and principal.
2. Is this a child who has great empathy or just curiosity towards others? Since I don't know the questions you were asking or any background of the child sometimes kids just ask stuff. Maybe they almost had an accident on the way to school one day and they got scared? Maybe they had a death in the family and they weren't sure how others were taking this death or how to handle death itself? There could be a trigger that brought up those feelings so he asked you.
I know this child's family well so I don't have any concerns. He is definitely a thinker. I had the most interesting conversations with him compared to all the others I am assessing. Prior to this question we had a great discussion about the beautiful full moon that was occurring at the time. His asking seemed to just come from curiosity and he was most delightful and happy throughout our time together. It was the genuine interest in me from a child this age and I was just so surprised by this question.
On 12/14/16, Deb ms/IA wrote: > I would take this question two ways: > > 1. Is this child going through something in his/her own > life to make them ask an adult this question? What was > the tone of this question? Was the child happy to ask > this question? Contemplative? or Sinister? If it was > sinister there is something > deeper going on. I say this from the experience of a > foster mom and a teacher. If there was something evil in > the way the student > answered this it might be an indication of some deeper > trouble or > trauma that might need professional guidance. I have had > foster kids that have asked something like this in my > home that I always > noted for social/case workers. I have had a kindergarten student > ask me something like this that sent shivers down my > spine I again > noted it to the guidance and principal. > > 2. Is this a child who has great empathy or just > curiosity towards > others? Since I don't know the questions you were asking > or any background of the child sometimes kids just ask > stuff. Maybe they > almost had an accident on the way to school one day and > they got > scared? Maybe they had a death in the family and they > weren't sure > how others were taking this death or how to handle death itself? > There could be a trigger that brought up those feelings > so he asked > you. > > > Deb ms/IA > > >
On 12/18/16, retired K teacher wrote: > I taught kindergarten in a school much like yours. For > most of these kids, this is their first time away from > home, having rules and > expectations, and being with a group of other children > the same > age. I ran a structured classroom with clear > expectations, and I > taught them the rules and procedures and they were in > place from > the first to the last day of school. Their homes are > often chaotic, > no adults are in charge, and the kids are running the > place. That > might be true at home but it wasn't the case in my > classroom. It > worked for me and if it works for you, then that's what > it should be.
I always check the web and try to shop on senior citizens day. Half off. If I get home and don't like it I donate it back.
Elaine