I feel that this is a form of students bullying teachers and threatening to make them lose their jobs if a teacher in any way disciplines them. I am not talking about inappropriate consequences, just assigning a new seat, sending a kit to walk around for a few minutes to calm down, or giving a detention.
How can I help a student in my class with his pretty severe ADHD. He is currently unmedicated and is making my lessons a struggle with his constant bad behaviour is there anyway i could fix this?
On 8/...See MoreRemember, students can be recommended for special education services for behavioral reasons, not just academic. Insist on formally starting the process immediately. This will include a written request, a series of meetings, formal observations by a psych professional. It is the school's duty to provide the services this child needs.
On 8/29/16, mamawardog wrote: > I am a first grade teacher. I have a student this year who > will scream at the top of his lungs for no apparent reason. > This was evidently an issue last year as well. When he is > asked to do something (work) he says he needs to go to the > restroom, he's hungry, etc. Anything to get out of doing > what he is asked to do. And when told that he can't get up > or go anywhere, he starts screaming bloody murder. My other > 24 students cannot learn in an environment like this.I have > tried being super firm, super nice, and have even called for > reinforcement at times (4 times today!) and nothing stops > the behavior. The parents are aware and obviously have no > discipline or behavior changing strategies for this child > because they just smile and say thank you when anything is > mentioned to them. My principal will come and talk to him, > and then she leaves when he is quiet. As soon as she is > gone, he starts screaming again. I am at my wits' end and we > have only been in school for 2 1/2 weeks! Does anyone have > any advice for me?? > P.S. Thank you for letting me vent!
Whether you're teaching first grade or twelfth, strong classroom management skills can go a long way towards setting your students up for success. The challenge is, effective classroom management extends far beyond the basics of establishing warm-up routines and perfecting your seating arrangement.
Public education has "childproofed" education, and we will regret it. As Dr. Mark Benden shared in our interview, “We will look back on the past generation and ask, ‘What were those people thinking making children sit still all day in school? Who thought that was a good idea?’"
A Scottish Primary School teacher friend of mine, who shall remain unnamed, has been having extreme difficulty with an incredibly troublesome, undisciplined Primary 5 child (Age 9) for over a year now.
This child is intelligent and has wonderful potential to be a brilliant learner and was much more productive in earlier years in school, however now is continually defiant and disturbed towards most instructions from his teacher.
This pupil is an avid gamer, which by all means is a wonderfully fun pass- time if precautions are taken to ensure the games are suitable for a 9-year- old, however, confirmed by his actions and conversations in class, the games he has been allocated are filled with violence, nudity and foul language - I'm not advocating for these games to be banned, I've played games of similar nature myself, but certainly not in Primary 5!
The Primary School my friend teaches at is very small (6 pupils) and has such a uniquely personal teacher to pupil attention ratio, that it creates a beautiful togetherness between everyone there - encouraging productivity, confidence in ability and resounding happiness.
The reason I mention this is this child is not only causing considerable turbulence in class, he, almost daily, returns to his home and tells extravagant, extremely exaggerated stories to his parents of how shockingly horrible and torturous his school day has been and, word for word, speaks of how he'd "rather die than return there" and "feels like killing himself". This behaviour is completely unaccounted for and certainly does not spawn from his school day. From both accounts from the teacher, and also having helped there for many hours at a time, I have seen how positive and fun- loving the pupils always are.
His parents, at first understandably, were very concerned about what he had to say and held talks with the Teacher to try and make sense of the matter. The teacher honestly and rightly presented that his perceived experiences were not at all how things actually occurred and, after this series of events continued for almost 3 months, suggested to them to speak to the Education Psychologist of the area as his issues were out of her professional depth.
Unfortunately, even with the Psychologist's guidance, the parents are convinced that the school is terrible and believe all of the exaggerated stories he tells them and are seemingly unable to question that he may be distorting the truth. For such a young person he has caused major turmoil in the school and my friend has been forced into the immoral predicament of having to tiptoe around a misbehaving child in fear of backlash from the parents.
The most pressing issue is that the parents are encouraging the child to do as he pleases in school and that he does not have to be involved in anything he does not want to be, meaning the child associates misbehaving with being praised by his parents.
My friend is becoming increasingly distraught with this whole dispute and I must find a way to help her.
If there is any advice and guidance you could pass onto me I would be eternally grateful!
Cash M.On 6/12/15, JGib wrote: > I am a new teacher and a substitute most of the time. This > week I substituted in a group I knew well. I did the usual > warnings, take the students aside,keep disruptive students > for a few minutes at recess, and messages to parents in > agendas if needed. > One of these students is well known to the s...See MoreOn 6/12/15, JGib wrote: > I am a new teacher and a substitute most of the time. This > week I substituted in a group I knew well. I did the usual > warnings, take the students aside,keep disruptive students > for a few minutes at recess, and messages to parents in > agendas if needed. > One of these students is well known to the school staff for > his behaviour. I got this phone call from the principal > warning me to handle this child differently and about some > incident. I had no clue what the incident was until he told > me. I had this group for the whole day and had tried > everything with this kid. I ended up asking his group if > they found his behaviour disruptive and they answered yes. > The student laughed and continued his behaviour. After which > I had him sit up front with me. Apparently he complained to > his parents and I was told that I am new at teaching, but > there are other ways of dealing with disruptive students. I > was a bit shocked. I do not think I did anything terrible. I > need some input from other teachers. Was I unreasonable in > my actions? Thanks.
You action was reasonable. However, that is beside the point. The Principal is bowing to parental pressure, so he has to make you wrong, in this instance, no matter what.
So you are morally right, and politically wrong. Ask the Principal what you should do next time. I am guessing you will get a wishy washy answer that covers his butt, without giving you any direct help.
Next time the student is disruptive after a warning, I would just call the office and say please send security to remove a disruptive student from the classroom. Then when you have a break, make sure you document what the student did and what warnings gave. Or just do not accept a job in a classroom with that student in it next year.
Marv Marshall, the author of Discipline Without Stress explains why he believes Class Dojo is a negative, unproductive system that should "go the way of the dodo."
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