Background - We have a 28 year old daughter (Debi) with Down Syndrome who we just put into a group home 3 months ago. Debi is fairly high functioning, reads at the early first grade level, is in a job skills program she loves and participates in bowling and Special Olympics gymnastics. Her speech is difficult to understand unless you have been around her due to partly (we believe) to un-diagnosed hearing loss when she was young. She was in our local public school district in SPED from age 3-22 and she loved it all. She mainstreamed 4th grade and half of 5th grade plus lots of classes in junior high and high school. We have an awesome district.
Debi had some behaviors at home that are typical with Downs but not good for the group home. At home she would take 1.5 to 2 hours to get ready for work in the morning. But at the group home that is too much time and gets mad when prompted to hurry up. Same with taking showers. Her unsupervised showers, hair drying, etc. can take well over an hour. At home Debi had a bedroom and bathroom all to herself with little incentive on our part to speed her up.
Note that when we have tried to teach Debi something we have had success by showing her and letting her do it...not by verbal direction only. She learns fast. She can do her own laundry and put it away, make her lunch, operate her CD/DVD players and her iPad (Netflix). She uses computer games almost every day.
We thought the group home caregivers would be able to deal with changing Debi's behaviors, but they are more like babysitters and they barely speak English (Note: we may be looking for a new group home soon).
If anyone has any suggestions for behavior modification or knows of any good books on the subject, feedback would be appreciated.
On 7/21/15, AM to OP and Kathy wrote: > Just so you know I am a parent of special needs child not > a teacher. > > I like Beth's idea. It seems the problem may be that she > has absolutely no sense of time. I found that positive > always works faster than negative with my son. She likes > Disney music so it can be positive, enjoyable and a game > to finish at the same time the music does. > > I think her caregivers also need to understand it can take > time for her to learn to adapt to any changes especially > in light of the big one of leaving home. I'm glad the > timer worked well a couple times but as a parent I have > learned not to get excited over something that works a > couple times. Even a broken clock is right two times a > day. > > What does Bob Rose teach or do? I've read some of his > posts and they seem to be out of the realm of real life. > > > > > On 7/09/15, Beth Special Needs wrote: >> Would your daughter be motivated by Disney music? Prehaps >> prepare a play list with enough music to last just long >> enough for her to get showered, dressed and ready for >> work at a leisurely , but acceptable rate. When she gets >> in the shower, the staff would start the music, but mute >> it. When she finishes getting ready,she would be able to >> un-mute the music and listen until time to go to work.
On 7/22/15, Kathy to AM wrote: > He has a website. Just google his name. Apparently ALL > children can learn to read if they can write the alphabet in > order in 40 seconds or something like that. When he is > challenged, he doesn't respond. I asked how that would work > with children with severe physical disabilities. No response. > He jumps on threads with his miracle "cure" for learning > disabilities no matter what the issue or question is. > Kathy > > On 7/21/15, AM to OP and Kathy wrote: >> Just so you know I am a parent of special needs child not >> a teacher. >> >> I like Beth's idea. It seems the problem may be that she >> has absolutely no sense of time. I found that positive >> always works faster than negative with my son. She likes >> Disney music so it can be positive, enjoyable and a game >> to finish at the same time the music does. >> >> I think her caregivers also need to understand it can take >> time for her to learn to adapt to any changes especially >> in light of the big one of leaving home. I'm glad the >> timer worked well a couple times but as a parent I have >> learned not to get excited over something that works a >> couple times. Even a broken clock is right two times a >> day. >> >> What does Bob Rose teach or do? I've read some of his >> posts and they seem to be out of the realm of real life. >> >> >> >> >> On 7/09/15, Beth Special Needs wrote: >>> Would your daughter be motivated by Disney music? Prehaps >>> prepare a play list with enough music to last just long >>> enough for her to get showered, dressed and ready for >>> work at a leisurely , but acceptable rate. When she gets >>> in the shower, the staff would start the music, but mute >>> it. When she finishes getting ready,she would be able to >>> un-mute the music and listen until time to go to work.
> correct answers to simple addition facts (like 6 + 8 = ?) > until they can give at least 40 per minute. Then they'll be > good at science and math. Further questions: email me at > [email removed]
With so few students, I am assuming that you have a pull-out resource setting. It is easier to work as a whole group but with different expectations. For reading, pick a genre like mysteries. Everyone will read a mystery. It could a toddler cardboard book, a big book up to a chapter book. What do all mysteries have in common, talk about character, theme, setting. All can contribute. In writing, use a piece of literature for the starting point. Go from drawing a picture and labeling with a word or two up to writing paragraphs. For math, all could be multiplying. Adding the same number using manipulatives up to multi digit multiplication. I've used this in both a resource setting 5-6 students as well as a self contained classroom 12-15 students with no assistant. It takes a lot of planning time, but it is worth it.
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caseyGood luck. I am in my 2nd year of unretired..working as PPT Chair part time (but really full time for part time pay). Only because I adore my administration and love my school. The kids are lucky to have you.
On 8/26/15, casey wrote: > Good luck. I am in my 2nd year of unretired..working as PPT > Chair part time (but really full time for part time pay). > Only because I adore my administration and love my school. > The kids are lucky to have you.
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